world-famous-woman

Margaret Mitchell's Dump

GONE WITH THE WIND

MARGARET MITCHELL
Like her inspirational heroine, a symbol of strength herself, she brought out the core strengths of man and woman in their daily life to spin world's famous love story between man and woman with unforgettable hues and shades.

Adapted from the original article written by Christina Lewis
Christina Lewis is a freelance writer and owner of two websites for children, KidsBookshelf.com and GreatSitesForKids.com.

Margaret Mitchell said about the theme of her novel, Gone with the Wind, "I wrote about the people who had gumption and the people who didn't."

Margaret Mitchell admired people who fought their way through hard times triumphantly and came out survivors.

HOW TO FACE LIFE

Mrs. Mitchell made an impression on her daughter when she explained to Margaret how precarious life is and the only thing that will save her is what she has in her head. "Well, I never could learn the multiplication table above the sevens but I was frightened and impressed enough by her words to learn enough rhetoric to land a job on a newspaper some years later."
Margaret's mother instilled pride in her bones. So, much like her heroine Scarlett O'Hara, Margaret enjoyed social events and being the center of attention. She was a lively and spirited girl with a great sense of humor.

ADMONISHED FOR PLAGIARISM

Margaret wrote spooky ghost tales and short skits that often had violent plots, the plays were performed in full costume and Margaret usually cast herself as the hero. One time, Margaret dramatized "The Traitor" by Thomas Dixon, she was scolded and received a spanking from her father for plagiarism. She quickly learned not to take what wasn't hers since plagiarism was considered the same thing as stealing.

HER LOVE AFFAIR AND MARRIAGE

She was flirtatious and charming and always had a long string of beaux.
And the rest of it follows.


Dr. Ashok Koparday
_{MBBS, FC SEPI}
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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This is irresistible humor for Men and Women.
Thanks to Naimisha.


WHY MEN ARE NEVER DEPRESSED:


Men Are Just Happier People--

Your last name stays put.
The garage is all yours.
Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack.
You can never be pregnant.
Car mechanics tell you the truth.
The world is your urinal.
You never have to drive to another petrol station restroom because this one is just too icky.
You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.
Same work, more pay.
Wrinkles add character.
People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them.
New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet.
One mood all the time.

Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.
You know stuff about tanks and engines. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.
You can open all your own jars.
You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.


Your underwear is £8.95 for a three-pack. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You never have strap problems in public.
You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes.
Everything on your face stays its original colour.
The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades.
You only have to shave your face and neck.

You can play with toys all your life.
One wallet and one pair of shoes -- one colour for all seasons.
You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look.
You can 'do' your nails with a pocket knife.
You have freedom of choice concerning growing a moustache.

You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.

No wonder men are happier.

Send this to the women who can handle it and to the men who will enjoy reading it

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Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
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Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright has delivered good punches in
"The top 10 sex mistakes men make in bed! "
ANI


May 21, 2008
The top 10 sex mistakes men make in bed!
There just isn't any other way to say it -- a sex slip-up just isn't sexy, and to save all men from bedroom 'disasters', a leading sexologist has come to the rescue.

Dr. Yvonne K Fulbright, a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc, has come up with the top ten mistakes men make in bed, reports Perth Now.

The biggest mistakes men are as follows:

1. Foreplay doesn't start in the sack.

The timer for enticing does not start once you hit the sheets. Your pre-game show is best approached as an all-day affair.

Women love to be wooed. Sex is a head game -- in more ways than one -- and women want to know you can't get them out of your mind. We love knowing that we are desired.

2. Don't head south straight away.

Diving in for the genitals too soon usually isn't the best idea. A woman needs to be properly aroused before any below-the-belt action feels good.

Be sure to focus on her entire body -- head to toe -- before going for the gold.

3. Remember the clitoris.

Many men think a woman's orgasm results from penetration.

More than 70 per cent of women experience clitoral orgasm when it comes to maximum reaction, so men need to make sure they are not ignoring the clitoris.

It also helps if you actually know where the clitoris is -- some men have been known to rub the urethral opening, which can be a big no-no for some ladies.

4. Get to that G spot.

In digging for buried treasure, many guys don't know that 'X' doesn't always mark the spot. Found on the front wall of the vagina, a woman's G spot may be a little higher or lower, or more to one side than the other, than often depicted.

5. Don't be too goal-oriented.

There is nothing more endearing than a man who wants to play. Just don't get caught up in yourself. Your sexual exploration should be playtime for two.

Stay 'present' in the moment -- connecting with your partner will bring the ultimate climax for both of you.

6. Thinking you're still hot after gaining weight.

'For better or worse' should include weight fluctuations, but don't let yourself go completely.

7. Let her be naughty.

Sometimes she needs to get in touch with her adulterated side. In fact, research has found that women are more aroused by explicit fantasies than romantic ones. It's not always about the prince on a white horse or canoodling on the beach.

8. She's not a porn star.

As seen in porn films, many men expect their lovers to fulfill their every fantasy. Remember that porn is fantasy, not reality. Expecting her to act like a porn star is simply not fair.

9. And men aren't supposed to look like porn stars.

Despite what XXX-rated films indicate, most women are not lusting after a three-legged man. Maybe some women are up for the challenge, but many are fine with the guy who fits within the norm. Don't be too hard on yourself for being just that.

10. One orgasm is not always enough.

Women are not as quick to come down from their aroused state as men are post-sex. Many can be launched right back to bliss, and many women do crave more action and orgasms, even if they were perfectly satisfied the first time round.

ANI



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Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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love-relationship-skills

“Love thy neighbor--and if he happens to be tall, debonair and devastating, it will be that much easier.”
- by Mae West quotes (American Actress and sex symbol, 1892-1980)

For tips from the "Art Of Lying" read more
(Thanks Naimisha. Such a wonderful story.)

Of neighborhoods, benevolence is the most beautiful. How can the man be considered wise who when he had the choice does not settle in benevolence.
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Confucius (BC 551-BC 479) Chinese philosopher.

MAIN STORY
A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower, when the doorbell rings.
The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next-door neighbor.
Before she says a word, Bob says, "I'll give you $800 to drop that towel, "
After thinking for a moment, the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob After a few seconds, Bob hands her $800 and leaves.
The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs.
When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks, "Who was that?"
"It was Bob the next door neighbor," she replies.
"Great," the husband says, "did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?"
Thanks Naimisha. Such a wonderful story.
Moral of the story

modified by the webmaster

From his book: "Art Of Lying
lying=verb lie1 (lay, lain, lying, lies)
reclining position/certain position/horizontal or prostrate postion
lying=verb lie2 (lied, lying, lies)
Tell an untruth; pretend with intent to deceive

If you share information pertaining personal matters be specific.
Say, "He returned $800 that he owed me and he fled away."

One Quote from the book
Art Of Lying
Love thy neighbor -- BUT DON'T GET CAUGHT

Modified from
Love thy neighbor -- but don't pull down your hedge.
Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) American statesman, scientist and philosopher.


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Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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QUESTION: Guess which of these two birds is a FEMALE.
Do you know how chatting is a boon for women?

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Contributed Specially by Naimisha

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Did you know that for women TALKING or EMPTYING HEART is an effective means of (temporary) relief from stress?
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How Best To Handle Stress
How Do I Know If I have Pathological Stress? Check with HEALTHMETER© .
Is there a systematic program to learn how to live with stress without distress?
Is it because of puberty changes? You will find the answer here.
Laughter is known to be a POTENT stress reliever. Why not laugh?
Thank you Naimisha for sending the birds.
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_{MBBS, FC SEPI}
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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In this true story for marriage help a woman goes with her marriage problem to an Indian Saint who is married. The Indian Saint gives marriage advice for happy marriage relationship. This magic FORMULA for healthy marriage is simple yet overwhelmingly profound. See how it dissolves her marriage anger.

I have translated this from original Marathi
Source:
Shri Brahmachaitanya Gondavalekar Maharaj hyanchya hrudya atwani
Published by Yashwant Prakashan©
Collection of the Master's Anecdotes by Bappusaheb Marathe
Preface by Prof. K. V. Belsare
There was a well educated couple. Both were Professors in the same college. Their difference of opinion usually lead to flared arguments. After some time husband was transfered to another town. Both lived in their new place. Initially they had good time, however, one day they had bitter argument. The husband lost his temper and slapped his wife. The lady could not take this. The same day she took a night train and went away to her mother's place. After this incidence days passed by and she received the news that her husband suffered from deadly fever. She could not decide what she ought to do. So she met the Master [Gondavelekar Maharaj]. The Master said,

"Suppose, there is a two wheeler. If one wheel goes one way and the other wheel another way then the vehicle is ruined. It is common knowledge that there is difference between man and a woman. However, for the world's drama to go on smoothly this difference is necessary. Nature has bestowed Man with the trait of Courage and generosity and so is woman bestowed with tolerance and capacity to surrender unconditionally. In drills of worldly life accepting defeat behooves the quality of tolerance. This reflects the greatness of the mind. World is a drama created by God.
It is our duty to play the role assigned to us to the best of our ability. Even if one gets a trivial role he should play it exquisitely, so that he gets the same credit as playing a big role. Begetting a child and getting the honor to be a mother is your right alone. Your husband can never ever get this. Therefore, remove from your mind the insistence of getting your rights. The real joy and satisfaction is when both live mutually loving each other."

When the lady asked, "Then what shall I do?" the Master replied, "take the first train and go to your husband. Serve him as though nothing at all happened earlier. Every morning, bow down once, and touch your head at his feet. (The Indian way of salutation to the Lord.)He will feel better."

As advised the lady went to her husband and followed the Master's instructions. In few days husband's fever came down. One day when she bowed and kept her head on his feet he started sobbing. The lady was frightened. Then the husband said to her, "My health is good. However, I behaved like an animal with you and I am feeling terribly guilty about it. You overlooked my behavior and rushed here for my sake. I have no doubt that you met some Master. I promise you that henceforth I will never do such a mistake." After some days they gave birth to a boy and with the baby the couple came to meet the Master.
Master: His Holiness Shri Brahmachaitanya Gondavelekar. Maharaj means King. It is respectful way of addressing a God Realized Saint.
Source:
Shri Brahmachaitanya Gondavalekar Maharaj hyanchya hrudya atwani
Published by Yashwant Prakashan©
Collection of the Master's Anecdotes by Bappusaheb Marathe
Preface by Prof. K. V. Belsare


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_{MBBS, FC SEPI}
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

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see ***1 bottom
In both,
frequency and variations in love making,
wife lags miles behind her husband.


The discussion below applies to majority of Asian Indian women who are already married. We are not considering the rare, often hypothetical, exceptions.

The discrepancy between man's sexual expectations [requirements, demands] and women's ability to reciprocate will diminish gradually as premarital/extramarital sex rises, and love marriages increase. This is expected by 2015.
The young college going girls as well as women who spend considerable time working outside home, especially the girls who have grown up in the absence of both parents who were going to work, will be sex savvy. The generation NEXT experience and explore various methods of giving and getting pleasure before marriage.

PAIN AND BLEEDING ARE INEVITABLE IN SEX IS THE MOST PREVALENT WRONG INFORMATION THAT A GIRL GETS FURTIVELY FROM CLOSE FRIENDS BEFORE MARRIAGE. THIS IS THE ONLY SEX INFORMATION A GIRL, HOWEVER EDUCATED SHE BE, HAS ABOUT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

In most couples even those who are compatible in all ways, wives fall short vis a vis expectations of their husbands.
REASONSfor apparent low libido in women
1
You want to marry a GOOD girl.
A good girl is one who does not touch 'there', does not talk about 'those' things.
2
Even if a 9 year old [IV th standard] girl innocuously sits so that her undergarments are seen, the elder family member who notices is bound to chastise her through harsh stare, or words, or thrashings, conveying that "Girls do not sit this way".
Like imprints on wet cement these impressions stay in the child's subconscious mind to later cause difficulty in desire, arousal, orgasm and may even cause pain. The adult conscious brain knows that having married she is expected to have sex, but the misconceptions have serious damaging effects to the sexual being in the woman.
3
Sex is a taboo, she being a GOOD girl.
However, when the priest chooses an auspicious day and time for her wedding overnight she is expected to be graduate in sexual awareness. How ridiculous? A girl who has not stood nude in the privacy of her own room before a mirror in her 25 years of life is expected to sleep with a guy who will be doing sex. Scary, more so in arranged marriages or arranged + love marriages.
4
Bollywood movies constitute single most source of knowledge of romance and sex. As long as the movie hero, Salman Khan, Sharookh Khan, or Hrithik Roshan woos the girl and wins her against all odds when both sing and share sweet dreams the emotions are arousing and the romance cherished.
The cruel villain figures in 'rape scenes'. This stigmatizes 'physical sex' as akin to a greedy animal pouncing on her flesh.
5
In the early days of sex - HONEY MOON - and even after honey moon, involuntary closure of vaginal passage due to fear of pain and bleeding causes painful sex. Unfortunately due to this [SEX = PAIN] sex gets equated with pain and this gets registered to stay in her mind all her life.
6
Honeymoon cystitis [Actually it is urethritis] is one more curse that leads to the wrong belief that sex is unsavory [I wonder how people enjoy sex, is the common refrain].
7
Meeting up to the expectations of all M -in law, F -in law, S -in law, B -in law is demanding and drains energy.

CAN YOU IMAGINE A WOMAN'S STRESS, WHICH SUDDENLY HITS HER AS SHE STEPS IN THE HUSBAND'S HOME? NO PARENT PREPARES ONE'S CHILD FOR MANAGING THIS STRESS WITH DEXTERITY. DISTRESS IS BORN. DO YOU STILL EXPECT HER TO HAVE GOOD HEALTHY LIBIDO?

Her name is changed, her home, people around, the life style all change.
8
If she too is working than it is difficult to squeeze time for 'romance' that she thirsts for. Physical Sex is imposed when a Indian wife gives in just because she has been told not to say "No" to her husband.

TIPS TO KEEP LOVE ALIVE

9
Many a times her sexual feelings are stirred depending upon her menstrual cycle. These occasions are few.
10
His knowledge and expectation stems entirely from heavy diet of blue films. Fellatio, blowjob, is his sex dream, which can be repulsive to a woman (or man). 1 blowjob problems 2 cock sucking pleasures 3 prevalence oral sex 4 blow job sociocultural aspects
11
Both the boy (man) and the girl (woman) have not received correct knowledge about sex at the correct time from the correct source. Hence, it could be said without exaggeration that most psycho-sexual problems seen by us in medical practice are solely due to dysfunctional socio cultural upbringing, wherein correct knowledge either of sex or relationship skills are not given. The absence of authentic, scientifically correct, information is rich soil (as bad as shit) where misconceptions (wiggling worms in head that cause premarital distress) breed.

Indeed getting authoritative knowledge is major difficulty even for a woman who genuinely wants to find ways to experience the richness of sexual pleasure; pleasure that is her birthright, is God given, nourishing to the body, mind and soul.

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BUT

Question
"Doc, we are a nuclear family. We have servant for cooking, for taking care of children, and for cleaning. We have all the modern amenities like washing machine, refrigerator. We both enjoyed love making before marriage, but now after the second child she is cold. There is no reason for her to be tired, yet she says she is tired and almost always she has headaches or body aches. She shouts at children. Why is she frigid?"

Reply
The symptoms are indicative of depression. If they are persisting for long, interfering with other activities also, besides sex, it does call for a visit to psychiatrist. Good medicines are available today. Proper medications and counseling brings dramatic improvement in the person's being. Please check the HEALTHMETER©
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All being well it is possible that wife has lesser need in frequency and variation in sexual activity compared to husband. It is not an illness unless proved to be so. See this post.

***1 NOTE
The statistics 82% men and 7.8% women as level of sexual comparative sexual compatibility needs application of validated research study methods to be taken as confirmatory. It can be taken as indicative of need for lesser frequency as well as lesser know how and desire in women compared to more desired frequency as well more know how and desire for variation in mutual sexual activity between married couples in India.

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Family Life Counselor
in Mumbai, India for over 15 years.

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He is the
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Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
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BOOK REVIEW

Do we love ourselves?
"You Can Heal Your Life" a book by Louis L. Hay unravels pure love within you.

"I love myself exactly the way I am". "I respect myself". Such simple self affirmations become powerful tools that usher self acceptance. You discover your own self worth. Not loving oneself, criticizing, condemning one self causes insufferable stress that could take you head long into dis-ease.

"'You Can Heal Your Life,' is one of the best books I have read," says a corporate trainer. Louis Hay, helps you find within you your self worth.

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In the infinity of life where I am,
all is perfect, whole, and complete.
Each one of us, myself included,
experiences the richness and fullness of life in ways that are meaningful to us.
I now look at the past with love and choose to learn from my old experiences.
There is no right or wrong, nor good or bad.
The past is over and done.
There is only experience of the moment.
I love myself for bringing myself
through this past into this present moment.
I share what and who I am,
for I know we are all one in Spirit.
All is well in my world.

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Source:
Louis Hay's ©
YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE
Published by Hay House Inc


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Specially sent by Anita It is heart stirring love story.

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me
to take another woman out to dinner and a movie.
She said, 'I love you, but I know this other woman
loves you and would Love to spend
some time with you.'

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my Mother, who has been
a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had
made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner
and a movie. 'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked? My mother is the type
of woman who suspects
that a late night call or a surprise invitation
is a sign of bad news.

'I thought that it would be pleasant to spend
some time with you,' I responded 'just the two of us.' She thought about it
for a moment, and then said,
'I would like that very much.'

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous.
When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous
about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her
hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last
wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an
angel's.
'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were
impressed,' she said, as she got into the car. 'They can't wait to hear
about our meeting.'

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant,
was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm
as if she were the First Lady.

After we sat down, I had to read the menu.
Her eyes could only read large print. Half-way through the entrees, I
lifted my eyes and saw Mother
sitting there staring at me.
A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said.
'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded.
During the dinner , we had an agreeable conversation nothing extraordinary
but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much
that we
missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out
with you again, but only if
you let me invite you.' I agreed.

'How was your dinner date?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice, much
more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so
suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Sometime
later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the
same place Mother and I had dined. An attached note said: 'I paid this bill
in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but, nevertheless, I paid
for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never
know what that night meant for me.

'I love you, son'

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I love YOU'
and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is
more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because
these things cannot be put off till some 'other' time.

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've
had a baby... somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, 'normal' is
history.

Somebody said you can't love the second child as much as you love the
first... somebody doesn't have
two or more children.

Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and
delivery....somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus for the first
day of kindergarten... or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.'

Somebody said a Mother can stop worrying after her child gets married...
somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a
mother's heartstrings.

Somebody said a mother's job is done when her last child leaves home...
somebody never had grandchildren.

Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell
her... somebody isn't a mother.

Pass this along to all the GREAT 'mothers' in your life and to everyone who
ever had a mother.

This isn't just about being a mother; it's about appreciating the people in
your lives while you have them... no matter who that person is!

Watch your thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes...
your destiny.

'Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet
is fighting some kind of battle'.



Dr. Ashok Koparday
_{MBBS, FC SEPI}
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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Do you show your love to your dear ones?
SPECIALLY SENT BY ANITA Arizona, US


If you love someone show it. Express it.
Never assume [ASS of U and ME] s/he would know your love.
When was the last that you expressed love?
Being rich.
Money always falls short so too the love you express is always seems less, just not enough, for in the bosom there is immense space eagerly waiting for the charms of love.
Money Matters or Time Matters
If you have 'no time' you are 'poor' though wealthy, successful or bright.
Giving Exclusive Time Specially to be with her is the most precious Gift you give to the woman in your life. The Best Time is ASAP As Soon As Possible. Disagreement/hurt feelings belong to the dead past. Be alive at this moment. The present moment is fresh and crisp. The present moment is life. In this very moment, very cherishing, unexpectedly cuddle up, hug her with heart throbbing with love.

Do you know that most people love three women in their life?
Three important women in a man's life: Mother, Wife, Daughter
The picturesque story of importance of expressing love with your family and friends is SPECIALLY SENT BY ANITA Arizona, US
Read Love Sutra
Sing Love Songs
Humor:
What married women say and what they mean.
What married men say and what they mean
Back to show your love


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Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
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Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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Fear of first intercourse is not uncommon in boys. When a boy is to get married Sex/Love making/Intercourse guidance is required otherwise doubts cause tension and depression.


Lovers guide for boys for first intercourse is of great use.
Doubts like

• penis size is small,
• stiffness is not as it used to be earlier,
• (and hence)fear of erectile dysfunction and
• (and hence) doubt of being able to satisfy newlywed,
• (and hence) what she will think
• guilt about past habits of masturbation, or night falls

are common in boys. You may be surprised not knowing how common these doubts are.
They cause tremendous tiredness, anxiety, depression in NORMAL boys who suffer this silently due to shame and inability to find correct person to seek guidance.



Relevant words:
first intercourse, how to make love, how to satisfy a woman,
intercourse guide,lovers guide, make love,
make love not war, making good love, newly wed,
newlywed, newlywed advice, to get married
Dr. Ashok Koparday
_{MBBS, FC SEPI}
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

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5 P's describing Man's role

For Men

According to a brochure called "Men Hurt Too" men have five instinctive drives or motivations that make up their life: "the ability to procreate, provide, protect, perform, and [enjoy] pleasure."

* Ability to Procreate
* Ability to Provide
* Ability to Protect
* Ability to Perform
* Ability to Pleasure/Enjoy

source: rcpc.org

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Why girls reach puberty at(average)10.5 years age [Vth standard]?

Psychologist Dr Aric Sigman studied three generations of family;
daughters aged 16 to 20, mother aged 40 to 50, and grandmother aged 65 to 75.
Stress 'fuelling early puberty'
Children
Children's bodies are maturing faster
Unhealthy lifestyles and unstable family environments may be contributing to a fall in the age that girls reach puberty, research suggests.

• Possibly hormone LEPTIN triggers puberty.
• 
  Early Puberty is because of lifestyle factors
• 
  Stress brings early puberty
• 
  Girls staying with step father have early puberty,
  
  possibly because of chemical scents or phermones.
• 
  Chances of
  • behavior problems,
  • depression,
  • difficulty in resisting drugs, drinks, sex increase

Girls staying with step father have early puberty,

possibly because of chemical scents or phermones.
Chances of behavior problems, depression, difficulty in resisting drugs, drinks, sex increase

Psychologist Dr Aric Sigman found girls are reaching puberty 18 months earlier than their mothers, and almost two years earlier than their grandmothers.

He found girls currently start puberty at an average of 10.25 years of age.

His findings echo previous research suggesting 'precocious puberty' is a growing trend.


We have not really thought about the possibility that lifestyle factors might influence something so primitive and profound as the arrival of puberty
Dr Aric Sigman

One Girl in six reaches puberty before the age of 8 years (III standard)

A study by scientists in Bristol in 2000 suggested one girl in six reaches puberty before the age of eight.

One theory is that puberty is triggered by the hormone leptin, which is produced by fat tissue.

Girls are getting progressively heavier with each generation, and as they carry higher levels of fat, they are also likely to have higher levels of leptin.

Unhealthy lifestyle

Dr Sigman's study focused on three generations of family units, each with a daughter aged 16 to 20, a mother aged 40 to 50, and a grandmother aged 65 to 75.

He found the modern generation eats far more sweets and junk food than its predecessors, but less fresh fruit and vegetables.

Today's young women were also much more likely to travel by car than on foot.

They were also much more to lead a 'coach potato' lifestyle, taking little exercise.

The combination of a poor diet, and an sedentary lifestyle was fueling obesity rates, said Dr Sigman.

Stress factor

However, he also found evidence that a stressful home life raised the likelihood of an early puberty.

Dr Sigman told the BBC News website that this was possibly an ancient evolutionary response.

"If a girl senses her environment is unstable then it may be that an evolutionary mechanism kicks in to try to ensure that her genes are passed on sooner rather than later," he said.

There is some evidence to suggest that puberty arrives earlier in girls who live with a stepfather.

It is postulated that this might be due exposure to the stepfather's chemical scents, or pheromones, which are likely to have a more profound effect than those associated with a birth parent.

Dr Sigman said it had been assumed that puberty was purely a biological phenomenon influenced by genetics.

"We have not really thought about the possibility that lifestyle factors might influence something so primitive and profound as the arrival of puberty, but it might very well be that they have an impact."

He said early puberty was associated with a number of risks.

Risks of early puberty

For instance, girls were vulnerable to emotional disturbances, such as depression, and behavioural problems, such as taking up drinking, smoking or drugs.

Young girls who suddenly started to mature sexually were also less able to control their impulses than those who hit puberty at a later stage, he said. This might in part explain why rates of teenage pregnancy have risen in recent times.

"They tend to work on the hedonistic principle that if it's enjoyable, then it must be right," he said.

Dr Sigman, who's report was commissioned by Clearasil, said it was important for parents to be aware that puberty might arrive early for their daughters, and to try to talk to them in advance about the changes they would experience.

Professor Peter Clayton, a paediatric endocrinologist at the University of Manchester, told the BBC News website it was still unclear what factors might be driving a reduction in the age of onset of puberty.

He said: "Certainly in our clinical practice, we treat more girls with precocious puberty than we did 10 years ago, but this may be a reflection of awareness rather than a true shift in physical development."

Professor Ilpo Huhtaniemi, an expert in reproductive biology at Imperial College London, said: "There is still lots that we do not understand about this phenomenon.

"For instance, girls adopted from third world countries to well-off countries seem to have a very high incidence of precocious puberty."
source
BBC NEWS | Health | Stress 'fuelling early puberty'

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Magic of Viagra in other diseases too.

BBC NEWS | Health | Viagra 'aids muscular dystrophy'

Viagra 'aids muscular dystrophy'
Viagra
Viagra improves blood flow

The anti-impotence drug Viagra may help save people with muscular dystrophy from an early death, a study suggests.

Researchers found the way the drug works to combat impotence may also help ward off heart failure in muscular dystrophy patients.

Tests on mice with a version of the disease showed the drug helped keep their hearts working well.

The Montreal Heart Institute study appears in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.


It is important to remember that benefits seen in animals do not always translate into human medicine
Dr Marita Pohlschmidt
Muscular Dystrophy Campaign

Muscular dystrophy is a genetic condition causing wasting of the muscles.

The first signs of muscular weakness appear at roughly age five, leading to a progressive loss in the ability to walk by the age of 13.

People with the condition are also at a higher risk of heart failure due to a weakening of the muscles which keep the organ pumping strongly.

For this reason, many people with Duchenne muscular dystrophy - the most common form of the condition - die in early life, often in their 20s or 30s.

Blood flow

The Montreal team found that Viagra - known technically as sildenafil - prevents the loss of a molecule, cGMP, which plays a key role in keeping blood vessels dilated.

In the penis, this increases blood flow, and helps to combat impotence.

But in the heart it helps to ensure the organ itself receives a proper supply of blood, and remains healthy and strong.

With the heart in a strong condition, it is more able to withstand the impact of weakening muscle cells caused by muscular dystrophy.

Viagra works by blocking an enzyme, PDE5, which breaks down cGMP.

Professor Jean-Claude Tardif, director of the Montreal Heart Institute Research Centre, said: "These experimental results give us hope that one day it will be possible to treat with this approach cardiac problems in patients with muscular dystrophy, and perhaps even treat other heart diseases."

The researchers also inserted a gene that increased cGMP production in the mice's heart cells, and found that this helped the animals to maintain normal cardiac function.

Dr Marita Pohlschmidt, director of research at the Muscular Dystrophy Campaign, said the research was interesting.

However, she added: "It is important to remember that benefits seen in animals do not always translate into human medicine.

"Although this is promising, it is still very early days and we look forward to further research that will demonstrate the impact it might have for people with muscular dystrophy."