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ENJOYING SEX BY GIVING FALSE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE


Enjoying Sex with a girl by giving False Promise of Marriage is


CRIME and is a PUNISHABLE offense.


TIMES OF INDIA


dated March 16, 2008 Page 3 (Mumbai Edition)


Know the SIGNS to recognize such a BETRAYAL.

How to know TRUE LOVE?


Unfortunately, betraying trust is more common than you may believe. Those girls who are ditched have done all things sexually for him to please him and retain him. They cannot complain to any one nor can they punish him.
Tips for Teenage Girls

1.
THE MOMENT YOU BEGIN TO TRUST THE BOY IS THE FIRST SIGNAL THAT NOW YOU CAN BE DITCHED.
2.
YOUR BEST FRIENDS WARN YOU THAT THE BOY DOES NOT HAVE A GOOD CHARACTER AND CANNOT BE TRUSTED.
3.
THE BOY IS UNWILLING TO STOP HIS SEXUAL ADVANCES UNTIL YOU MARRY OR ARE FORMALLY ENGAGED.

BOY FACTS


THERE ARE MANY BOYS WHO WILL RUTHLESSLY USE YOU, ABUSE YOU AND YOU WILL NOT EVEN HAVE A SHADE OF SUSPICION ABOUT HIM UNTIL THE END WHEN HE THROWS YOU.


The common excuse
they give when they are about to ditch you is , "My parents have refused and _ _ _". They stop lifting the phone and they delete SMS.


Your trust
in his words, your trust in your love being so powerful that it will change his mind, your readiness to sacrifice anything for him are your weak points.


Such PREMARITAL affairs or AFFAIRS OF TEENAGERS
are widely prevalent.


Girls studying in College are snared by their BEST (BOY) FRIENDS.
The boys talk, act and behave convincingly and you start implicitly believing "MADE FOR EACH OTHER". The girl TRUSTS him with all her heart, at times risking ostracizing by society, not listening to parents who love her dearly and have been her well wishers for over 16 years. She braves the world. She does not listen to her closest friends who warn her and tell her that the boy is taking her for a ride and does not mean to marry her. She thinks they are jealous. She thinks her love will win him and change his mind. She thinks she is lucky to have got for a friend a rich boy who can do mind boggling things.
Only VERY FEW girls confirm that the boy wants to get married. Most often the lies of the boy are convincing.

What should I do when the boy proposes sex?


How will I know true love?


If you trust some one before marriage be sure to allow sexual intimacy only to a limit and withhold going any further than kissing and touching until after marriage. With this you retain your dignity and are appreciated by the boy when he marries you. Love increases. If you believe that by doing so his love for you will decrease than you are MIS TAKEN.
If he really loves and wants to get married HE WILL WAIT.


MISTAKE

You think that he will not wait, you are afraid that you will lose him knowing that so many girls, prettier and better are willing and waiting to love him, than you are vulnerable and easy prey. May God save you. It hurts to know that some girls in ecstasy and with faith and trust in their own true love do whatever the boy asks her to do sexually, with the hope that she will win her. "I can give my life for you," is the kind of thinking that ruins you. It is used to black mail you emotionally and you give in to his sexual demands braving the ire of your (best well wishers) parents.

You identify with the movie's romantic acts without being aware of the difference between reel life and real life. In a world of illusion or madness you FALL in love.

The boy gives all types of logic with the firm intention to loot you. Young that you are you fall a prey and the matter is so shameful that you can neither tell any one nor take revenge. The bitterness it leaves in your heart and hopelessness of love and fear of betrayal are difficult to resolve.
The following story is
typical.

It is a report exactly as it was published in

THE TIMES OF INDIA

under the heading


TV actor arrested for false promise of marriage



TIMES NEWS NETWORK


Mumbai:
The Malad police on Saturday arrested small-time TV actor Jayprakash Sharma on rape charges. Officers said Sharma (40) had made false promises of marriage to a 24-year-old aspiring actress from Ahmedabad and shared an intimate relationship with her from July to November 2007.
Sharma used to ask the girl to visit his house at Chincholi Bunder, Malad, or take her out to hotels. Three months ago, Sharma tied the knot with some other woman, selected by his parents. The Ahmedabad girl then decided to approach the police with recordings of the conversations she had with the TV actor.
"After the victim lodged a complaint on Friday, we sent a team to Sharma's flat in Dheeraj Jamuna building, but he wasn't found. On Saturday, we hunted him down in Malad and took him into custody,'' a senior official said.
Sharma had first met the girl in Gujarat; she was attending acting classes in Ahmedabad at that time. The two became friendly and used to meet up whenever Sharma was in Gujarat. The girl finished her course and started getting bit roles. Sharma was also back in Mumbai.
"The two started seeing each other. Sharma promised that he would marry the girl and used to call her to Mumbai to stay with him, sometimes for 10-15 days at a stretch. A year ago, his parents fixed a match for him but Sharma lied to the girl that he was not interested it. The couple continued to go out. Then, in December 2007, Sharma married the girl selected by his parents. The complainant then realised that she had been cheated,'' an officer said.
The police registered a case of rape after the girl complained that Sharma had an intimate relationship with her and promised to marry her as well. Sharma will be produced in a holiday court on Sunday for remand.
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If you are not like majority of people who have sexual attraction only towards those of other sex, who are you?

Sexual Orientation



This deals with sexual attraction between people. (Relationship with others)
Hetrosexual (straight) Majority of people

Homosexual


Lesbian Female attracted to female

gynosexual

Gay Male attracted to Male

androsexual


Bisexual are those people who are attracted to both, same gender (sex) as well as opposite gender(sex) people.
example: boy attracted towards other boys as well as towards girls.

It may be considered that there is a range or spectrum.
At one end are those
who are sexually only attracted towards other sex (and definitely not sexually attracted to same sex) heterosexual.
At the other end are those
who are sexually only attracted towards same sex (and definitely not sexually attracted to other sex.)

In between the two are bisexuals.

Thus, there are no rigid compartments as we have been believing, but a range of preferences in sexual attraction.

Transvestite fetishism is considered (sexual deviation like several other sexual deviations initially called as perversions) paraphilia hence, not included here.
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Transsexual

Being LEFT HANDED is natural to some people. It is not their fault. They are equal as human beings in all areas of life except their preference of LEFT HAND instead of right hand.
Can you imagine your rage and suffering if you were to be treated as outcast, without respect and dignity because you are LEFT HANDED and not right handed as the majority? Nothing wrong with you. You are not to be blamed. You do not need to change and force yourself to what is popular, but not natural for you.
So it is in the case of people who are transgenders. How will you treat them?

Gender Identity

Transsexuals



Gender Identity Disorder GID
is only the consequent
distress or disability, which is called
Gender Dysphoria


Transition is shifting from one gender type to other.
In simple terms it means

Sex change.
Example:
A woman is changed in physical appearance to man and lives the rest of the life as man. Female - to - Male

transman

It is done in the guidance of team of Medical Professionals by means of
Psychotherapy for mental rehabilitation
and
Surgically and hormonally
for giving the desired change of sex.
Thus it involves more than
Pscyhotherapy,
Sex Therapy,
Andrology,
Urology
Gynecology,
Plastic Surgery,
Occupational Therapy.

Legally,
such a shift in identity is being given in some parts of world.


Sex Change therefore involves

Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS) or Gender Reassignment Surgery (GRS)
and
Hormone Replacement Therapy.


1. Gender Identity.
Gender identity is new to psychology and research is still in its infancy.
Trangender issues are both new in the scientific field and affect relatively few people, so understandably many mental health care providers know little about transgender issues. People seeking help from these professionals often end up educating the professional rather than receiving help

The terms
"transsexualism", [code F64.0]
"dual-role transvestism", [code F64.1]
"gender identity disorder in adolescents or adults" [code 302.85]and
"gender identity disorder not otherwise specified" [code 302.6] are listed as such in the International Statistical Classification of Diseases (ICD) or
the American Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) under codes F64.0, F64.1, 302.85 and 302.6 respectively.

In medical terms,
transvestic fetishism [code 302.3]is differentiated from
cross-dressing [code F65.1]
by use of the separate codes 302.3 in the DSM and F65.1 in the ICD.

A Swedish study
estimated a ratio of 1.4:1 in favour of transwomen for those requesting sex reassignment surgery and a ratio of 1:1 for those who proceeded.

If you are not confused enough, refer wikipedia.

However, if you do understand the rules of cricket or soccer or the rituals or caste system you would understand the above easily. The people of THIRD GENDER or OTHER SEXUALITY feel respected as human beings if you do remember what these preferences mean. They are struggling for FREEDOM from SUFFOCATING, MISERABLE LIFE. It is a disposition they have inherited like LEFT HANDED person, but they suffer because of the misconceptions of the majority.




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1.Gender Identity
2.Sexual Orientation
हीजरा
, छक्का

The above two are different and are
based on following features:
1 Physical

2 Genetic

3 Brain

4 Personal (mental gender identity)

हीजरा , छक्का

1.Gender Identity


This deals with one's own identity. (Relation with oneself)
Commonly only Male and Female were recognized identities of people.
The Third Identity is discussed here.

[I]transgender
1. transsexual
2. transvestite

1. transsexual
They desire physical change.
They perceive themselves to be trapped in the body of the other sex.

Two types of transexuals
[i] F2M Female - to Male transman [ii] M2F Male - to - Female transwoman

2. transvestite
The transvestite do not wish to physically change to other sex.
They feel, behave and dress as other sex.
Also called as

crossdresser

Those who do it occasionally are

3. drags as dragqueen and dragking

[1]dragQueen [actor that plays 'maushi' in tamsha]
[2]dragKing

4. Androgne (Intersex)

Includes no sex, both sex and such types

5. Genderqueer

Includes people dressed as transvestites, but having attraction towards same sex or different sex. All different confusing combinations comprise genderqueer.

[II]Cisgender
People other than transgender are cisgender.
They have no gender ambiguity. It includes almost all of us (majority of people)

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Kalki is a transgender.

She is a post graduate from Madurai Kamaraj University with an M.A. in Journalism and Mass Communication. She works as a Communications Facilitator in the Svaram Musical Instruments and Research Station in Auroville. She also runs an organisation called 'Sahodari Foundation' and a magazine, 'Sahodari,' which she claims is the first in the country for transgender where contributions are exclusively made by transgender.

A classical dancer, she spoke on Friday about what it was to be a transgender woman in her rigid voice with a lot of confidence and self-belief.
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"The younger generation is sensitive to gender issues"

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Alternative gender



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Two surprising things have happened. Civic authorities on behalf of The Tamil Nadu Government have cleared applications in less than a day and issued ration cards to the transgendered/aravani/hijadas










I am Thrilled To know that Transgenders existence has been acknowledged by the letter T by the
Government of Tamil Nadu, by issuing ration cards, which is the prime identity card for people of India. Thanks to the social welfare minister Dr. Poongothai Aladi Aruna, who is a gynaecologist.

The People Development Initiative (PDI), an NGO is also happy.
Earlier, on December 21, 2006, another path breaking initiative was taken.The Tamil Nadu government had issued an order offering free sex reconstruction surgery (SRS) for the transgendered after counseling.

What is transgender?
Life of Transgendered in India.
When is sex reconstruction surgery (SRS)done?
What is GLBST?
What is the difference between Gay, Lesbian, (Homosexual), Straight (Heterosexual), Transvestite, transsexual?

Transformation
Hijadas live a miserable life. They beg and earn by prostitution [Think of HIV/AIDS/STDs].
Shift: The social welfare minister Poongothai Aladi Aruna, a gynaecologist herself, has made this path breaking move. Ignorance, resentment, irritation, anger has changed into acknowledgment, at least on paper. This gives sense of being part of the human society to the aravani/hijadas/transgender
Usually the form where one writes about oneself has these columns.
Name:
Birth date:
Sex : (Gender)
Here 'Gender' is the correct word, not 'sex'.
Now we have three options M F T
The Third option T Transgender has opened in the state Tamil Nadu, in India.

Students have often asked me about the Hijada or Aravani(vernacular for the transgendered).
Though born male T feels and behaves like a woman. T feels 'she' is imprisoned in 'male' body.
Most aravanis/hijadas/transgendered leave home to live in a community. They have their own deity.
Below you will find the article published in the Times of India, written by Pushpa Narayan | TNN


Third sex is official in Tamil Nadu
Karuna Govt First In Country To Issue Ration Cards To Transsexuals
Pushpa Narayan | TNN

Chennai: Until now, Pooja, a 25-yearold transsexual from Salem in Tamil Nadu, had nothing to prove her existence in government records because she had refused to be identified as either a male or a female, the only two options available in the gender column of application forms. Now, however, the state has recognised her as an individual and given her a ration card where the sex column is marked with a ‘T’ instead of an ‘M’ or ‘F’.
The step by Tamil Nadu’s civil supplies department marks the first time that authorities anywhere in India have recognised the group. In Tamil Nadu alone, where transsexuals like Pooja have begun getting ration cards on Thursday, the move will lead to an estimated 40,000 members of the community nowidentifying themselves as members of a third gender.
This endorses the community’s alternative gender status and allows its members to avail of government welfare schemes without being forced to present themselves as males or females.
“It’s a move to support these marginalised people. They exist and we cannot ignore them. We have to accept them as the third gender,’’ TN social welfare minister Poongothai Aladi Aruna, a gynaecologist herself, said. “We started with ration cards because it was the simplest thing to do. Other documents such as passports and voter identity cards will involve policy decisions of the Centre.’’
The decision also paves the way for transsexuals eventually to write ‘T’ against the sex column while applying for admission to educational institutions or government hospitals. Incidentally, the Tamil Nadu government had on December 21, 2006 issued an order offering free sex reconstruction surgery (SRS) for the transgendered after counselling.
The People Development Initiative (PDI), an NGO campaigning for the rights of transsexuals, described it as a much-awaited step and said the response to the schemes was overwhelming. Salem alone has received more than 20 applications for ration cards from transsexuals. “They applied as soon as they learnt that the first batch of 18 applications had been cleared in less than a day,’’ said Sheela Vincent of PDI.
“The green book (ration card) gives me a sudden sense of belonging to society. I can now apply for a passport and open a bank account with no uncomfortable questions being asked,’’ said Pooja after accepting her ration card.
Districts such as Vellore and Namakkal which have significant numbers of the transgendered have also started issuing cards with the new gender status, commissioner of civil supplies K Rajaraman said.
‘T’ Is The New Gender
Aravani (the transgendered) are biologically born males but define themselves as women trapped in men’s bodies. This makes them behave like women. Most aravanis leave home to join their community. Once in the group, they eke out a living by begging, dancing and prostitution, becoming vulnerable to HIV/AIDS. They are also prone to verbal abuse. Due to a lack of identity, they are discriminated against by society, resulting in their isolation.
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Two Penises.
Diphallus
Bifid conditions and complete duplication (diphallus) may occur. Diphallia has a report frequency of 1/5.5 million births (US Public Health Service) (Cernach)

Congenital absence of the penis has a frequency of 1/30,000,000 (documentation unavailable).

An os penis has been reported.


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The first reported case of doubled penis was found on a cadaver, in Bologna, in 1609 by Wecker. It was reported as follows:

Observatio. Pene gemino visus quidam. Vidimvs Bononia in publicis dissectionibus cadauer viri qui duplicem habuit penem. Cl. v. Ioannes Iacobus Weckerus in Suis mthi communicatis Obseruationibus. The first American case was provided by Van Buren and Keyes in 1874. Bruni (1926) reviewed 15 cases and added one of his own for a total of 16 cases, which he discussed in detail. Additional cases by McLennan, by Kimura, by Seth and Peacock, and by others increased the total to 29 cases that were found in the medical literature by 1932.

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ONE WORD is enough to tell what woman wants from man. What is it?
If you cannot figure it look for the answer at the bottom of this post. No woman or man has succeeded in disproving the 'answer' till today. If your mind is scanning that single word, here is a tip. It is something that includes ALL!

5 THINGS THAT ATTRACT MAN TO WOMAN.


5 SECRETS
5 things woman seek in a man are the following.

1. Provider = Husband
2. Lover = Sexual Partner
3. Friend = Counselor/Support
4. House-husband = Home Manager
5. forget it does not matter _ _ _
1.
The guy is from good family, educated, earning handsome salary, high level executive post in a reputed company. Not seen in company of goons, not and addict. Irrefutable character. Taller and handsome. Picture perfect.
In India the parents look for such a boy. Among those selected by the parents, there is a family meet, where the girl sees the boy. One of them is approved. There is engagement soon after, followed by wedding. Almost a stranger, except the days between the engagement and wedding they talk on phone. This is undoubtedly the most romantic period of the couple.

2.
He is simply, irresistibly attractive. Some call it chemistry or love at first sight. It is actually raw lust. Usually both are already married. One of them has been through bad times. The guy is baddie like ribald, humorous sometimes to the point of annoying. He does have reputation of sexual indulgences. Liberty of arguments enhances the teasing. She may say at this point to the husband that he is "not this", "not this", hence question about taking him seriously does not arise. Husband knows him and takes matter lightly, too busy with his work or takes him in good faith as wife's friend. The ambiance in his presence is vibrant. They use slang liberally. He has gone through or is going through bad times himself, so has she (obviously they are married). The monotony of daily drudgery is broken. They find opportunities to go out. Then they create opportunities to meet. For her it is a dream world. She believes, or knows that he is not interested in sex aspect, but he really loves her. She can get wildly angry if he breaks some appointments or promises. Never in her life she thought she could get this out of the world experience. For him there are few romantic moments in expensive places with style beyond means. For him however, the conquering is not complete until he has her kneeling down and intense love [sex] is experienced.
He wins so much of trust that she would not mind giving in for making love (sex).

Method
Intimacy first with eyes.
Then through talk on the phone
followed by casual body contact.
She gets expensive gifts.
Then they are together where no one recognizes.
More surreptitious meetings at places, and spending of big money, dreams and plans.
Then you know.

3.
If you are not like the second one and you appear more decent and if you avoid lewd talk or make the mistake of praising her (she is sick of those humble kind of people)your attraction spell will be limited up to being a place where she can talk and vent out her feelings. That much and no further.

4.
In addition to these, the fourth type is longed for to take care of those routine things, which she is traditionally supposed to do. Usually she prefers, hands down, career/office.
a]
This type of person one does not get, hence she gets arthritis, or back ache and cannot make love with No. 1
b]
Usually No. 1. = No. 4
Hence, I was not going to mention him separately, but
c]
4. is full time servant, the one whom she can yell at, pay less, and get herself a cup of coffee when she returns home.
5.
Does not matter.
Source:
Inputs from student who has made the author of the site mentioned below Guru of "Science of Attracting ANY Woman for (Dating) Mating". ANY is to emphasize specifically even women who are married or unmarried, wealthy or celebrity.
Tip: Those who want a tutorial for No. 2 will benefit from /double your dating.
The special qualities, eg. fame, wealth, personality are required so that a woman would by default get attracted to you, helplessly, the way a dog would get attracted to biscuits, naturally. Fame and Wealth cannot be created over night. The Personality features can be molded (no matter if you are ugly or even handicapped) to do the trick. This is what the website claims:
"You're About To Learn Secrets That Most Men Will Never Know About Women..."

Inside you'll learn...

* "The Kiss Test" - How to tell if she's ready to be kissed.
* The difference between how men and women think about dating - and why most women want to keep you from being successful.
* How to use "secret" body language to keep a woman's attention.
* How to approach a new woman that you'd like to meet - and exactly what to say to start a conversation without "pick up lines"

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Infidelity done by a husband.
Promiscuous Husband
The words, adultery, affair, bad faith, betrayal, cheating, extramarital relations, faithlessness, fornication, playing around, treachery are the synonyms that almost define the word 'infidelity'.

Reply to Query of a wife who was cheated.
The following is kept confidential and secret.
The Query itself, which includes investigation and story of catching the husband, wife's disbelief and bereavement. The realities of the trauma she had to bear due to husband's marital infidelity.


How, Why he cheated on his wife?



Related terms:
caught cheater infidelity tape
marriage infidelity
sign of infidelity,surviving infidelity, sexual conflict and other bedroom battle, emotional infidelity

From the Doctor’s Private Room
I get access to undisclosed, as well as just disclosed affairs in my practice..

The incident is bound to leave a painful scar for ever. Gone with the wind Margaret Mitchell's 1936 describes it as ‘broken mirror,’ cannot be mended.

Tips in brief

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If he is cowed down keep an outwardly threatening attitude, as though you may take steps that will devastate him. (You will know what he fears most.) Tell him that besides what you have disclosed you have more proof and a copy of it is in the hands of 3 other people. This will make him believe the worse, though you may not know it just now. He may disclose it and beg for forgiveness. Record and preserve his talk in which he confesses.

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Medically:
Check yourself of HIV infection.

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Make sure that legally he transfers all the property, bank accounts on your name. Do meet a lawyer/marriage counselor to know first hand your RIGHTS and powers. Inform important people (relatives in writing) and keep the documents.

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Personal life:
Surely he can temporarily change his habits, but you cannot keep a watch 24 hours. Henceforth he will be specially more cautious not to get trapped.

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It is possible that after being broken he transforms totally. It is also possible that he can fake this most convincingly. In the former case with the help of professional marriage counselor’s guidance, who will be able to instruct you about what changes in behavior that you need to make and embark upon a new life. The self blame in your letter is typical.

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His Point of View: WHY

To be fair, I must mention that it will not surprise me if I am told that that the man's requirement for sex frequency and finesse, sexcellence was not met by you. It is important to be able appreciate sexual requirements of the man and learn to give and take sexual pleasure wildly, unabashedly. This is a weak chink in the woman's armor today. By 2020 AD this is going to change because of increased prevalence of premarital and extramarital sex, which is not related to marriage but focussed for her and his pleasure. To put it in the words of my client who had come for premarital counseling with her fiance, "A woman should be sexually as proficient as a whore". This is being professional or proficient by learning and being sensitive to sexxxual nuances. Sadly today many women are inhibited and uncouth to an extent that they can be compared to being in primary school and unwilling to learn, where the husband is a post graduate. Imagine a woman who does not know cooking and is unwilling to learn. The husband will have to eat outside.

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In the latter case, good ridden of bad rubbish. Please get out. You have enough qualities to live another life if you choose to.

The following references may be useful for further reading.
Divorce Hazards
More Divorce Hazards
Health Meter©

Tips on how to manage husband
More Tips on how to manage husband
Art of Maintaining Relationships
Love Sutra©
Infidelity in the life of Bertrand Russell
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About ONE in FOUR US teenagers have sexually transmitted diseases this moment when you are reading this.
How common is STI or STD.
Source: 12 Mar 2008, 0001 hrs IST,AP.Times OfIndia
The American Academy of Pediatrics supports confidential teen screening.



CHICAGO: At least one in four teenage girls in the US has a sexually transmitted disease, or more than 3 million teens, according to the first study of its kind in this age group.

A virus that causes cervical cancer is by far the most common sexually transmitted infection in teen girls aged 14 to 19, while the highest overall prevalence is among colored girls — nearly half the colored teens studied had at least one STD. That rate compared with 20% among both whites and Mexican-American teens, the study from the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found.

Influence of Media:
In the opinion of Dr. Ashok Koparday, Medical Director of *Samadhan India, "Center for Therapy, Education and Research in Sex, Marriage and Relationships",
display of celebrities nudity (naked or breasts or lingerie) and such other sexually stimulating content reaches teenagers through media (my chemical romance teenagers) influencing their behavior. In adolescence hormones shoot up. Sexual feelings are intense as well as novel. Given ample opportunity the spark of sexual intercourse or outer course is ablaze resulting in SERIOUS side effects, namely, 1.] unwanted pregnancy, 2.] sexually transmitted diseases, 3.] heart breaks.

Example: Birthday party game for teenagers or any DJ party of teenagers (here parents are forbidden)have rocking hot teenagers. There is plenty to booze, which is symbolic of "I am grown up; I am no more a kid." attitude. Getting drunk and making other (her) drunk is followed by petting, then sex ultimately leading to pregnant teenagers, another matter of prime concern and expense in the United States.

Among girls who admitted to having sex, the rate was 40%. While some teens define sex as intercourse, other types of intimate behavior can also spread infections. For many, the numbers likely seem "overwhelming because you're talking about nearly half of the sexually experienced teens at any one time having evidence of an STD", said Margaret Blythe, an adolescent medicine specialist at Indiana University School of Medicine.

Dr. John Douglas, director of the CDC's division of STD prevention, said the results are the first to examine the combined national prevalence of common sexually transmitted diseases among adolescent girls. He said they likely reflect current prevalence rates.

The CDC's Dr. Kevin Fenton said given that STDs can cause infertility and cervical cancer in women, "screening, vaccination and other prevention strategies for sexually active women are among our highest public health priorities."

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