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If you are clinically depressed and also experiencing sexual problems, you're not alone. Sexual problems, such as erectile dysfunction (ED) or an inability to have an orgasm, often co-exist with depression. The good news is that doctors can usually treat sexual problems that coincide with depression.
What is the connection between sexual problems and depression?
Think of the brain as a highly sensitive sex organ. Sexual desire startsin the brain and works its way down. That's becauseof special brain chemicals known as neurotransmitters. These chemicals increase communication between brain cells and trigger more blood flow to the sex organs. The problem is, with depression and other mood disorders, these brain chemicals are imbalanced.
Many men and women with depression tell of having low or no sexual desire. And that puts a tremendous strain on intimate relationships .
Do antidepressants cause sexual problems?
As helpful as antidepressants are in boosting a person's mood or sense of self-worth, some types of antidepressants -- for example, the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) -- have undesirable side effects. Those side effects can result in sexual problems.
Antidepressants help boost mood in people with depression by altering the balance of brain chemicals. But the same chemicals are involved in the sexual response. Antidepressantschange that balance too, often causing sexual dysfunction. The sexual side effects of antidepressants appear toincrease as the dose of medication increases.
What types of sexual problems are associated with antidepressants?
Sexual problems with antidepressants may include:
an inability to initiate or enjoy sex
erectile dysfunction (ED) for men
decreased sexual desire
an inability to achieve an orgasm
How are sexual problems with depression treated?
There are ways to manage the sexual side effects of antidepressant medicines without compromising treatment. For example, because some newer antidepressants work differently, they may not affect sexual function. So your doctor may switch you to another type of antidepressant, one that will have less effect on your ability to be intimate. There are also other medications you can take along with your antidepressant that may improve sexual function. The catch is you have to talk to your doctor to get help.
Without knowing there's a sexual problem, your doctor can't do anything about it. Talk openly with both your partner and your doctor. Then ask your doctor what might help your situation.
Once they realize that the sexual problems associated with the medications can be treated, most people taking antidepressants choose to continue taking them.
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SHOULD I MARRY A MAN WHO IS TWICE DIVORCED AND HAS BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Marrying an Older Bipolar Man Here is advice: My advice to ANYONE marrying someone who has been married twice - look hard at what caused the marriages to fail before. In almost all cases it was a two way street, and unless there has been a lot of change and/or counseling in the life of the potential spouse, there isn't any reason to think the outcome will be different this time.Please think this out. I don't think it's a good idea. The fact he has been married twice before means he is not willing to take a good hard look at himself and get help for his problem. It is so true that more women seek psychiatric help than men do. Most men feel they must, at all costs, be a man and figure their problems out themselves (you know ... the old stiff upper lip thing.) Marriage is tough enough, so I'd wait a bit before you consider marriage. If you truly love him, and he's not getting help for his problem just tell him like it is ... get help, then we will think about marriage.Unfortunately, many people seem to believe that they can "make it better". All this person needs is the right loving, caring individual to help them and all of the problems will go away. If the guy is bipolar there is good reason to be concerned. My advice: Run.Marriage is a wonderful union when it's with the right person. I would advise you to be mindful of the redflags you raised just with your question alone. The first thing being that you already labeled him. Bipolar man. This is an illness that can bring with it times of sweet sweet highs, and deep dark lows. Being married to someone who is bipolar can be difficult simply because you can't fix the hurts this illness can cause. You can't be the one to make someone want treatment if they aren't willing to accept they are ill. Sometimes it's hurtful to be alongside someone who is ill and you are just going to have to ride out the highs and lows. There are medication changes, side effects, the symptoms can be unbearable for the one who is bipolar. So you can imagine how it can affect the one who is loving and living the illness without actually having been diagnosed with it. Being in love, married to, or live with someone who is bipolar is the closest you can come to actually having it, without having it. But to label him already, you might need to educate yourself about what you are willing to walk down the isle with. So that when things come up you have some idea how to deal with what is bipolar, and what is just everyday life. Sometimes the line is sooooo very thin, it's hard to tell. I would also look at the flags that are raised about why he has been married 2 times. And when he talks about his ex wives what does he say? Does he accept any responsibility when it comes to saying why those marriages failed? If he doesn't I don't know if I would be so quick to walk down the isle with him. My personal experience has been with someone who was married 3 times and he always talked about his ex wives like they were total losers, they did so bad to him. I thought OH MY GOD, how could a woman not love and want to take care of this man. Well by the time I ran for my life. I KNEW WHY! He was abusive, irresponsible, thought the world owed him, and blamed his life on everyone else. He was 16 years older then I am, and when it comes to someone who is older, age DOES matter. It might not now, but it will later. Just pay attention to what he says about his ex wives. Those things matter. If he doesn't take responsibility for the failure, that says A LOT about him and his integrity. The bipolar will come into play if he is not under doctor's care, taking care of himself, or on meds. Those things matter too. Because with the right medication the symptoms should be in complete remission. It's totally possible to live a happy productive life with bipolar. Part of it starts with taking responsibility for your life, knowing what's your illness, and not blaming EVERYTHING on bipolar, A LOT of people do that too. They OVER RELATE with it. That is VERY common. Knowing what you can and cannot control is key. I know I cannot control the ups and downs, but with meds I can be stable and productive and learn with life skills how to maintain relationships and not use bipolar as a crutch. I would do some soul searching, listen to what he says about his failed marriages it will give you an idea of what kind of husband he is. People are capable of change. Just be mindful that humans often times jump from the frying pan to the fire for comfort. Don't be the fire for the comfort. Be the right person, not looking for the "right" reason. Because when it's RIGHT, you won't need a reason. And you won't have to ask what if, why, but, should I? Bipolar is a serious mental illness. Do some research, talk to mental health professionals/psychiatrists, and perhaps look for a group for family members of those who are bipolar. Learn as much as you can in order to be fully informed before you decide to go forward. New Answer: I am a much older man who has been married twice: each marriage 18 years. I am not bipolar. I think that being married twice does send up a red flag, however the circumstances of both marriages are vital. Be honest with your boyfriend and tell him to his face that you want him to be honest to you and to give you all the details of both marriages, including his failures. After he answers your questions, go away for a while, whatever it takes, and think over his answers. In my case, I was mostly responsible for my first divorce. I was a selfish, Godless jerk who treated her like crap until I became born again in our second year of marriage. But the damage I had already caused in the relationship was too much for her. After our children had become older she requested a divorce. My second marriage was a re-bounder where I latched on to a pretty face and seemingly Christian girl. After several years I realized that I had married a narcissist one who can love only themselves...she was merely acting. She eventually had several affairs, and I finally gave her an ultimatum to stop her affairs or I would divorce her. Well, here I am again, after another 18 years of effort. My fault? Of course, I should have really waited longer before I married again. Am I unfit to marry again? No. I have learned much about marriage and my own shortcomings. Most of all, I have learned that a relationship must be God-based before it can be marriage based. If you can sit down with your boyfriend and pray for each other, openly, honestly, it is a good sign. Just make sure he isn't pretending to be that holy guy. But, if he is really medically bipolar, then he needs to get help before he marries anyone. New Answer: I'd be very wary of someone with bipolar disorder who didn't take the mood stabilisers, and possibly antipsychotics, as per the prescriber's instructions. If you live with someone for some considerable time first, you can make an accurate assessment of this. View http://your-mental-health.weebly.com/c.html and post questions in the bipolar chat sites, and forums, and in the mental health section of Yahoo!Answers (when it is up and running!). --May I suggest you go to www.letstalkbipolar.com, this is a wonderful websit with lots of resources surrounding bipolar. It's a great sit for getting information, support, answers and more. A SECOND OPINION (different user): I firmly believe that the first answerer is unfairly biased against people who are bipolar. A lot of the advise above is, frankly, horrible. Do not EVER use Yahoo! Answers to ask serious questions. Yes, you should do some research about the different bipolar disorders (yes, there is more than one type), but you should use WebMD, they know what they are talking about. The fact that he has been married twice before does not necessarily mean he is a bad guy. Find out WHY the relationships ended. Is it fine to question a relationship with this man because he is bipolar and he has been married twice before? Absolutely, but do not automatically rule him out. Do not automatically "run" like the above person answered. For all you know, he could have been in relationships with horrible people. Or he could have been doing drugs and beating the heck out of them, you don't know. Find out if it was his fault, or if it was their fault. Bipolar disorder can vary in severity. He could be Bipolar I. That is fairly severe and normally requires anti-psychotic medication. Or he could Cyclothemic. which is hardly even noticeable in most people. Cyclothemia is defined as not affecting a person's everyday life; and, in some people, is hardly even noticeable. Find out if he needs help/ is getting help. If he is supposed to take medicine, make him take it. Spell that out as a condition of your marriage. Your marriage could easily help him in many ways, but you have to figure out why his earlier marriages ended. People who are bipolar also have a strong tendency to abuse drugs. If he is abusing drugs that is a strong reason to question the idea of marriage. Many people who are bipolar do quite well, in fact, some of the best English-language writers ever were bipolar. See Charles Dickens and Mary Shelley. But the success of someone who is bipolar is often very dependent on whether they do drugs. Drug abuse can be the difference between being in a history book or being Charlie Sheen for a bipolar person. I know this stuff sounds horrible, but if he is getting treatment, not doing drugs and the past divorces were not his fault (or at least not bipolar related) , then this could work for you two. He should be willing to talk to you about this stuff. Make a plan, get him to take his medicine (if he has been given any by a psychiatrist), and support him. Remember though, he has to take care of himself some as well, you can't do everything for him. Here is a good site for more information: http://www.ehow.com/how_4909886_marry-man-bipolar-disorder.html I can tell you that this site is more aimed at people who are trying to marry someone with Bipolar 1 disorder. If he has Bipolar 2 or Cyclothemic disorders you may not have to deal with everything that the site talks about. This should be obvious, but if he is violent do not stay in the relationship.
*.ANOTHER ANSWER-Knowing a guy with bipolar is tricky. When in up phase he is a VERY different man from when he is down. Knowing these words isn't knowing reality at all. When depressed he can't take care of himself and now that he has already told you he can't be blamed. If my loved one was bent upon marrying a bipolar I would say live with the guy for an year and then decide.
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erectile-dysfunction-situational
Erectile Dysfunction (previously called
IMPOTENCE) causes such a marked dissatisfaction that it can lead to severe distress amounting to depression and can even lead to considerable impairment in work and relationships.
A boy/man/guy afflicted with ED (Erectile Dysfunction) can have difficulty that spills in to other areas of his life (aspects other than sexual life) 24 x 7. The mind becomes unquiet even if he imagines he has ED, that is in the absence of proven ED. ED, unfortunately, becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
CAUSES OF SITUATIONAL ED
What this means is
IMPORTANT
a man may not really have ED, but the doubt, the apprehension, the belief, just the imagination, fear or worry of ED (impotence) can lead to impotence/erectile dysfunction.
The other causes of situational ED is
*fatigue,
*distraction,
*ignorance, *inadequate sexual arousal (no mood)
and
*disturbance (some physical or emotional disturbance as having had a bad day or the mood is not just right).
Often in this type of ED the sexual act is mechanical (without enough sexual arousal) or forced attempt at sexual intercourse, that is, attempting sex in the absence of high sexual arousal, as in situations when sex is motivated mainly by intention of pregnancy or when the Doctor has recommended certain dates for sexual intercourse to facilitate conception or to avoid pregnancy.
It may also occur just because he/she believes he/she is expected to do sex (important situational reason) as on occasions such as the first night after wedding (Suhagrat) when he is really not prepared for it.
FEAR OF FAILURE
PERFORMANCE ANXIETY
Fear of failure is a common cause of Erectile Dysfunction.
It is well known that PERFORMANCE ANXIETY causes impotence or failure to obtain or sustain erection.
If the boy (guy/man) is under pressure resulting from too much desire to impress her, example, as in extra marital affair (includes premarital affair) or during honey moon (wrongly believing that first impression is the last impression).
MYTHS MISCONCEPTIONS
He may be stressed out due to high expectation from one self or lack of confidence of one's sexual ability or misconception, myth or wrong belief about genitals or their ability.
Prognosis
GOOD NEWS is almost often, especially under the guidance of an experienced counsellor (Sex Therapist), this man's ED is curable.
Definition
WHAT IS SITUATIONAL ED?
Situational Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is TEMPORARY inability in obtaining and or maintaining Erection good enough for satisfactory sexual intercourse.
Note that this ED is temporary and almost always curable even without medicines usually with the help of an expert marriage or sex counsellor.
Differential Diagnosis
WHAT IS NOT SITUATIONAL ED?
In contrast to situational ED is ORGANIC ED, that is ED, which is because of causes such as actual damage caused by disease processes such as Diabetes or Hypertension. Thus, pathological process is implicated in the causation of Organic Erectile Dysfunction.
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Dr. Ashok Koparday
is a marriage counselor and sex therapist practising in Mumbai.
Dr. Ashok Koparday
is a medical doctor who was teaching at Seth G. S. Medical College affiliated to Mumbai's K.E.M. Hospital, University of Mumbai.
Contact: ask@mydoctortells.com
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Nerves in the genital area
Sexual sensations are necessary for complete climax called ORGASM.
With the onset of sexual sensations, sensuous and erotic arousal goes on building in ecstatic excitement exploding into orgasm, the climax of sexual pleasure on sexy stimulation. This is facilitated by specific nerves in your body.
Which are these sex nerves?
These nerves may be affected in disease conditions thereby giving rise to sexual dysfunctions in men and women.
The nerves that communicate sexual pleasure in men and women are as follows.
transmits from the uterus and the cervix in women and from the prostate in men.
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transmits from the cervix, uterus and vagina.
Compiled by Dr. Ashok Koparde (Koparday) the specialist sex doctor now practising in Mumbai. Dr. Ashok Koparde was in the teaching faculty of Seth G. S. Medical College and K.E.M. Hospital (the prestigious King Edward Memorial Hospital, Parel, Mumbai) of the University of Mumbai (Bombay), India.
SOURCE
Title
What happens in the brain during an orgasm?
Author
by Shanna Freeman
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There are not many differences between men's and women's brains when it comes to sex.
In both,***the brain region behind the left eye, called the lateral or bitofrontal cortex,***shuts down during orgasm.
Janniko R. Georgiadis, one of the researchers, said, "It's the seat of reason and behavioral control. But when you have an orgasm, you lose control" [source: LA Times ].
HEROIN
Dr. Gert Holstege stated that the brain during an orgasm looks much like the brain of a person taking heroin. He stated that "95 percent is the same" [source: Science News ].
Brain differences sex men women
There are some differences, however. When a woman has sex, a part of the brain stem called the
*
periaqueductal gray (PAG) is activated. The PAG controls the "flight or fight" response.
**
Women's brains also showed decreased activity in the amygdala and hippocampus, which deal with fear and anxiety. The team theorized that these differencesexisted because women have more of a need to feel safe and relaxed in order to enjoy sex.
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In addition, the area of the cortex associated with pain was activated in women, which shows that there is a distinct connection between pain and pleasure.
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Dr. Ashok Koparday
is a marriage counselor and sex therapist practising in Mumbai.
Dr. Ashok Koparday
is a medical doctor who was teaching at Seth G. S. Medical College affiliated to Mumbai's
K.E.M. Hospital, University of Mumbai.
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HER QUESTION:
Really scared for my first time intercourse ?
I don't have a clue on what to do! Don't know
how to suck people of? How do I know if he's reached an orgasm, how far does his ***** have to go inside me to reach an orgasm!!!!???!
ANSWER:
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You will know gradually. It is important that your boy friend respects you, is patient with you and does things (inserting in vagina) gently because it is your first time.
It is not important how deep it goes in vagina as long as it is pleasurable for you. All women do not get orgasm all the times they have sex. Orgasms are not essential everytime and a woman does get satisfied even in absence of orgasms. There is no rule other than the rule to follow your own and his pleasure. Some things like sucking 'p_ _ is' does turn some girls off initially.
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Dr. Ashok Koparday Office:+91 9867788877
Email: ask [at] mydoctortells [dot] com
Sexologist, Mumbai
Answer:
In layman's terms, it's everything that leads up to penetration. Cuddling, kissing, touching, oral, etc.
Answer
In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physical acts between two or more people, meant to build up sexual arousal. Foreplay takes place in preparation for sexual intercourse or another act meant to bring about mutual sexual gratification or orgasm.
Psychologically, foreplay lowers inhibitions and increases the emotional comfort level between partners. Physically, it helps to produce an erection in men, allowing them to penetrate an orifice, and it helps to promote vaginal lubrication in women, which allows penetration to take placecomfortably. Foreplay can take many forms, and can take place, up to a point at least, in public.This kiss has many of thecharacteristics of foreplay; whether or not kissing is foreplay depends on where the couple goes from here.
If the potential partner accepts the sexual invitation, foreplay has begun. Accepting the invitation is often indicated by reciprocating with similar behavior. Since these interactions are non-explicit, there can bemisunderstandings about whether an invitation has been extended and/or accepted. Whether advertent or not, this kind of miscommunication is often termed "leading someone on".
At some point, foreplay typically becomes physical. Simple and seemingly innocuous acts, such as straightening someone's clothing or hair, bumpinginto someone while walking, stroking someone's arm, or whispering in someone'sear can constitute foreplay. Holding hands, other touching (especially of the face), kissing, biting, massaging, or scratching any area of the body can all qualify as foreplay.
As the couple's degree of comfort and/or privacy increases, the level of intimacy in their actions usually does. More intimate examples include:
* deep tongue kissing (also known as French kissing)
* touching and massaging erogenous zones over clothing (also known as groping or petting)
* touching and massaging erogenous zones under clothing (also known as heavy-petting)
* rubbing together of partners' erogenous zones over clothing (also known as dry humping or grinding)
* undressing one's self orone's partner (also known as stripping)
These various examples are often combined; if foreplay doesn't lead to sexual intercourse, a session of such acts is sometimes called"petting" or "making out".
Direct manipulation of naked erogenous zones is almost always considered foreplay. In women, this includes stimulation of the clitorisand labia lips. In men, this includes stimulation of the penis and testicles.For both genders, this includes stimulation of nipples and anus. Stimulation can be achieved using a mouth, hands, sex toys (such as dildos or vibrators), or common household objects (such as feathers or ice cubes).
Safe sex practices can be incorporated as part of foreplay. If a condom or dental dam is going to beused, it can be applied in an erotic or playful way as part of the final stagesof foreplay. (Even if birth control is being handled by Pill or some other hormonal form, safe sex still requires protection against sexually transmitted diseases.)
Foreplay tends to become more purely physical as well as more intense as it proceeds. Foreplay reaches its peakin the moments just before intercourse, whenit lowers any remaining inhibitions and produces a strong mutual desire for penetration. Even at this point, some genital teasing may take place for a brief time, which marks foreplay's final seconds.
Sexual roleplaying, fetishactivities, and BDSM can also be considered foreplay, though they more commonly accompany sex rather than preceding it.
Answer
Anything you do; makingout, touching, etc, before you actually have sex.
Answer
Foreplay is "what happens before sex to get your both ready".
BUT I have found that I can get aroused without any sexual contact. Oftenjust holding hands or kissing. Sometimes it's just the way he puts his hand on my shoulder or arm as we are talking.
Unfortunately, most times we can't act on it:-( because we are in public places, kids are around, etc. So by the time we get alone, we have to have foreplay again.
Answer
Most of the answers I seeare what I would consider correct. Touching each other, no matter where, is foreplay. What turns on one person may not turn on another. I have seen some women be turned on just by kissing them, they would be turned on to the point of orgasm. And I have also seen some that only oral stimulation of the clit would turn them on. All people are different and respond differently. Foreplay is really up to each individual couple asto what they want and need from each other to be stimulated to the point of making love with each other. This question I have tried to answer must have been posted by a very young person. Most couples know the answers for this.
Answer
Foreplay is the most important part of the sexact. Without it you mightas well just go ahead andmasturbate and get on with life. I am speaking from the man's point of view for I am a man. firstyou must undress the lady slowly while gently kissing any bare skin exposed on the way. Now that young lady is completely naked start gently kissing mouth andneck slowly working your way down to the lovely breast which by they way is the door to females sex drive you bypass the breast you've blown it. Take your time on the breast gently sucking and rotating tongue around nipple after so many minutes continue on down gentlykissing till past the belly button(do not mess with this) go straight to the desert kiss her vagina and gently start licking start looking for the clitoris by now it will be swollen and moist if you've done everything right before arriving. While licking the clitoris also lick the rest of the vagina in between with free hands you should be squeezing buttocks gently and if she lets you getting her anus moist soyou can insert index finger very gently in her anus, this well give her max climax right before climax take other two fingers on other hand ensert in vagina while licking the clitoris (some men don't care for the smell so they hesitate to go down on a lady don't let this stop you breath through your mouth onlyand you can overcome this it's very important ina sexual relationship thatyou master this.)
Answer
Simply put, FOREPLAY is both partners stimulating each other with touching, kissing and heavy "petting". Thisis an important part of sex, because it gets both people in the "mood" and makes intercourse more enjoyable for both; during foreplay the female becomes "wet" inher vagina and that is LUBRICATION for enjoyable intercourse.
Answer
Foreplay is the best thingyou can do to your partner. Experiment withpenetration in different ways. Use oils and even food to spice things up a little. Trust me, women love foreplay...And of course do men, but they love anything associated to sex!
Answer
Plenty of foreplay is essential for 'good sex'. From a woman's point of view there are few things more unsatisfying and annoying than an impatient man, almost panting with lust, who treats sex like the 'HokeyCokey' - 'in-out, in-out, yashake it all about' ... This kind of thing leaves women unsatisfied and often sends them to the bathroom for an autoerotic 'hand job'. It really is unacceptable.
Long ago I had a very sophisticated girlfriend who was sexually highly experienced. She had a rule, which was, 'No penetration till you've made me O at least twice!' She added with a smile that it wasn't meant completely literally, but the general point was very clear! :)
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Another Perspective
Foreplay may also have an important biological function. Humans are theonly primates that do nothave a Baculum , or bone in the male penis. Humans are the only male primates that must become psychologically aroused in order to become erect enough to penetrate the female. Foreplay, therefore, may be an important aspect in stimulating the male.
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divorce-procedure-religion
Due to existence of diverse religious faiths in India, the Indian Judiciary has implemented laws separately for couples belonging to different religious beliefs.
Divorce procedure in India is based on the following acts.
•The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955
With the advancement of time and social awareness, several acts have been passed by the government to make the present day divorce procedure in India more progressive with respect to gender affairs and related sensitive issues.
•The Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936
•The dissolution of Muslim Marriage act, 1939
•The Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936
•The Special Marriage Act, 1956
•The Foreign Marriage Act, 1969
The Muslim Women Act 1986 was passed to protect the rights of Muslim women on divorce.
For inter caste and inter- religion marriages the divorce laws are approved under The Special Marriage Act, 1956.
A contested divorce is filed on the grounds that are mentioned in the acts passed out separately for different Indian religions.
Source:
indidivorce
Note
Some Western people, as Josh Chetwynd, confuse between these two words.
"_ _ _More than 80% of India's population is Hindi, _ _ _". The word 'Hindi' should be replaced
The word 'Hindi' should be replaced by the word 'Hindu'. 'Hindi' is (devnagri) language spoken mainly in states in North India. 'Hindu' is religion of most people in India. The other religions are called as 'Minorities'. Example: Parsi, Muslim.
There are castes and subcastes in 'Hindu' religion, but let us not complicate.
Dr. Ashok Koparday
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Divorces are of two types.
Contested, where one spouse disagrees to divorce or there is is dispute over alimony, custody of children and other issues.
Mutual consent divorce, where both spouses agree to separate.
The spouses mutually come to agreement regarding maintenance, custody of children and such issues.
LAW - mutual consent divorce
Under Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act, a husband and wife can file a mutual divorce only when
1
they have lived apart for at least a year.
2
The couple must jointly mention about their inability to continue the marital relationship due to some unavoidable circumstances.
3
Both the sides must voluntarily agree to dissolve the marriage.
Filing of mutual divorce
The filing of a mutual divorce by both the husband and the wife is termed as ‘the first motion’. A couple can file for a second motion after a gap of six months. The six months time span is provided to the couple so that they get the time to reconsider their marriage.
Can the divorce be obtained within six months without delay of one year?
Yes, if all the mandatory requirements for the divorce are sufficed.
NOTE
If the divorce file is not withdrawn within eighteen months the court passes a divorce decree. Incase one of the sides withdraws his/her petition the court initiates to make an enquiry. If the concerned side disagrees to give the consent, the court holds no right to pass the divorce judgment.
Summary
1 One year
Divorce procedure in India extends for one year even when there is mutual consent.
2 Marriage Counselor
First six months you have the benefit of qualified marriage counselors in the Family Court. This is important to know because for a common person finding a qualified marriage counselor is difficult, if not impossible.
3 Divorce laws and religion
Divorce laws are different for different religions.
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Artificial Ovary Created with Three-dimensional Tissue Engineering
Posted by TheNonpareil on 9/29/10
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Artificial Ovary Created with Three-dimensional Tissue Engineering.
For the first time ever, scientists from Brown University in
Rhode Island have created in the laboratory an artificial ovary which
can function exactly like that of a woman ovary.
The study is published in the Journal of Assisted Reproduction and Genetics.
The researchers, led by Sandra Carson, have used a technique
called three-dimensional tissue engineering, this technique is using
cells from women of childbearing age.
The artificial ovary can accommodate the immature egg cells
until they are ready to be deposited in the womb.
This will allow women who have undergone heavy chemotherapy treatments that have damaged the reproductive system to open up new possibilities for conception.Before they receive anti-cancer treatment, in fact,
the Eggs could be taken from that woman, then freezing it immediately,
and then implanted in the woman external ovary.
It’s the first real 3D engineering success says Carson.
adolescents-india
Jayaji Krishna Nath, M.D., and Vishwarath R. Nayar
http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/IES/india.html
Today’s teenagers are faced with an ever-widening gap between the age at which they are physically ready to have sexual intercourse and the age at which it is culturally acceptable for them to do so.
Adolescents in India today face a number of problems related to changing value systems and social expectations. The sexual world of adolescents is becoming increasingly complex. In traditional Indian society, adolescents were initiated into their sexual roles, more or less, in a clearly defined period and by a series of ceremonies and rites. As in some other cultures, these included instruction on their sex roles, marriage customs, sexual morality, and acceptable sexual behavior. But with the influence of Western culture, the present generation of youth are facing a number of problems that are ultimately forcing them to violate the traditional norms as laid down by the society.
When Kakar and Chowdhary (1970) examined some aspects of sexual behavior among young men prior to marriage, they found that a lack of adequate information and opportunities prompted these young people to turn to literature (often pornographic), to experimentation with prostitutes, friends, or relatives of the opposite or same sex, to covert observation of sexual activities of others, and to masturbation. Reddy and his colleagues, in a 1983 study of young people, found that the sample youth had their first sexual experience between the ages of 15 and 24 years. Homosexual activities were also reported in this study: 38 percentage of women in the sample reported that their first sexual activity had been with a partner of the same sex. The Family Planning Foundation of India undertook a study in 1990 among teenagers (between 14 and 17 years) and found that about one fourth of them expressed their acceptance of premarital sexual contact, “if the boy and the girl were actually in love.” While a good number of respondents were aware of at least one contraceptive method, they had very little precise knowledge. Men were found to be more liberal in their views than women.
Mane and Maitra (1992) have rightly inferred that relatively little is known about the sexual behavior and attitudes towards different aspects and forms of sexual activity in India.” With changing conditions in India, the opportunities for risk-taking behavior among adolescents seem to be increasing. Coping with sex is a growing problem for young people. Today’s teenagers are faced with an ever-widening gap between the age at which they are physically ready to have sexual intercourse and the age at which it is culturally acceptable for them to do so. Youngsters are in fact often sandwiched between a near-obsessive preoccupation with sex in the media and a veritable wall of silence from other sources of information on the subject.
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Kakar 1989
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Jayaji Krishna Nath, M.D., and Vishwarath R. Nayar
WOMAN
Woman not pleasure, just mother
AS GODDESS, MOTHER, BUT NOT AS LOVER~SPOUSE
Despite new currents, very often in Indian culture, a woman’s body is not seen as an object of pride or pleasure, but as something that is made impure every day, an abode of sinfulness. Thus, a muted yet extremely powerful theme can be found in Hindu marriages: “the cultural unease, indeed, the fear of woman as woman.” Women, as reflected in popular novels and clinical practice, frequently view their sexuality as a capacity to redress a lopsided distribution of power between the sexes (Kakar 1989:13). The age-old, yet still persisting, cultural splitting of the wife into a mother and a whore, which underlies the husband-wife relationship and which explains the often contradictory Hindu views of the woman, is hardly unique to Indian culture, though it may be more pervasive here than in other cultures (Kakar 1989, 17).
The social context determines whether the woman is viewed as divine, good, or bad - as partner in ritual, as mother, or as whore. In the context of ritual, women are honored and respected. In her maternal aspect, actual or potential, woman is again a person deserving all reverence. “It is only just as a woman, as a female sexual being, that the patriarchal culture’s horror and scorn are heaped upon the hapless wife” (Kakar 1989, 17).
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Jayaji Krishna Nath, M.D., and Vishwarath R. Nayar
MARRIAGES IN INDIA
Adult marriage is generally the rule in India. Usually it is expected that a husband must be in a position to earn a living and his wife must be able to run the home, which they set up after marriage. The influence of the Hindu religion has resulted in some prepuberty marriages. The vast majority of regular marriages are still parent-made, arranged marriages. Irregular marriages do occur with the increasing influence of Western concepts of romantic love in the mass media of magazines and movies. In one form of irregular marriage, the two lovers run away and stay away until they are accepted by their families, which is done as a matter of course. In a second form, known as “Intrusion,” a girl confronts her chosen husband and his parents and presses their acceptance of her by living in the house. A third form involves “forcible application of vermilion,” when a young man takes the opportunity at some fair or festival to place a vermilion scarf on his chosen girl’s head. Sometimes a betrothal ceremony takes place before the marriage proper is solemnized. Legally, marriage take place only between those who have passed the puberty stage. At the marriage ceremony, the local priest is required to officiate and prayers and offerings are made to the gods.
MODERNIZATION
Due to modernization and the influence of Western culture, arranged marriages are becoming less popular and common, especially in metropolitan cities. In its place, marriages based on the couple’s choice, often crossing caste and/or religious boundaries, are becoming more common.
While sexual urges had to be subordinated to social norms in the joint-family system, except for rare rebellious behavior or outbursts, the present newly found freedom has instigated more openness and casualness in matters of sexual behavior. Expressions and feelings that would have been termed scandalous and in need of being tamed to adhere to socially accepted rules, values, and practices, are now accepted as natural.
Individualism, in its Western Euroamerican consciousness is foreign to the traditional Indian social consciousness and experience. However, this is changing. Sudhir Kakar, a distinguished psychoanalyst who has taught at the Universities of Harvard, Chicago, and Vienna, and written extensively on Indian sexuality, notes that “individualism even now stirs but faintly” in India (Kakar 1989:4).
India, with an area of 1.26 million square miles (3.29 million kilometers), is the largest democratic country in the world.
The country has about 16 percent of the world’s total population and 2.4 percent of the global land area.
India is one third the size of the United States and occupies most of the Indian subcontinent in south Asia.
Next to China, India is the most populous country in the world, with a 1995 population of 950 million.
India’s urban population accounts for 28 percent of the country’s total population.
In 1991, one third of the 12.6 million inhabitants of Bombay were homeless, living on the streets or in squatters’ camps built on putrid landfills. Bombay, India’s most populous city, has 100,000 people per square kilometer.
Jayaji Krishna Nath, M.D., and Vishwarath R. Nayar
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Mother...!!
Mother's love is deeper than ocean,
Mother's lesson is bigger than the sky,
Mother's sacrifice is greater than God,
Mother's lap is more comfortable than the warm bed,
Mother's tale is better than the best novel on this earth,
Mother's picture is more beautiful than a fascinating scenery,
Mother's blessings are more powerful than the thousands of seas,
Mother's shade is cooler than the shade of heavy laden trees,
Mother's light is brighter than the sun,
Mother's role is seventy times greater than the father,
Mother's place is more sacred than any shrine,
Mother's care higher than the heaven.
female-sexual-dysfunctions
Keywords:
- Female Sexual Dysfunction;
- Definition;
- Diagnosis and Treatment of Women's Sexual Dysfunction;
- Desire Disorder;
- Arousal Disorder;
- Orgasm Disorder;
- Sexual Pain Disorder
ABSTRACT
Introduction. Women's sexual dysfunction includes reduced interest/incentives for sexual engagement, difficulties with becoming subjectively and/or genitally aroused, difficulties in triggering desire during sexual engagement, orgasm disorder, and sexual pain.
Aim. To update the recommendations published in 2004, from the 2nd International Consultation on Sexual Medicine (ICSM) pertaining to the diagnosis and treatment of women's sexual dysfunctions.
Methods. A third international consultation in collaboration with the major sexual medicine associations assembled over 186 multidisciplinary experts from 33 countries into 25 committees. Twenty one experts from six countries contributed to the Recommendations on Sexual Dysfunctions in Women.
Main Outcome Measure. Expert opinion was based on grading of evidence-based medical literature, widespread internal committee discussion, public presentation, and debate.
Results. A comprehensive assessment of medical, sexual, and psychosocial history is recommended for diagnosis and management. Indications for general and focused pelvic genital examination are identified. Evidence based recommendations for further revisions of definitions for sexual disorders are given. An evidence based approach to management is provided. Extensive references are provided in the full ICSM reports.
Conclusions. There remains a need for more research and scientific reporting on the optimal management of women's sexual dysfunctions including multidisciplinary approaches. Basson R, Wierman ME, van Lankveld J, and Brotto L. Summary of the recommendations on sexual dysfunctions in women. J Sex Med 2010;7:314–326.
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wildrainbow on September 14th, 2010
im not gay but i am bi but i still very much like guys lol
ANSWER BY DR. ASHOK KOPARDAY
Make friendship with the guy you like. If he is gay both will know how to be quiet about raising eyebrows. Keep it controlled outside and privately develop deep relation such that both like. This way will not give reason to others in school to tell him any thing.
And there are others and other times. Opportunities come and you learn to deal with friendship just the right way.
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ovary
Ovaries are oval shaped and, in the human, measure approximately 3 cm x 1.5 cm x 1.5 cm (about the size of a Greek olive).
The ovary (for a given side) is located in the lateral wall of the pelvis in a region called the ovarian fossa. The fossa usually lies beneath the external iliac artery and in front of the ureter and the internal iliac artery.
The ovaries aren't attached to the fallopian tubes but to the outer layer of the uterus via the ovarian ligaments. Usually each ovary takes turns releasing eggs every month; however, if there was a case where one ovary was absent or dysfunctional then the other ovary would continue providing eggs to be released.
Hormones
Ovaries secrete both estrogen and progesterone. Estrogen is responsible for the appearance of secondary sex characteristics of females at puberty and for the maturation and maintenance of the reproductive organs in their mature functional state. Progesterone functions with estrogen by promoting cyclic changes in the endometrium (it prepares the endometrium for pregnancy), as well as by helping maintain the endometrium in a healthy state during pregnancy.
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Cryopreservation of ovarian tissue, often called Ovarian Tissue Cryopreservation, is of interest to women who want to preserve their reproductive function beyond the natural limit, or whose reproductive potential is threatened by cancer therapy, for example in hematologic malignancies or breast cancer. The procedure is to take a part of the ovary and carry out slow freezing before storing it in liquid nitrogen whilst therapy is undertaken. Tissue can then be thawed and implanted near the fallopian, either orthotopic (on the natural location) or heterotopic (on the abdominal wall), where it starts to produce new eggs, allowing normal conception to take place. A study of 60 procedures concluded that ovarian tissue harvesting appears to be safe. The ovarian tissue may also be transplanted into mice that are immunocompromised (SCID mice) to avoid graft rejection, and tissue can be harvested later when mature follicles have developed.
Reference
Wikipedia
^ a b c Oktay K, Oktem O (November 2008). "Ovarian cryopreservation and transplantation for fertility preservation for medical indications: report of an ongoing experience". Fertil. Steril.. doi:10.1016/j.fertnstert.2008.10.006. PMID 19013568.
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A HUSBAND (MAN) may have the ability to have feelings for more than one woman, whereas
A WIFE (WOMAN) tends to give her devotion to only one man, so when she has come to the point of engaging in an affair, she has generally withdrawn her affection from her husband and given it to the other man.
HUSBAND:
When a husband cheats, generally his love has remained steadfast for his wife, even while he's given part of himself to another.
WIFE:
When the wife cheats she is more likely to have entertained thoughts of leaving her marriage for her affair partner.
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A husband wakes up at home with a huge hangover. He forces himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of aspirins and a glass of water on the side table. He sits down and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and pressed. He looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotless, clean. So is the rest of the house.
He takes the aspirins and notices a note on the table. "Honey, breakfast is on the table, I left early to go grocery shopping. Love You!"
Totally shocked with the note , he goes to the kitchen and sure enough there is a hot breakfast and the morning newspaper. His son is also at the table, eating. He asks, "Son, what happened last night?"
His son says, "Well, you came home around 3 AM, drunk and delirious.
Broke some crockery, puked in the hall, and gave yourself a black eye when you stumbled into the door". Confused, the man asks, "So, why is everything in order and so clean, and breakfast is on the table waiting for me? I should expect a big quarrel with her!"
His son replies, "Oh, that! Mom dragged you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your clothes n shoes off, you said, "LADY LEAVE ME ALONE! I'M MARRIED!"
Self-induced hangover - $ 400.00
Broken crockery - $ 800.00
Breakfast - $ 10.00
Saying the Right Thing While Drunk - "PRICELESS "
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FROM SPECIAL CONTRIBUTOR
On the first day, God created the dog and said:
'Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years.'
The dog said: 'That's a long time to be barking. How about only ten years and I'll give you back the other ten?'
So God agreed.
On the second day, God created the monkey and said:
'Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I'll give you a twenty-year life span.'
The monkey said: 'Monkey tricks for twenty years? That's a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the Dog did?'
And God agreed.
On the third day, God created the cow and said:
'You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years.'
The cow said: 'That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years.. How about twenty and I'll give back the other forty?'
And God agreed again.
On the fourth day, God created humans and said:
'Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I'll give you twenty years.'
But the human said:
'Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?'
'Okay,' said God, 'You asked for it.'
So that is why for our first twenty years we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years we slave in the sun to support our family. For the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren. And for the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.
Life has now been explained to you.
There is no need to thank me for this valuable information. I'm doing it as a public service.
Dr. Ashok Koparday MBBS FCSEPI
Consultant PsychoSexual Medicine
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships
Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India
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Steven Wright 01
You know how it is when you're reading a book and falling asleep, you're reading, reading . . . And all of a sudden you notice your eyes are closed? I'm like that all the time.
Last night, I walked up to this beautiful woman in a bar and asked herThen she asked, "How do you feel?" and I said, "Well, you know when you're sitting on a chair and you lean back so you're just on two legs then you lean too far and you almost fall over but at the last second you catch yourself? I feel like that all the time."
Right now I'm having amnesia and deja vu at the same time. I think I've forgotten this before.
Lots of comedians have people they try to mimic. I mimic my shadow.
He asked me if I knew what time it was. I said, "Yes, but not right now."
I put tape on the mirrors/glass in my house so I don't accidentally walk through into another dimension.
Steven Wright 02
I've been doing a lot of abstract painting lately, extremely abstract. No brush, no paint, no canvas, I just think about it.
I like to reminisce with people I don't know.
I'm so hyper . . . [Said with a very dull voice.]
Four years ago . . . No, it was yesterday. Today I . . . No, that wasn't me. Sometimes I . . . No, I don't.
Is it weird in here, or is it just me?
A friend of mine once sent me a post card with a picture of the entire planet Earth taken from space. On the back it said, "Wish you were here."
Steven Wright 03
Every so often, I like to stick my head out the window, look up, and smile for a satellite picture.
I'm moving to Mars next week, so if you have any boxes...
Sorry, my mind was wandering. One time my mind went all the way to Venus on mail order and I couldn't pay for it.
I have a map of the United States... Actual size. It says, "Scale: 1 mile = 1 mile." I spent last summer folding it. I also have a full-size map of the world. I hardly ever unroll it. People ask me where I live, and I say, "E6".
It's a small world, but I wouldn't want to have to paint it.
Cross country skiing is great if you live in a small country.
Everywhere is walking distance if you have the time.
You can't have everything. Where would you put it?
I have the world's largest collection of seashells. I keep it on all the beaches of the world . . . Perhaps you've seen it.
Steven Wright 03
Every so often, I like to stick my head out the window, look up, and smile for a satellite picture.
I'm moving to Mars next week, so if you have any boxes...
Sorry, my mind was wandering. One time my mind went all the way to Venus on mail order and I couldn't pay for it.
Cross country skiing is great if you live in a small country.
Everywhere is walking distance if you have the time.
You can't have everything. Where would you put it?
I have the world's largest collection of seashells. I keep it on all the beaches of the world . . . Perhaps you've seen it.
Steven Wright 04
It's a good thing we have gravity, or else when birds died they'd just stay right up there. Hunters would be all confused.
When I die, I'm leaving my body to science fiction.
I saw a bank that said "24 Hour Banking", but I don't have that much time.
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Samadhan India
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Research in
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Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
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University of Mumbai, India
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Did your parents talk to you about sex?
Did your teachers teach sex the way history, geography is taught?
You know the world's history, but do not know the history of human growth from a child through puberty into a mature adult capable of procreation and receiving and givinig pleasure.
You know the world's geography, but do not know the names of the male and female external and internal genitals. Do you know about methods to avoid pregnancy? It is not nuclear physics. It is clear simple information that you ought to know.
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Love ~ Romance is ecstatic joy that all of us crave. We believe love
is just around - around us here, there; love was in the past or is
coming soon.
We expect love earnestly as if it is birthright.
Literature -Novels, Media- cinema, TV serials portray enchanting tales
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WHY I DO NOT EXPERIENCE LOVE WITH MY SPOUSE?
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Q
does the skin of the penis have to be pulled back before sexual contact...
YOU ASKED
when a guy is erect does the skin of the penis have to be pulled back or can they pull it back before sexual contact...
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Masturbation
I am 31 year old, i have been masturbating since 15 yearsYOU ASKED
I am 31 year old, i have been masturbating since 15 years,days after days i am feeling weaker an weaker, i am very thin and ofter have low confidence on sex, i am eating food but that to it is not effecting to my health,i get weak errection and sometimes no errection, i tried number of medicines ayurvedic and allophatic but didnt seem to work, i and getting more and more depressed day by day, now i want to marry but my girlfriend also complaints that i dont appear to be manly and she does not get warm feeling from me , as a result our relation is at the breaking point, she loves me and even i love her, what should i do??? Please help me
REPLY
Before I begin to reply let me say this again and very clearly:Masturbation does not cause any side effect whatsoever even if done in excess or begun at early age.
Myth about masturbation, bachpan ki galati, buri adat, hastamaithun se sukranu ki kami, is wide spread and people wrongly believe it has bad effect in the present or may have ill effect in future.
A book can be written on what wrong beliefs people carry about effects of masturbation. A very widely prevalent myth is that masturbation or expulsion of semen causes kamjoori weakness.
MEDICAL FACTS, MASTURBATION, SEMEN, DHAT
In adolescence testosterone shoots up and just as boy starts getting moustache, he begins having powerful sexual desire. The semen will come out either my rubbing penis with one’s hand (common method of masturbation in boys), or rubbing of penis during sex with a woman (It has risks if you are unmarried.) or it will be discharged at night, wet dreams, nocturnal discharge, swapna dosh, actually swapna maithun not dosh because there is no dosh.Masturbation is the commonest sexual outlet. If you are not masturbating you are having wet dreams or you are lying.
WEAKNESS AND BEING SLIM
If you look slim, it does not mean you are weak. I remind you, “You have never taken a leave from work because of ‘weaknesses”. During adolescence height increases and there is linear growth of bone.Teenager often appears slim. Besides, if your parents were slim, it is your inherent built.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Do exercises to develop fitness. Mind you, do not take any medicines to make you look plump. They contain steroids and harmful substances. On stopping those medicines your chubby look drops off.What you need is
1.knowledge of medical fact that masturbation does not cause weakness.
If you appear slim it is your natural built. Amitabh Bachchaan also appeared slim in his introducing films. Till now he has never become overweight. Raj Kapoor and his family have inheritary tendency to become overweight.
2.
Your self esteem needs to rise. It is fallen to bottom and in fact you are seriously depressed. The more depressed you are the weaker you will feel. You tried several treatments, which have not helped.
3.
You certainly need to meet Sex Therapist, who will skillfully take you out of this malady. You will radiate with joy. Your sex as well as relation will girl friend will DEFINITELY improve.
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why is it that i can get my self off in a matter of minutes with no trouble, but can never get off during sex?Keywords:
ANEJACULATION
DELAYED EJACULATION
EJACULATION
ORGASM
SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
MASTURBATION
GET MY SELF OFF
GET OFF DURING SEX
REPLY
When you are alone during masturbation you have no inhibitions. You are accustomed to it for years. No wonder you can get off within minutes.When you are having sex with a partner you are with another person and you are more conscious.
If you are a guy :
Hence, the natural reflex can get delayed, but more often the guy comes too soon. In your case you don't get off during sex. More shamelessness, lack of inhibition, increase self esteem is the first thing you have to address to resolve your situation. Even if you do not do anything about it you will start getting off. Becoming HIGHLY NERVOUS and avoiding sex can aggravate your situation.
If you are a woman often you do not come or orgasm with a partner as easily and frequently as you do when alone. This does not mean there is any pathology in you or that you have a dysfunctional relationship.
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1
I have premature ejaculation.
2
I have erctile dysfunction.
3
I want to increase the size of my penis.
4
I am going to get married, but I am worried that I will not be able to do sex on the first wedding night because my penis is bent on right side and I do not get stiffness as I used to before.
5
I am having weakness and backache due to night fall (wet dreams, night fall, swapn dosh). How can I stop this?
6
I have 2 kids. My problem is I do not get hard on as I used to get earlier. It takes long to get hard no. I have tried many medicines & met several doctors. I believe 'Nas mein kamjori hai.'.
7
I had bad habit of masturbation. I have done in excess. I started 'bachpan ki galti' when I was in school.
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While I pass urine or strain for stools I find drops of dhat coming out. I get weakness 'kamjori'.
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I can do sex properly with my wife, but with my girl friend I do not get erection. I tried a lot. She told me, "Go to doctor."
10
For last 2 years I do not get sex desire. 'Kadak nahi hota hai'. I don't get hard on. My cock is small and weak.
I am taking medicines for Blood Pressure (Diabetes) regularly for last 3 years. BP (Sugar) is under control.
How to get desire & erection?
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When I make out with my girl friend discharge. It is very embarrassing. Now even when I watch blue film I discharge. If this happens how can I have sex?
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COMPREHENSIVE SEX EDUCATION
OR ABSTINENCE ONLY SEX EDUCATION
FACTS AND EFFECTS
Teen parents: Bristol Palin, 17, and her boyfriend, Levi Johnston, 18, have ignited a national debate over abortion.
Photo: Susan Walsh / AP
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FAST FACTS
7/23/2008 11:03 AM
Saturday, August 02, 2008 01:39 PM
LIFETIME
In the course of an average lifetime, a man will produce 14 gallons of semen- enough to fill nine good-sized watering cans. Mastu
Napoleon and Hitler each only had one testicle.testis
PENIS
Our eyes are always the same size from birth, but our nose and ears never stop growing. Penis size1
The liver is the largest of the body's internal organs. The skin is the body's largest organ.
-The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue. (Hmmmmm.....)
The muscle that lets your eye blink is the fastest muscle in your body. It allows you to blink 5 times a second. On average, you blink 15 000 times a day. Women blink twice as much as men.
The human brain is 80% water.
The average person will consume 12,000 gallons of water in a lifetime.
You'll drink about 75,000 litres (20,000 gallons) of water in your lifetime.
Then average person will pass about 8800 galloons of urine in a lifetime. This is enough to fill 500 baths – but who’d want to sit in them?
In your lifetime you pump out enough blood to fill the fuel tanks of 800 jumbo jets.
.A man will ejaculate, on average, 7200 times in his life- 2000 of these will be from masturbation.
The average US marriage lasts 9.4 years marriage
-A pig's orgasm lasts for 30 minutes. (In my next life I want to be a pig!)
The average duration of sexual intercourse for humans is a mere two minutes.
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SIC
The desert rat is the ultimate sex machine. It mates up to 122 times an hour sss
Some lions mate over 50 times a day. (In my next life I still want to be a pig... quality over quantity!) sic
Rats multiply so quickly that in 18 months, two rats could have over a million descendants.sic
The speed of an ejaculation has been measured at 28 mph. that’s 3 mph faster than a city bus, although there’s not enough room to fit that many people on. PE
Sex burns 360 calories. Per hour?
-Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour.
(Still not over that pig thing!)
-Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure. (Is that why Flipper was always smiling? And, why isn't the pig included in this list?)sic
The male praying mantis cannot copulate while its head is attached to its body. The female initiates sex by ripping the males head off. ("Honey, I'm home. What the....") sic
Male bee die after mating with the queen bee. Their penises break off sss penis
A female ferret will die if it goes into heat and cannot find a mate.sic
The male gypsy moth can "smell" the virgin female gypsy moth from 1.8 miles [4.8km] away.
The first contraceptive diaphragm consisted of half an orange rind.
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PER DAY
http://www.didyouknow.cd/fastfacts/body.htm
100 million acts of sexual intercourse take place throughout the world every day. Sic
Your mouth produces 1 litre (1.8 pints=0.85 litre) of saliva a day.1 1(1 liter = 2.11 Pints)
Men loose about 40 hairs a day. Women loose about 70 hairs a day.
http://www.didyouknow.cd/fastfacts/body.htm
About 1000 people commit suicide on any one day
Your heart beats about 100,000 times a day.
Enough tealeaves are produced every day to make three billion cups of tea.
On average, 12 newborns will be given to the wrong parents daily (I knew it!).
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MYTHS
Hippocrates, the Father of Medicine, suggested that a woman could enlarge her bust line by singing loudly and often. Myths
Coca-Cola was originally devised as a brain tonic.
Birth-control campaigns in Egypt in the late 1970s foundered because village women preferred to wear the pill in a locket as a talisman. Myths
The Japanese used to wear condoms made from tortoiseshell …presumably to increase their staying power PE
The penalty for masturbation in Indonesia is decapitation. + Myth
Right up until the 19th century, Urine was often used as an early-morning mouthwash Myth
During the First World War, the punishment for homosexuality in the French army was execution. Myth
In Florida, it is illegal to have sexual relations with porcupines… Just in case anyone was tempted.
Such was demand for contraception in Macclesfield that the drains were blocked by thousands of used condoms. EMA
Thirty-five percent of the people who use personal ads for dating are already married.EMA
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.
Donald Duck comics were banned from Finland because he doesn't wear pants.
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In 1609, a doctor named Wecker found a corpse in Bologna with two penises, Since then, there have been 80 similar cases. Penis
To "testify" was based on men in the Roman court swearing to a statement made by swearing on their testicles. Testis
Sigmund Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, had a morbid fear of rail travel.
If the population of China walked past you in single file, the line would never end because of the rate of reproduction.
There are more bacteria in your mouth than there are people in the world. kiss
The Ramses brand condom is named after the great phaoroh Ramses II who fathered over 160 children
Every year, kids in North America spend close to half a billion dollars on chewing gum.
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COMPREHENSIVE SEX EDUCATION v/s ABSTINENCE ONLY SEX EDUCATION
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Poverty, not sex ed, key factor in teen pregnancy
Jonathan Zimmerman
Thursday, September 4, 2008
One side thinks adolescents should receive more "comprehensive" information about sex, including contraception. The others side favors a more didactic approach, with a simpler message: "abstinence only."
Sound familiar?
Brace yourself for yet another round in America's perennial teen-pregnancy wars. On Monday, GOP vice presidential nominee Sarah Palin confirmed that her 17-year-old daughter Bristol is five months pregnant. Faster than you could say "condoms," liberals and conservatives lined up in predictable battle formations. To the liberal camp, of course, the news about Bristol Palin simply confirmed the need for comprehensive sex education in the schools. On the right, meanwhile, Palin's pregnancy spurred new calls for abstinence-only instruction.
They're both wrong.
Let's start with conservatives, and their stubborn demand for abstinence-only education. Last year, an exhaustive five-year study confirmed that kids receiving this instruction are no more likely to delay sexual intercourse than their peers.
But the abstinence-only sex education program still draws $175 million in federal money and untold sums from states and localities. As governor of Alaska, indeed, Sarah Palin supported abstinence-only education and denounced "explicit sex-ed programs" in the schools.
Yet we still don't have any evidence that these explicit programs work, either. As University of Pennsylvania sociologist Frank Furstenberg confirmed last year, in an exhaustive review of the literature, efforts to prove the effectiveness of comprehensive sex education are "generally unimpressive, to say the least."
We know that these programs can enhance students' knowledge about risky sex behaviors and change their attitudes toward these same behaviors. But can sex education actually influence what kids do? As best we can tell, it can't.
There's only one point on which both sides seem to agree: Teen pregnancy is a big problem. They differ on their solutions, of course, but everyone seems to believe that pregnancy hurts the life chances of teenage moms and their children.
Again, the data suggest otherwise. As Furstenberg has shown, bearing a child as a teenager doesn't hurt a woman's prospects for education, job advancement or marriage. Ditto for her kids, who don't suffer any measurable consequences from having a teenage mother.
Instead, they suffer for a much more basic reason: They're poor. About two-thirds of teenage mothers live at or below the poverty line at the time they give birth. The less income and opportunity that you have, the more likely you are to become a teenage parent.
So Americans have it exactly backward. Teen pregnancy doesn't deprive our kids of life chances; instead, kids who lack those chances are the ones who get pregnant. Why? Nobody knows for sure. But it seems that young women who have a sense of power and confidence in their lives are more likely to use contraception. Impoverished girls often lack that confidence, so they don't take measures to protect themselves. They are also less likely to have abortions, which are often too expensive or heavily tabooed in poor communities.
And so the war rages, largely untethered by facts. For in the end, this struggle isn't really about facts at all. It's about rival views of sex itself. Left-leaning Americans view sex as a normal part of human development, so they want to give adolescents the information that will help them make responsible decisions about it. But social conservatives think sex should be reserved for one population alone: married people. Everyone else should abstain, especially if they're teenagers.
That helps explain why Sarah Palin - in revealing Bristol's pregnancy - also announced that her daughter will marry Levi Johnston, the 18-year-old father of Bristol's unborn baby. To drive the point home, Johnston has joined the Palins at the GOP convention. It's a family affair, and now he's a part of it.
The decision won immediate acclaim from conservatives, who regard unwedded childbearing as the greatest plague on the land. And there's a significant body of research showing that children raised by two parents do better than those in single-parent homes.
But we also know that so-called "shotgun" marriages - that is, unions forged in response to a pregnancy - are heavily prone to divorce. That's one reason why divorce rates are so much higher in so-called red states, where young people are more likely to marry after conceiving a child.
All things being equal, of course, it's still best for our teenagers - and for their offspring - to delay parenthood. But all things are not equal, and that's the whole point here. The hype over teen pregnancy diverts us from the truly serious problem in American society, which is the growing poverty of teenagers themselves. Last year, for example, UNICEF ranked the United States second to last among 21 developed Western nations in child health, safety and material well-being. Changing the teen pregnancy rate won't change any of that.
So don't feel sorry for Bristol Palin or her unborn child, who will probably turn out OK. So did Ann Dunham, who bore a son when she was just 18. You've probably heard of him: Barack Obama. He seems to have done pretty well, too.
Instead, think about the teen parents who lack the social and material advantages that you do. Remember that in most cases they're parents because they're poor, and not the other way around. The more we fight about teen pregnancy, the less we'll focus upon teen poverty. And that's bad news for all of us.
Jonathan Zimmerman teaches history and education at New York University. He is the author of "Innocents Abroad: American Teachers in the American Century" (Harvard University Press).
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