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QUESTION
HOW TO OVERCOME ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION
ok so the last 2 days my erection hasnt been the hardest it should be, and im really upset about it. the gf wants to have fun with me but now im worried =/ this just happened out of nowhere too, its very weird because last week my erections were rock hard and perfect but now its not as good. I think this is erectile dysfunction and it just came out nowhere...! is there anyway to overcome this? i dont wanna use medications or anything like that, and how long could this last? because i dont want to upset my gf ;( I need to overcome this!


11 ANSWERS
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by xxx xxx:
AGE? if your like 20's thats early for ED.
but like people like 30-50 its more common.
umm if you have it , you have it forever.
the have meds for it but theres no magic pill that makes everything better.
Idk what to say. Talk to your doctor , he'll know what to do.
And also dont be embarrassed to be on medication. tons of people have ED.



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by xxx xxx:
Maybe you don't really like her.

3
by xxxx xxx:
Stop drinking
stop taking any drugs
look into any prescribed medication

Exercise daily..

Failing all that, try taking one kamagra (its the same as viagra) I order from this company

relax more. spend more time with foreplay. when you are worried about it , it will not work.

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by xxx xxx:

you can start working out .. that seems to help on energy, also i being trying to get in shape and I started using Nolvadex xt, is a steroid boosters, I had crazy energy and i don't know what viagra works but I felt I was on it. Saw a hot hot girl I was ready in 3 secs.

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By xxx xxx xxx:
First thing you have to do is RELAX! If you get stressed out and focus on the fact that you couldn't "get it up," you never will.
Next, check on whether or not your taking any sort of meds, prescription, over the counter or even recreational drugs can impact how "ready to go" you become. Stuff like muscle relaxers and some painkillers will cause problems. Cold medicine that "speeds you up" also causes it.
If nothing like that is going on, try enjoying extended your foreplay sessions. Your lady will always appreciate that, especially if you're giving her "oral."
Good luck!


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i doubt its erectyle disfunction.
my boyfriend had the same issue when he started doing those things with me.
he was upset and really embarrassed by it.
but we talked about it , but anything i said didnt help him realize he shouldn't be upset or embarrassed.
it happens.
you'll over come it.
i don't really remember how me and my boyfriend got through it.
we went to have sex for the first time without the comdom.
and just shoved him in the way he was , he was hard but not REALLLLLLLLY extremely as hard as he could be.
just has he tried to go at it, he got harder.
and ever since then we just start without a condom.
and once hes hard he puts one on.
( but he makes sure he pees before we have sex so then there is no sperm in pre come )
ACTUALLy, now he has no problem getting hard.
and he gets really hard ;)




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xxx xxx:
It's all about blood flow. A good healthy diet with a lot of greens will work wonders as well as exercise which circulates the blood. Emotional problems and stress will cause ED as well.

Take care of yourself first and then stay focused on your GF's pleasure during sex- you'll be fine.

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by xxx xxx:
Get some viagra tablets you'll be hard as nails all night.


9
by xxx xxx:
Relax. You had a couple bad days. It happens.You don't have ED.



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by Dr. Ashok Koparday:

Hi,

There is a way to overcome your present situation. If last week your erections were rock hard than throw away the word 'erectile dysfunction'.

Last two days your had erections, which you found not as hard as it should be. Throw away the word 'should be'. It is notorious for causing sex problems.

EXAMPLE
"ok so the last 2 days my appetite hasn't been the best as it should be, and im really upset about it. the mother wants to _ _ _"

The above comment sounds ridiculous for we know that some times we do eat less, yet that doesn't drive us to Gastroenterologist, for we are not upset.


WHY IT HAPPENED?
Similarly, it is common to notice less 'hard on' on some days. Often there is no particular reason for this. You noticed the erection was less, but you failed to notice that your excitement at that time was less, 'not as it should be' using your language.

WILL THIS RECUR OR PERSIST?
Constant attention to check erectile function diverts attention instead of being focussed freely on sexual excitement. This is the culprit that can interfere with getting rock like 'hard on'. Getting alarmed is poisonous.

WHAT TO DO TO REGAIN 'HARD ON'?
Earlier you never bothered about erection. Sexual arousal peaked and you got an erection automatically, effortlessly.
This 'care free' attitude is winning formula to regain rock like 'hard on'.

If, even once you notice 'hard on', as during masturbation or early morning when you wake up (Nocturnal Penile Tumescence), you can be sure that you will get back your usual hard on and have fun.

In fact if you do nothing then too you will get hard on as you were getting earlier because what you noticed in two days was temporary and not an uncommon occurence.

Dr.Ashok Koparday
Consultant in Sexual Medicine
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by xxx xxx xxx:
Read the following article to see if any of the items listed apply to you. If they do - then lifestyle adjustments are necessary to help resolve your issue. If not - then a medical evaluation will help.

WHAT ARE MY OPTIONS?

Definite DON'Ts

Alcohol
Alcohol kills reproductive cells and decreases sperm viability. It also disrupts the link between the brain and the penis. Excessive use of alcohol inhibits the creation of the male sex hormone, androgen.


Smoking
Nicotine reduces arterial pressure and as a result, prevents blood circulation to the penis. In addition, toxic substances from smoking are detrimental for sperm maturation.

Marijuana
Sharply reduces the level of male sexual hormones, disrupts chromosomes and promotes undesired genetic changes.

Anabolic Steroids
Anabolic steroids bear a close resemblance to testosterone and as a result, the body stops its natural production causing impotence to occur.

High Cholesterol
Too much cholesterol blocks the vessels providing blood to the penis and thereby reduces the blood flow necessary to maintain an erection.

Overweight
Being overweight can disrupt your hormone balance and, as a result, the production of hormones necessary for achieving erection can become insufficient.

Chemical drugs
Studies show that out of two hundred most used medicines; as many as sixteen are likely to cause impotence. Among the most risky are drugs used for the treatment of high blood pressure, depression, insomnia, ulcers, tumors, plus a couple of medications used to combat allergy


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SEX gives glowing skin and silky hair, fit body and calmer mind. Sex reduces stress-irritability-depression. Sex gives longer life and .....

BENEFITS FOR
WOMEN
Richer sexual life endows women with harmony in hormonal changes.
Good sexual life gives better hormonal and biochemical balance beneficial during premenstrual, pre-menopausal, menopausal and postmenopausal changes.
Regular sex and intimacy is important for psychological and physiological well being. Good sex life is expected to reduce incidence of gynecological disorders such as ovarian diseases, uterine fibroids, cancer of breast and cervix.
More scientific study and research is necessary to establish health benefits of sex for women.
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PSYCHOLOGICAL -EMOTIONS
SOUL -SATISFACTION
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physical emotional health
protects against diseases
joint and muscle pain
happier
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physically healthier
blood circulation
metabolic rate
well being of mind and soul
To this are added benefits of love
SOUL satisfaction,
feeling secure, wanted and loved
Gives sense of belonging
EMOTIONAL well being
Sex is Nature's tranquilizer. Reduces stress, irritability, depression.

SEX IS GOD GIVEN. SEX IS NATURE'S RECIPE FOR BEAUTIFUL, HEALTHY AND LONGER LIFE

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THE TIMES OF INDIA
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GOOD SEX EVERY DAY KEEPS DOCTOR AWAY

by
MONIKA RAWAL

dated 21 February 2009, 12:00pm IST

You would have never thought that a kiss could help keeping dental worries at bay or a gratifying sexual act at night make you feel fit and
Lovemaking couple
Have fun in bed for a healthy life


fresh the next morning. But that's what studies across the web claim.
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Healthy sex leads to a healthy life. You may have tried copious measures to get that extra glowing skin and shiny hair.
figure
You must have also worked out rigorously to achieve that perfect ten figure you've desired. But the key to your mind and heart is fulfilling sex.
irritable or depressed
Even for those who lose their temper or are always in a depressed state of mind, 'sex' can be the solution.
asthama
headache
burns calories
fitness
tranquiliser
physical emotional health
protects against diseases
joint and muscle pain
happier
stress reliever
physically healthier
blood circulation
metabolic rate
well being of mind and soul

To this are added benefits of love
feel secure, wanted, loved
sense of belonging
A happy sexual life with your partner not only gets you in shape with better skin texture and silken tresses, it also burns extra calories, keeps you fit, combats asthma, relieves headache, reduces depression and tranquilises your mind. From make-up experts, hair stylists, sexologists and fitness connoisseurs – there's a common consensus that a vigourous sexual life leads to a healthy life – both physically and emotionally. We get them share more on this...

There have been several notions stating that 'sex' produces certain hormones that bring happiness, which lead to a fit body and a healthy mind. Shedding some light on this, Dr. Sanjay Chugh, specialist on sexual issues, states, "Sex contributes to general good health. Any sexual intimacy that is enjoyable and pleasurable promotes well being by providing several physical and psychological benefits. It is believed that sex boosts chemicals in the body that protects us against diseases. Research also suggests that sex and masturbation can help ease joint and muscle pain, combat depression, promote heart health and lengthen one's life span."

Dr. Samir Parikh, clinical psychiatrist adds, "The basic fact is that a good sex life also means in a larger picture, a good relationship with one's partner and this makes the partner happier, less stressed and by virtue of that physically healthier."

Not just this, sex also accelerates blood circulation and one's basic metabolic rate, which further enhances the well-being of our mind and soul and helps us calm down.

On these emotional benefits, Dr Chugh adds, "A satisfying sexual relationship strengthens the bond between couples, making them feel secure and loved. The feeling of emotional connectedness adds to ones sense of belonging, which in totality helps them achieve a positive physical, psychological and spiritual state that is necessary for one's general health."

Elaborating further, on a scientific angle, Dr Avdesh Sharma, a consultant psychiatrist, and an expert on relationship issues shares, "Sex is a way of bonding at the physical, mental and emotional level and leads to health (including psychological) benefits. If it is used as a mechanical process, it may have limited benefits. There are physiological benefits of positive changes in parameters like pulse, heart rate, reduction in blood pressure
(after an increase in B.P. specially if vigourous sex is tried), dilation of blood vessels and capillaries of the skin, leading to a 'glow', burning of a few calories (depending on the duration of the act and vigour), exercising of some of the muscles, thus improving lung capacity (during heavy breathing)."

However, we also need to understand that sexual acts work more in terms of improving resistance, but are not a safe guard or a treatment to illnesses. Any sexual act can neither be used as a treatment nor would it change your stresses of life, which one would need to resolve irrespective.

"The extra edge of sex may be due to the feeling of being wanted, an expression of emotions and certain hormonal and physiological changes that happen as an expression of love for another individual. Unfortunately, the benefits of sexuality are usually quoted out of context and people may look at this as a panacea for everything. But sexuality without emotions have limited value," concludes Dr Avdesh Sharma.

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How sperms are attracted to ovum?


Understanding how sperm are attracted to ovaries and eggs might lead to treatments for problems with human conception.

Sperm on a treadmill

Although scientists are still trying to figure out the exact chemicals that urge such an attraction, sperm swim vigorously in the direction of extracts from various female reproductive organs, especially ovaries.

What is chemotaxis?

Scientists call this type of attraction chemotaxis.
"Defects in sperm chemotaxis may be a cause of infertility, and consequently, sperm chemotaxis could potentially be used as a diagnostic tool to determine sperm quality or as a therapeutic procedure in male infertility," said study co-author Stephen Jacobson.
mouse sperm cells, researchers at the University of Indiana, Bloomington

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Sexes differ in the way they respond to stress.
Women and men differ in mechanism of coping with stress.

Recent study published in the Journal of Physiology and Behavior Gert J.Ter Horst, Team at the University Medical Center Groningen, Netherlands, "We conclude that the female brain has a different innate strategy to handle stress than the male brain and that female animal models are necessary for studying the underlying mechanisms and options for treatment."

Abstract
Women in the reproductive age are more vulnerable to develop affective disorders than men. This difference may attribute to anatomical differences, hormonal influences and environmental factors such as stress. However, the higher prevalence in women normalizes once menopause is established, suggesting that ovarian hormones may play an important role in the development of depression in women. Ovarian hormones such as estrogen can pass the brain-blood barrier and bind to cytoplasmatic estrogen receptor (ER)-alpha and ER-beta in different areas of the limbic system. During stress, estrogen can modulate the behavioral and neurobiological response depending on the concentrations of estrogen. In this review we present evidence for disparate effects of chronic stress on neuroplasticity and brain activity in male and female rats. Furthermore, we will demonstrate that effects of social support on coping with stress can be mimicked by social housing of rats and that this model can be used for identification of underlying neurobiological mechanisms, including behavior, phosphorylation of CREB and ERK1/2, and brain activity changes as measured with fos expression. Using cyclic administration of estrogen in ovariectomized female rats we could specifically address effects of different plasma estrogen levels and antidepressants on stress-induced neuroplasticity and activity changes. In this model we also studied effects of estrogen on recovery after chronic stress. We conclude that the female brain has a different innate strategy to handle stress than the male brain and that female animal models are necessary for studying the underlying mechanisms and options for treatment.

ScienceDirect - Physiology & Behavior : Sex differences in stress responses: Focus on ovarian hormones

Study Team
Gert J. Ter Horst, Romy Wichmanna, Marjolein Gerritsa, Christel Westenbroeka and Yanhua Lina

Dept. Neuroscience, Neuroimaging Center & Section Anatomy, University Medical Center Groningen, Antonius Deusinglaan 2, PO Box 196, 9700 AD Groningen, The Netherlands

Received 9 December 2008;
revised 3 February 2009;
accepted 20 February 2009.
Available online 9 March 2009.
Accessed online 20 March 2009

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Sex differences in stress responses
http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.physbeh.2009.02.036

Journal of Physiology and Behavior

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Sex in Animals and Human beings

by Henry Stanton (Excerpt)
Sex and the part it plays in human life cannot be ignored. In the case of animals sex plays a simpler and less complex rôle. It is a purely natural and instinctive function whose underlying purpose is the perpetuation of the species. It is not complicated by the many incidental phenomena which result, in man's case, from psychologic, economic, moral and religious causes. Climate, social conditions, individual modes of life and work, alcohol, wealth and poverty, and other factors affect sexual activity in human beings. Sexual love, which is practically unknown to the animals, is a special development of the sex urge in the human soul. The deeper purpose of the sex function in human beings, likewise, is procreation, the reproduction of species.

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For you have but mistook me all this while.
I live with bread like you, feel want,
Taste grief, need friends: subjected thus,
How can you say to me I am a king?
—Shakespeare, Richard II 3.2.174-177

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I'm Gay and You're Not:

Understanding Homosexuality Fears

OCD Takes Many Forms

Straight versus Gay people who have anxiety

Before such treatment, HOCD is all terror and rant. I am now going to type two imaginary rants. The first will be by a straight male who has HOCD. The second will be by an gay male who is in the closet but has no HOCD. Can you see the difference?

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Diagnostic Puzzle

STRAIGHT MALE HOCD SUFFERER:

I know that I am gay, but I have only ever gotten hard with girls. This must be because I am in the closet, and I know that I'll suddenly get hard with guys once I come out. But the thought of being with another guy makes me sick. Damn, gay stuff is so disgusting! I'd never want some naked guy to touch me that way. But my mind tells me that this is what I want, and that I'll be O.K. with it once I come out because I am gay. But I'm not gay! But my mind tells me I am. Dammit, why won't my mind shut up? I do all this checking by looking at gay porn, and I still don't know what I am. But I just want to look at hot women instead. I have never been attracted to guys, but I know I am a gay guy. This anxiety is killing me. I can't even hear the word gay without becoming anxious.

GAY MALE IN THE CLOSET WITH NO HOCD:

I know that I am gay, and I have only ever gotten hard with guys. I am in the closet because I am afraid people will reject me, yet I have always wanted with everything in me to fall in love with another man who loves me back. That would be so beautiful. I was taught that gay stuff was disgusting, but when I think of being held by a man I get butterflies in my stomach. When I see a guy I like, it just feels right. The only anxiety I feel is over what others think of gays and how I think I'll be treated by straight people in power if they find out about me. I don't feel any anxiety when I think about how lucky gay guys who are out of the closet must be, and I wish I could be like them.

The second rant is what I would have said many years ago. The first rant is what I hear on the board. When I saw rants like the first one last November, I knew that I was not dealing with gay folks at all.

Source:
I'm Gay and You're Not:
Understanding Homosexuality Fears
OCD Takes Many Forms
http://www.brainphysics.com/yourenotgay2.php

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But Why Fear Being Gay?

Like any monster, mythical or otherwise, OCD strikes when a person is vulnerable, and it only stands to reason that an OCD sufferer who stresses over the opposite sex for whatever reason (a break up, an abusive partner, no dates, too many poor dates, and so on) might get hit with HOCD. Still, I know OCD folks with poor self-image and terrible track records on dating who have gotten HOCD, and others in the same situation who have not. The random element is also a factor here.

TREATMENT

Now that we are clear about what HOCD does, we need to talk about how it works once it hits. I am neither a health care professional nor a person with any skill in science; for this reason, my explanation is going to be in simple laymen terms. Imagine a parent whose child has not returned home at the appointed hour. The parent then hears about a fatal accident nearby, and he or she goes into panic mode full of what-ifs and dread. Worry for that child takes over all rational thought, and reason does little to quell the parent's anxiety. Suddenly, the child walks through the door unharmed or calls to apologize for being late. The parent may or may not start yelling or simply hug the child in relief, but his or her fears are immediately put to rest.

Not so the OCD sufferer. We are in that very state of panic 24/7, and it continues even after we have proof that our fear is unwarranted. Catastrophic thoughts gets stuck in our malfunctioning brains, and illogical thinking makes us find ways to keep 'proving' the worst and disputing evidence to the contrary. OCD sufferers who fear contamination from walls not cleaned a 'special' way, for example, act illogically--but to them the fear feels real. I know that I was being ludicrous when I spent the better part of my waking hours expecting to die in agony, along with all my loved ones, because of an imagined natural disaster that was on its way. It felt so real at the time; now I cannot imagine what I was thinking.

HOCD works the same way: Heterosexual sufferers feel that the gay thoughts are real even though, in their hearts, they know that they are straight. Since HOCD depends on terror and illogic, no amount of reassurance works for long. The sufferer has to let go of the thoughts with a "Yeah, whatever" attitude and, above all, not react to them emotionally. When OCD sufferers freak out, they strengthen the hold OCD has on them. Behavior therapy (whether initiated by professional behavior therapists or the sufferers themselves) is the way out of the OCD trap. Medication, which need not always be permanent, can be a godsend since it speeds up results and helps sufferers control their symptoms.

source:
http://www.brainphysics.com/yourenotgay.php

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I am Mark. I am gay man with obsessive compulsive disorder.

I turned 40 a week ago, and I have been out of the closet for almost two decades. In that time, I have helped other truly gay people come out of the closet. If I thought for a minute that even one of the straight HOCD sufferers on the board was gay, I would do the same for him or her. Yet, while I have done my best to help many on the board, I have helped no one come out of the closet.

The Mental Agony

As of this writing I have been bombarded by threads, private messages, e-mail, and instant messages by straight folks terrified that they are gay (and a very small number of gay and bisexual folks terrified that they, too, are not their real sexual orientation). My initial assessment of HOCD stands firm: Whatever HOCD tells the sufferer is a lie. I have had the wonderful experience of talking to people who had initially talked to me in HOCD mode but have since gone on medication and undergone behavior therapy; they now tell me that they are clearly heterosexual and don't know what they were thinking before. Yeah, well, I could have told them that. In fact, I did.

The only part of my initial assessment that has changed is my realization that HOCD is far more common in the OCD population than most people think. I don't think most OCD sufferers get it; I know I have never had it (although I could have gotten it and shudder at the thought). Nevertheless, it is sufficiently widespread to warrant more specialists in the field, more media exposure, and more understanding among therapists relatives, friends, and, especially, gay people who give the wrong advice. Before November 2004, I would have given the wrong advice, too.

So why do some OCD sufferers get HOCD when others do not? Who knows? Why did I have terrors about earthquakes and research them for close to two years when I never had, say, Harm OCD? Again, who knows? To a large degree, I believe, the mental daggers our OCD sends us are random. To a small degree, I also believe, they have something to do with what we fear most. In Harry Potter language, OCD has the same power as a Dementor: It fills us with our most unhappy thoughts and saps all happiness out of us. It is what a Boggart becomes, a manifestation of our worst fears. Of course, Harry learned to defeat Dementors and Boggarts.

Source:
Article Title:
I'm Gay and You're Not:
Understanding Homosexuality Fears
Am I Gay? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder Takes Many Forms
Website: http://www.brainphysics.com/yourenotgay.php
Accessed: April 06, 2009

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The Rules

Hello there! My name is Mark, and I am a gay male with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). I am writing for the benefit of heterosexual folks who hope to use this article to understand their fears about being gay (also known as gay OCD or HOCD). No worries, my friend: If you are trying to understand yourself or someone close to you who has HOCD, you are reading the right article.

Rule one: If you say you are heterosexual, then you are. Period.

Rule two: There are no other rules.

Thank you for taking the time to read and obey the rules. I am a teacher in my real life, and I always spell out the rules early on.

Now that we are coming at this from the same mindset, please bear with me as I walk you through HOCD.

What is Homosexual OCD?

In November 2004, real-life stress was playing havoc with my emotions and OCD. I had been off medication and out of therapy for years, and I needed a place where I could talk about personal issues. Searching under OCD and gay, I discovered the old BrainPhysics discussion board and decided to post. I thought I was joining a board full of gay people with OCD. Only ten minutes after I had started reading the most recent posts, however, I realized that something was wrong: The folks with gay fears were clearly not gay. It took another five minutes for me to figure out what HOCD was and why so many people had gay obsessions. "Well, duh!" I thought. "This is an OCD board. Of course they have false obsessions."

Before my own OCD was treated, I had suffered for years with obsessions about natural disasters, religion, my health, and being rejected. What I saw in the HOCD obsessions mirrored the anxiety, checking, illogical thinking, and broken record quality of everything I had experienced. HOCD felt real to its sufferers just as my own obsessions had felt real to me. Again, duh! OCD always feels real. If it did not, it would not be OCD. It plays with your mind, making you believe lies and doubt truth.

I would later learn that truly gay people may also get HOCD, but that they falsely fear that they are heterosexual. Bisexuals with HOCD have the false fear that they are attracted to only one sex, usually the one they are not currently involved with. These facts alone should help straight HOCD folks to see that they are indeed straight. HOCD is an illness, and who but a gay HOCD sufferer would fear being straight, the thing society prizes? Just as HOCD obsessing over being straight = gay in reality, HOCD obsessing over being gay = straight in reality. Straight folks with HOCD know deep down that they are not gay. But I am getting ahead of myself.

Obsessive thoughts of being homosexual that cause fear in person who is straight.

I turned 40 a week ago, and I have been out of the closet for almost two decades. In that time, I have helped other truly gay people come out of the closet. If I thought for a minute that even one of the straight HOCD sufferers on the board was gay, I would do the same for him or her. Yet, while I have done my best to help many on the board, I have helped no one come out of the closet.

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Kim Sharma (TOI photo)

Actress Kim Sharma tells about food and lot more that can arouse a woman for sex?

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HOW TO INCREASE SEXUAL DESIRE IN WOMEN _ Kim Sharma's version

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Actress Kim Sharma has some ideas to share with people about the food that increase sexual desire in woman. URVASHI ASHAR has the write up done with comments from
Tanushree Poddar, author of You Are What you Eat
Click here to read Dr. Ashok Koparday's: Medical Information on

MEDICINE FOR WOMEN TO INCREASE SEX DESIRE

Actress Kim Sharma's
LIST OF APHRODISIACS

• kesar-badam ka doodh = Milk with saffron and almond,
• Oyster meat,
• cocoa,
• wine,
• honey,
• chocolate,
• vanilla,
• truffles,
• raspberries and
• strawberries
• scent of the food
• there’s a lot that you can do for yourself and your partner
• sexy dress,
• a great perfume,
• romantic music,
• scented candles,
• beautiful flowers,
• wine,
• strawberries covered with chocolate,
• oyster soup,
• tossed salad,
• garlic chicken parmesan,
• dessert wine followed by
• beautifully presented dessert,
• lick those luscious fingers.
  Tanushree Poddar, author of You Are What you Eat
  
• 
  China the bird’s nest soup,>
• Arabs consider the camel’s hump
  
• What does the leading Sexologist Dr. Ashok Koparday
  say about BEST aphrodisiac?

The article below is posted verbatim from

THE TIMES OF INDIA
Sex on a platter
13 Mar 2009, 0800 hrs IST, URVASHI ASHAR , TNN

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Rewind. Way back in the age of Greek Gods and Goddesses, the ‘Venus’ of the Romans or the Goddess of Love and Sensuality was
Aphrodite.

That’s how foods that enhance sexual pleasure got their name — Aphrodisiacs. According to mythology, the Goddess of Love herself considered the amorous sparrows sacred, which is why sparrows were added to brews... However for the sexual desire to take flight, sparrows seem passé. The pills are in. But not many know that some herbs, veggies, fruits, nuts and grains can do the job for you, too.

Actress Kim Sharma, tells us, “The concept of aphrodisiacs isn’t new. It has been existent since time immemorial. And let’s not talk about western fads that have been ‘adopted’ by us. On the contrary, aphrodisiac foods have always been a part of Indian tradition and customs, and the recipes are being passed on gradually to the next generation. It’s another story that we aren’t aware about the ‘aphrodisiacal qualities’ about these things.”
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The actress further explains, “What do you think your grandmother or your mother-in-law is doing when she walks into your room with kesar-badam ka doodh? Well, she is doing more than just being nice to you. Milk with saffron and almond is aphrodisiacal and meant to up the libido. It’s a custom that has been followed over the years... The ‘love potions’ or the need to consume such foods may have arisen from the importance given to procreation then. To father a child was the mission of man; to take the race forward. It was a religious issue then and the potency of both the male and the female was of utmost importance.”

Some of the most common foods with aphrodisiacal characteristics are chocolate, ginger, ginseng, saffron, cardamom, garlic, pineapple, pomegranate, pine seeds, mustard, basil, dates, cherries, figs... “Oyster meat is supposed to be very rich in aphrodisiacal elements,” adds Kim, “And then there’s of course cocoa. You know, in some parts of the world, like Mexico, earlier prostitutes were paid in cocoa beans. Interesting na?”

TESTOSTERONE IS USED TO INCREASE SEXUAL DESIRE IN WOMEN. FOR MORE INFORMATION ON USE OF TESTOSTERONE CLICK HERE.Dr. Ashok Koparday

According to Tanushree Poddar,

author of You Are What you Eat,

aphrodisiac foods are found all over the world, and every culture has their respective beliefs in the union of the male and female. While in China the bird’s nest soup is recommended to cure impotency, Arabs consider the camel’s hump to be the panacea of sexual inadequacy.

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Most foods reminiscent of the male or female sex organ are automatically considered to be those that boost the sexual drive — bananas, carrots, sea urchins, seeds, nuts, asparagus... “But augmenting sexual desire is not only about boring healthy things, it can be made interesting with wine, honey, chocolate, vanilla, truffles, raspberries and strawberries,” suggests Kim,

“Sometimes it’s the scent of the food that does the trick for you. And also more often than not there’s a lot that you can do for yourself and your partner ensuring a perfect end to a perfect date.”


Sensuous Sharma proposes, “A sexy dress, a great perfume, romantic music, scented candles, beautiful flowers, wine, strawberries covered with chocolate, oyster soup, tossed salad, garlic chicken parmesan, dessert wine followed by beautifully presented dessert. And yes, drop the fork and knife, and lick those luscious fingers... it’s ahem!”

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Article Title Sex on a platter-Reviews-Food-Lifestyle-The Times of India

Newspaper: THE TIMES OF INDIA

Date: 13 Mar 2009,

Time: 0800 hrs IST,

Written by: URVASHI ASHAR , TNN

Accessed on March 11, 2009

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DO NOT CONSIDER THAT THE INFORMATION IN THIS ARTICLE written by URVASHI ASHAR as appeared in people's favorite newspaper THE TIMES OF INDIA IS VALIDATED BY DR. ASHOK KOPARDAY.

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HOW TO INCREASE WOMAN'S SEXUAL DESIRE