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Masturbation

I am 31 year old, i have been masturbating since 15 years

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Boy-Does excess masturbation harmful in future?
Girl-I had oral sex. Can it cause pregnancy? Or any other problem? I am afraid plz reply asap. Thnx.
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Please tell me medicine and exercise, food to increase my breast size fast.
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MAJORITY OF PEOPLE TODAY
BELIEVE [WRONGLY] THAT
MASTURBATION OR WET DREAMS IS HARMFUL.


BOYS

AROUSAL - ERECTION - MASTURBATION -
WET DREAMS - ORGASM = ALL ARE NORMAL
For the first time strong sexual feelings begin in the boy.

KNOWLEDGE ALONE IS THE MEDICINE FOR WIDELY PREVALENT
MISCONCEPTION ABOUT MASTURBATION AND WET DREAMS.


Erections occur on slightest arousal and can be embarrassing for the boy.
Boys often start masturbating around this time, as they explore new sexual experiences. If they don't masturbate they may still experience ejaculation during their sleep called as 'wet dream' or 'nightfall' or 'swapna dosh' or 'nocturnal discharge' or 'night dreams'. This is a normal phenomenon. Most boys have orgasms during masturbation before they have had any sexual intercourse.
Why does night fall occur? What to do about it?
Puberty begins between 8 - 13 years in girls and 9 - 13 years in boys. [2 years late in developing countries.]

When a boy matures to become an adult nature makes him capable of reproduction.
The testicles start manufacturing sperms. Mixed with seminal fluid from the seminal vesicles semen is formed. Semen is meant to be discharged out of the body the way urine or stools are meant to be discharged.

The best well wishers of a boy are his parents
who are not aware of this silent suffering.
Hence, allowing to read websites as this one,
or taking a print out and giving it to your son
is the best gift that a parent can give to the child.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

There are only three ways in which semen can come out. Through sexual intercourse, through masturbation or through wet dreams [nightfall/swapna dosh]. Whether you like it or not semen is going to be discharged. Masturbation is the safest and most pleasant way for relief of pent up sexual feelings at all ages. It has health benefits, too. It is to be remembered beyond all doubts that in no way is masturbation or nightfall/wet dreams harmful. It is a natures mechanism of releasing semen, which is being produced incessantly. Even if the person becomes 70 years of age (till he dies) semen production continues and he is capable of producing children. Semen does not contain energy rich material. The idea that semen should be treasured or used sparingly is ridiculous and has no spiritual/religious (scriptural) or medical basis. Masturbation is bad practice, loss of semen is harmful are the most common highly prevalent misconceptions existing in people today. This misconception causes mental distress and harm to individual, which a parent is not aware of because sexual matters are kept private. They are discussed by friends who themselves carry the myth and hence make matters worse. This situation is exploited by quacks who further frighten them by telling how seriously damaging it is and offer expensive medicines (sometimes toxic)to stop masturbation or nightfall.

The best well wishers of a boy are his parents who are not aware of this silent suffering. Hence allowing to read websites as this one, or taking a print out and giving it to your son is the best gift that a parent can give to the child.

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Erections can occur quite unconsciously in teenage boys - sometimes at quite inconvenient and embarrassing times. Boys often start masturbating at this time. Even if they do not masturbate ejaculation occurs during sleep called as wet dream/nightfall/nocturnal discharge/swapna dosh. Masturbation as well as wet dreams are normal and are in no way harmful.


Also known as 'hard-ons' and 'stiffies', tatharta, kadakpana, tightnessboys will begin to experience erections as soon as they start to mature sexually.

It can occur at quite a young age and even happens in some infants, although for different reasons. This functional, yet sometimes embarrassing, experience heralds the start of a boy's life as a fertile adult.
Mechanism of Erection
Erections are caused when blood flows to the penis. It builds up inside it causing pressure. Inside the penis are cavernous spaces that fill up with blood and cause swelling. The swelling, caused by this extra blood, blocks off the veins that normally take blood away from the penis.

When this happens, the blood pressure inside the penis rises dramatically and it enlarges and stiffens, pointing upwards. As an erection disappears, the arteries in the penis narrow again. Then the veins open, removing the blood again and the flow returns to normal.

Once the testicles begin to grow they also develop their adult function - producing sperm.

Millions of sperm - maybe 120 million are created in a day.
Sperms in between 200 and 400 million in number are present in a single ejaculation of semen. The watery fluid that carries sperms is called semen.
The semen or the sperms do not have energy and loss of semen does not cause weakness.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

Sperms are produced in tubes called 'seminiferous tubules'. These are connected to the base of the penis by a single tube called the 'epididymis'. Ejaculation occurs when sperm are forced out of the testes, along the epididymis, and out of the end of the penis.
Note
Although boobs are the subject of many a boy's fantasy, many boys begin to develop breasts of their own during their teenage years. One need not get alarmed by it as this subsides.

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Erectile-Dysfunction-Cause

Vascular diseases account for nearly half of all cases of ED in men older than 50 years. Vascular disease includes

1. atherosclerosis (fatty deposits on the walls of arteries, also called hardening of the arteries),
2. a history of heart attacks,
3. peripheral vascular disease (problems with blood circulation), and
4. high blood pressure.
5. Prolonged tobacco use (smoking) is considered an important risk factor for ED because it is associated with poor circulation and reduced blood flow in the penis.

   The commonest cause of Erectile Dysfuction in young men (below 40 years) is unrealistic expectation.
   Dr. Ashok Koparday

   
   
   Almost any disease can affect erectile function by altering the

• nervous,
• vascular, or
• hormonal systems.

Various diseases may produce changes in the

• smooth muscle tissue of the penis or
• influence mood and behavior.
  
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  MUSE ™
  Vivus Inc
  What are the causes in young boys who are about to get married or those who are just married?
  
  YOUNG ABOUT TO GET MARRIED
  All said and done, the most common cause of Erectile Dysfunction in young male of twenties and thirties is UNREALISTIC EXPECTATION.
  
  MYTHS
  Masturbation is bad is a myth.
  "My penis is small," is yet another myth.
  Such myths, which are nothing but false beliefs, can result in difficulty getting or maintaining erection. Those who are going to get married fear whether they will be able to do sex properly. "How shameful if I am not able to do sex (fail in inserting penis during sex)?"
  Fear of failure,
  performance anxiety are conditions that contribute to PERCEIVED erection problems in boys who are about to get married. Even a single instance of early discharge in the past during secret sexual affair makes a boy nervous and he fears failure in sex after marriage.
  "On the first wedding night (called as 'suhagrat') will I be able to do sex?"
  
  YOUNG JUST MARRIED
  Young just married guys commonly believe that they have Erectile Dysfunction when in fact due to vaginismus the opening of vaginal passage does not allow entry of penis resulting in unconsumated marriage.
  

  All said and done, more is said and less is done.

  
  
  

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Sir,
I am now 25 years complete. I have the habit of masturbation since I was in 8th standard. My science teacher said that it is harmful. I have not had sex with any girl till now. Occasionally I get liquid coming out with 'sexy dreams' at night. Will this habit affect my sexual life after marriage? Is non masturbation right or wrong? What are the problems i have to face because of this while having sex with my spouse? How to correct those problems? Will this leads to impotency? Kindly clarify my doubts. Awaiting with eager for ur reply
Sincerely,
xxxxx
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Dear XXXXXX,

Masturbation v/s Non Masturbation

Is masturbation right or wrong?

I am sorry to say

that the advice of science teacher was either misunderstood or was wrong. There is no harm in masturbation and no gain in avoiding masturbation. Medical science has proved that masturbation is harmless.

On moral grounds also masturbation is safe and proper. Not doing masturbation is not “brahmacharya”.

Unfortunately the three letter word 'sex' is considered synonymous with the other three letter word 'sin'.

SEX = SIN true or false

There is misconception associated with masturbation, which is widely prevalent and you are no exception. Masturbation is healthy and beneficial. Not having sex with any girl till now is healthy and is qualified to be called as virtue.

The occasional ejaculation in sleep that you mention is also normal.

UNDERSTAND THIS

Basically as a boy matures, under the influence of the hormone testosterone semen starts forming. Nature is preparing the boy to grow into an adult capable of reproductive function. Sexual desires surge.

There are only three outlets for the semen to be released:

1. Having sexual relations – This you have avoided and is medically and morally good.

2. Masturbation – This has no side effects whatsoever.

3. Nocturnal emissions – Night dreams, wet dreams – This is noticed by you (you have put into apostrophe in your email: ‘sexy dreams’). In a person who abstains from sex as well as masturbation only one outlet is left for nature. When you are sleeping ‘semen’ is released. Semen is being produced 24 hours and is meant to be released and not to be stored just as urine is not to be stored.

Will this habit affect sex life?

Masturbation is rubbing of penis commonly done using hand. Sexual intercourse is rubbing of penis using vagina. Both are similar. Hence it may be said that one who is doing masturbation for him sexual intercourse is easy because the process is similar. In fact masturbation is good substitute for sexual intercourse.

Sexual growth is in progress. Sexual desires are on fire and semen is being produced by the time you are 15 years. How and why should nature wait till you are 25 years? Nature has its own meaningful timing. You will not have problem because you masturbated.

I wish the false belief that masturbation is not good is wiped out from your brain this very moment.

If you are not clear about the reply or you have any other query do not hesitate to ask.

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Your wellwisher,

Dr. Ashok Koparday

Medical Director

SAMADHAN

Center for Therapy, Education, Research in Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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