One reason is that husband refuses sexual intimacy, though he is cordial in all other ways. The reasons. The Solution.
The girl wonders why, though being a man, the guy does not initiate sexual intimacy. He may be fiance, the boy whom she, fiancee, is going to get married or more often it is the newly wed husband. There are ONLY 3 possible reasons why husband or fiance (boy with whom you are going to marry) avoids physical closeness.
1
He is Gay , that is homosexual.
2
He believes he has some sexual problem. THIS CAN BE TREATED BY SEX THERAPIST OR COUNSELOR
3
There are practically only 2 above mentioned reasons.
If you insist I may say the 3rd reason to avoid intimacy could be rigid social customs, orthodox upbringing. Contacting the girl before marriage is not allowed in their tradition, community or caste.
She starts noticing, her sixth sense tells her something is amiss.
ALL HER CONFRONTATIONS ARE MET BY
Work pressure, no time, tired, want to sleep, not well, head ache, busy day, tomorrow have to get up early, religious excuses, like priest or clergy has said not to do that - sex - till X'mas or till a year. He bursts into arguments and says why are you so interested in sex. Sex is not the only thing in life. It can be done after marriage. We do not want a baby so till one year no sex.
The conversations on telephone are not daily, usually less than 10 - 15 minutes, His talk is about dull topics and unromantic. She usually sulks and expresses that she is angry because he does not call often.
He gives excuses like study/work pressure.
He often avoids holding hands, forget about kissing.
He avoids taking you out alone. In all trips or holidays other family members or friends are present. If there is some time or privacy he fills the time with boring talk or says he is tired and wants to sleep or read or watch TV or sits with the Computer or takes up some office work to do.
1
Find if he has married late.
Usually despite their parents persuasion they delay marriage giving excuses. When the age is nearing 30 years, that is at age of 28 or 29 when all his stock of excuses are over, he has to give in to parents pressure and he agrees to marry.
2
Find if he was forced to marry due to family or society pressure.
3
Find if has or had close BOY friends
4
Any sms, emals, chats, telephone conversations that suggest he is in love with someone else.
5
He is very gentle and loving. You think he is the best husband, best friend, best guy you have met, but _ _ _. Except for his avoiding sexual intimacy he is very loving, eager to fulfill your every desire.
6
Find if he has fear of failure in doing sex
7
Find if he (most often) erroneously believes that he has a sexual problem and cannot do sex.
Wherever the word FIND is used it means the girl will very politely plead and inquire. Persuade him to tell the truth by being firm yet kind. Most often they burst with arguments and anger and it is difficult to stay polite with them in this matter.
All the signs of homosexual are present, yet he does foreplay, but stops at a certain limit and avoids sexual intercourse.
Investigate to find
PROVE HE IS HOMOSEXUAL OR HAS SEX PROBLEM?
No. There is no medical test to detect or confirm sexual inclination of a person.
Hypnosis or Sodium Pentothal (NARCOANALYSIS)Truth Test is not feasible since they require the person's willingness to undergo the test. They are not done to find homosexuality or to change homosexual attraction.
Homosexual WE CANNOT TREAT.
Bisexual TREATMENT IS POSSIBLE
Sexual Dysfunctions or Sex Problems THIS CAN BE DEFINITELY TREATED AND RESOLVED.
IF YOU ARE STILL INTERESTED IN READING FURTHER
NORMAL PATTERN TO BE EXPECTED
[1] Telephone calls last for one hour or more.
Bonding is good. Friendship is great. This is called ROMANCE. It is the best period of the couple's life.
[2] Sexual passion being irresistible the boy INITIATES (begins)sexual intimacy when the slightest opportunity is present.
[3]
If married FOREPLAY is invariably present. It is absent if the husband is homosexual, bisexual or he believes he has sex problem. Even if present it is NOT INITIATED by the husband. The wife has to initiate.
WHAT IS FOREPLAY
Lovers meet hold each other, begin hugging, kissing, caressing. This is called foreplay. All the sexually pleasurable part of lovemaking that precedes sexual intercourse is called foreplay. The characteristic difference in love-making between boys and girls is summed up in this short dictum.
GIRL GIVES SEX TO GET LOVE;
THE BOY GIVES LOVE TO GET SEX.
SEX BEGINS from the time the two lovers eyes meet, ears listen to each other on the cell phone, chatting on the internet. as when listening to each others voice on the cell phone or words spilling in chat on the internet Passionate sexual
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