40-sex-laws-laughs
Sex LawsLaughing matter
The sex stories begin before having a marriage license.
Laughing is good for health and so is sex.
1. No matter how many times you've had it, if it's offered take it, because it'll never be quite the same again.
2. There is no remedy for sex, but more sex.
3. A man in the house is worth two in the street.
4. Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
5. Sex takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble.
6. Virginity can be cured.
7. When a man's wife learns to understand him, she usually stops listening to him.
8. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
9. The law to win is pull it out with a blow job and the heart and mind follows.
10. There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love.
11. Sex is dirty only if it's done right and vice versa.
12. The best way to hold a man is in your arms.
13. When the lights are out, all women are beautiful.
14. Sex is hereditary. Your parents had it, so you too will have it.
15. Sow your grains on Saturday night — then on Sunday pray for crop failure.
16. The younger the better.
17. The game of love is never called off on account of darkness.
18. It was not the apple on the tree but the pair on the ground that caused the trouble in the garden.
19. Sex discriminates against the shy and the ugly.
20. In modern world before you find your handsome prince, you've got to kiss a lot of frogs.
21. There may be some things better than sex and some things worse than sex. But there is nothing exactly like it.
22. Love your neighbor, but don't get caught.
23. Thou shalt not commit adultery…..unless in the mood.
24. Love is done hole heartedly.
25. If the effort that went in research on the female bosom had gone into our space program, we would now be running shop on the moon.
26. Love is a matter of chemistry; sex is a matter of physics.
27. Sex is a three-letter word which needs some old-fashioned four-letter words (love, dear, nice, good) to begin and some five letter words (honey, money) to keep it going.
28. You cannot produce a baby in one month by impregnating nine women.
29. Abstain from wine, women, and song; mostly song.
30. A woman never forgets the men she could have had; a man, the women he couldn't.
31. What matters is not the length of the wand, but the magic in the stick.
32. It is better to be looked over than overlooked.
33. Never say no.
34. Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.
35. A man can be happy with any woman as long as he doesn't love her.
36. Beauty is skin deep; ugly goes right to the bone.
37. For a man love comes in spurts.
38. Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation; the other eight are unimportant.
39. Smile, it makes people wonder what you are thinking.
40. Don't do it if you can't keep it up.
source:
adapted from
http://www.killsometime.com©
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love-song
|| TEENAGERS CHOICE ||
Somebody wants you.
Somebody needs you.
Love calculator or love test cannot convey intensity of my chemical romance as 'love quotes', better still 'love songs', 'love poems' do.
Enrique Iglesias – Somebody's me©, Album insomniac© has captured lover's heart.
Below is the lyric of Somebody's Me© to keep you rocking.
Somebody wants you
Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath without you, it's lonely
Somebody hopes someday you will see
That Somebody's Me (2 x) (Chorus)
You, do you remember me?
Like I remember you?
Do you spend your life
Going back in your mind to that time?
Because I, I walk the streets alone
I hate being on my own
And everyone can see that I really fell
And I'm going through hell
Thinking about you were somebody else
---(Chorus)---
How, How could we go wrong
It was so good and now it's gone
And I pray at night that our paths will soon cross
And what we had isn't lost
Cause you're always right here in my thoughts
(Chorus)
Somebody wants you
Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath without you, it's lonely
Somebody hopes someday you will see
That Somebody's Me (2 x)
You'll always be in my life
Even if I'm not in your life
Because you're in my memory
You, will you remember me
And before you set me free
Oh listen please
(Chorus)
Somebody wants you
Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breath without you, it's lonely
Somebody hopes someday you will see
That Somebody's Me (5 x)
Source:
Lyrics.com ©
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divorce-celebrity
Celebrity and Divorce.
Aditya Chopra's divorce. Payal Khanna OUT. Rani Mukherjee IN.
We had read about celebrity Bertrand Russell's sexual life story earlier.Part 1
click here for part 2
He made the hugely popular Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge and the not so brilliant Mohabbatein , soared at the box office with Dhoom and Chak De , and is now all set to direct Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi .
But finally, hot-shot film producer and sometime director Aditya Chopra's penchant for romance on the big screen may get a legal entry into his real life this May.
Movie mogul Yash Chopra's son is finally on his way to ending his marriage with Payal Khanna and perhaps making a new beginning with current beau, actress Rani Mukherjee.
Chopra's films may have a rambling, leisurely feel, but the mutual consent petition he filed a couple of months back is a crisp two-page affair. There's no storyline here.
As the law requires, it merely says that the husband and wife have irreconcilable differences and want out.
Their married life of five-odd years is headed nowhere, they have told the family court in Bandra. The mandatory six-month cooling-off period required after filing a mutual consent divorce petition will get over this May for the producer.
The state-of-the-art set up of Yash Raj Film Studio is probably designed by Payal Khanna,
with whom 36 year old Aditya, son of Yash Raj, is to get divorced after 5 years of marriage.
It took three joint meetings with their lawyer for the two to set their divorce process in motion. Their lawyer advised them and they agreed not to mention the terms of settlement in the court documents, opting instead for an out-of-court arrangement. As there are no children involved, heartache is at a minimum.
Aditya's family is not too happy with his decision. Family sources say that his parents love their daughter-in-law and would like to take care of her even after the formal split. She has, in any case, been given a spacious home in Juhu and her bank balance has been augmented by several crores. Yash Raj Studios, which has churned out blockbusters and is worth an estimated Rs 1,000 crore, owes its success to the 36-year-old Aditya's brains.
The quiet, soft-spoken producer prefers to keep a low profile in the media and his interviews are hard to come by.
Parents of Adi seem to love their daughter in law.
Payal already has swanky bungalow in Juhu and her bank balance will now increase by several crores.
Out of Court settlement was advised by their lawyer.
Aditya's marriage, it is believed, started falling apart about two years ago. In the first half of 2006 he almost moved out of his house, said sources close to the family. Better known as Adi in the film industry, he returned from the outdoor shoot of Karan Johar’s film Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna but instead of going home checked into a five-star hotel.
An adamant Adi had insisted then that he would not come home, even as his parents tried to reason with him. He apparently wanted Payal to move out of the house before he returned home. He even allegedly threatened to start his own production house, said industry sources. Payal then decided to move to Singapore for sometime so that Aditya would return home and work.
The sprawling and swanky Yash Raj Films studio at Andheri link road with its state-of-the-art set up has apparently been designed by Payal. She had worked relentlessly for years to put up the new YRF studio.
Aditya Chopra files for divorce, to marry Rani?
Source:
22 Feb 2008, 0204 hrs IST, The Times of India
Thanks to Swati Deshpande & Bharti Dubey,TNN
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no-more-troubled-teens
My dear petite teenager,
Tips Tricks for troubled teen, to restore teen health.
Teen advice:
If your mom, teacher, principal scolds or nags you keep these special phrases handy.
HOW TO REPLY?
Have an 'attitude'.
Now teens behavior smells like teen spirit.
Example:
Teen fashion is wow! and teen room is shabby.
Phrase: Your bedroom isn't cluttered, it's just "passage restrictive."
Example:
Is a teenager lazy?
Phrase: A teenager isn't lazy. He's "energetically declined."
What about phrases for use in school?
No one fails a class anymore, he's merely "passing impaired."
You don't have detention, you're just one of the"exit delayed."
Your locker isn't overflowing with junk, it's just "closure prohibitive."
Kids don't get grounded anymore. They merely hit "social speed bumps."
Your homework isn't missing, its just having an "out-of-notebook experience."
You're not sleeping in class, you're "rationing consciousness."
You're not late, you just have a "rescheduled arrival time."
You're not having a bad hair day, you're suffering from "rebellious follicle syndrome."
You don't have smelly gym socks, you have "odor-retentive athletic footwear."
No one's tall anymore. He's "vertically enhanced."
You're not shy. You're "conversationally selective."
You don't talk a lot.. You're just "abundantly verbal."
You weren't passing notes in class. You were "participating in the discreet exchange of penned meditations."
You're not being sent to the principals office. You're "going on a mandatory field trip to the administrative building."
It's not called gossip anymore. It's "the speedy transmission of near-factual information."
The food at the school cafeteria isn't awful. It's "digestively challenging."
Source:
unwind.com
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teenagers-parenting
Dear Mom,
Thanks for being my best friend?
Do not fail to read the mantra for parenting teenagers.
1
Be teenagers friend.
Teenagers thirst for friend.
Mantra for raising teenagers successfully is to be friend of your young teen and also their close friends. My definition of (parent) being a friend is that your petite teen can openly speak to you about all intimate day to day happenings.
Parenting teenagers becomes easy if you are friend to your teenager. If you are a mom teaching teen, than teen advice is better accepted if you are friendly, open, and do not keep criticizing everything the teen does. Then you become teen witch.
Trust me watching teenager blossom is a joy. Do not miss this wonderful experience.
2
Know friends of your teenager.
A
To know all the close and cute teens who are her/his friends
one way is to invite all teens friends for a party at your home. This way you get to know them personally.
B
Other option is call or sms or email jokes to these teens.
Parenting teenagers
Importance of friends.
Your teenager's friends
a]
influence your teens behavior.
b] Friends of teen
provide immediate help when your teenager is in a difficult (emotional or any other) situation,
c] and these friends can
fill you with details about your teen in case you want to counter check.
What is required?
The three Ts
Do you have time to be with your teenagers?
Trust, Time, Talk are the keys for the well being of your teenagers. If you do have the three Ts than watching the teens blossom is a joy that no money can buy.
Raising teenagers:
Are you a troubled mom teaching teens or parent of troubled teen?
'For mother of teenager it is natural to worry', is that your belief?
Be vigilant, but to not pry or keep nagging. They are not your children. They have only come through you. They are children who make next generation different.
Parents cannot impose, they can only influence teens.
They are born with their own programmed software and they will move in that direction, whether you like it or not. Example: A doctor can not insist that his son be a doctor. S/He may turn out to be CEO of Event Management Office. Some thing that never existed in your time.
You are afraid of teen chat rooms, teen movies, exploited teens, teen suicide, teen depression, troubled teens, teen books, teen idols, teen love, teen health, teen dating, teen clubs, pregnant teens, teen fashion, teen clothes, gay teens.
Last mantra
Do not look obsessively at the bad consequences. Look at the beautiful possibilities for teens and rejoice.
Thanks for being my best friend?
Do not fail to read the mantra for parenting teenagers.
1
Be teenagers friend.
Teenagers thirst for friend.
Mantra for raising teenagers successfully is to be friend of your young teen and also their close friends. My definition of (parent) being a friend is that your petite teen can openly speak to you about all intimate day to day happenings.
Parenting teenagers becomes easy if you are friend to your teenager. If you are a mom teaching teen, than teen advice is better accepted if you are friendly, open, and do not keep criticizing everything the teen does. Then you become teen witch.
Trust me watching teenager blossom is a joy. Do not miss this wonderful experience.
2
Know friends of your teenager.
A
To know all the close and cute teens who are her/his friends
one way is to invite all teens friends for a party at your home. This way you get to know them personally.
B
Other option is call or sms or email jokes to these teens.
Parenting teenagers
Importance of friends.
Your teenager's friends
a]
influence your teens behavior.
b] Friends of teen
provide immediate help when your teenager is in a difficult (emotional or any other) situation,
c] and these friends can
fill you with details about your teen in case you want to counter check.
What is required?
The three Ts
Do you have time to be with your teenagers?
Trust, Time, Talk are the keys for the well being of your teenagers. If you do have the three Ts than watching the teens blossom is a joy that no money can buy.
The rule of thumb is "There are no problem children, there are problem parents."
Raising teenagers:
Are you a troubled mom teaching teens or parent of troubled teen?
'For mother of teenager it is natural to worry', is that your belief?
Be vigilant, but to not pry or keep nagging. They are not your children. They have only come through you. They are children who make next generation different.
Parents cannot impose, they can only influence teens.
They are born with their own programmed software and they will move in that direction, whether you like it or not. Example: A doctor can not insist that his son be a doctor. S/He may turn out to be CEO of Event Management Office. Some thing that never existed in your time.
You are afraid of teen chat rooms, teen movies, exploited teens, teen suicide, teen depression, troubled teens, teen books, teen idols, teen love, teen health, teen dating, teen clubs, pregnant teens, teen fashion, teen clothes, gay teens.
Last mantra
Do not look obsessively at the bad consequences. Look at the beautiful possibilities for teens and rejoice.
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postpone-periods
Girls often require to postpone or prepone their periods (menses).
What are the medicines gynecologists usually prescribe?
Are they safe? How are these medicines advised to be taken?
MEDROXYPROGESTERONE acetate
Brand names in India:
MODUS® product of Glaxo-SmitheKline® containing
MEDROXYPROGESTERONE acetate 10 mg 1 morning -------------1 night [one tablet twice a day].
HOW TO TAKE
One tablet of MEDROXYPROGESTERONE 10 mg, twice a day has to be started 6 days or earlier before expected menses.
One tablet of 10 mg is prescribed to be taken twice a day for the number of days as per the postponement or preponement of periods is required. 2 days after stopping the medicines withdrawal bleeding in the form of menses begins.
The next and the subsequent menstrual cycles usually remain unaffected. It does not interfere with pregnancy later on or when it is desired.
NORETHISTERONE acetate
Brand names in India:
REGESTERONE ®, product of Novartis;
STYPTIN ® German Remedies
NORETHISTERONE 5 mg - 1 morning -------------1 night [one tablet twice a day]
Earlier this progestin was prescribed commonly by health care professionals to postpone or prepone periods.
Oral Contraceptives in the use of postponement of menses:
OVRAL - G ®, product of Wyeth, contains 20 tablets, each containing Ethinyl estradiol I.P.50 µg and Norgestrel I.P. 500 µg.
Postponement of Menses with OVRAL - G ®
Norgestrel I.P. 500 µg
Ethinyl estradiol I.P. 50 µg.
For postponement of menses, one tablet should be taken daily starting with the 20th day i.e. eight days prior to expected date of menstruation. With this dosage, the menstrual period can be postponed to the 40th day i.e. about two weeks beyond the expected date. [1]
Withdrawal bleeding should usually occur within 3 days after the last tablet is taken.
OTHER OC PILLS
The other combination oral contraceptives containing "ETHINYL ESTRADIOL" 0.05 mg with "LEVONORGESTREL" 0.15 mg as PROGESTERONE have smaller doses of available progesterone hence
are not used for postponement of periods.
6 Brown tablets containing Ethinyl Estradiol 30 mcg + Levonorgestrel 50 mcg
5 White tablets containing Ethinyl Estradiol 40 mcg + Levonorgestrel 75 mcg
10 Ochre tablets containing Ethinyl Estradiol 30 mcg + Levonorgestrel 125 mcg
Courtesy:
www.wyethindia.com[1]
One tablet of MODUS ® [MEDROXYPROGESTERONE]10 mg is prescribed to be taken twice a day for the number of days as per the postponement or preponement of periods is required. 2 days after stopping the medicines withdrawal bleeding in the form of menses begins.
What are the medicines gynecologists usually prescribe?
Are they safe? How are these medicines advised to be taken?
1
MEDROXYPROGESTERONE acetate
Brand names in India:
MODUS ® - Glaxo-SmithKline
EMPEEA ® - Wyeth
DEVIRY ® - Elder Pharmaceuticals
PROVERA ® Pharmacia
MEPRATE ® - Serum Institute
MODUS® product of Glaxo-SmitheKline® containing
MEDROXYPROGESTERONE acetate 10 mg 1 morning -------------1 night [one tablet twice a day].
HOW TO TAKE
One tablet of MEDROXYPROGESTERONE 10 mg, twice a day has to be started 6 days or earlier before expected menses.
One tablet of 10 mg is prescribed to be taken twice a day for the number of days as per the postponement or preponement of periods is required. 2 days after stopping the medicines withdrawal bleeding in the form of menses begins.
The next and the subsequent menstrual cycles usually remain unaffected. It does not interfere with pregnancy later on or when it is desired.
2
NORETHISTERONE acetate
Brand names in India:
REGESTERONE ®, product of Novartis;
STYPTIN ® German Remedies
NORETHISTERONE 5 mg - 1 morning -------------1 night [one tablet twice a day]
Earlier this progestin was prescribed commonly by health care professionals to postpone or prepone periods.
3
Oral Contraceptives in the use of postponement of menses:
OVRAL - G ®, product of Wyeth, contains 20 tablets, each containing Ethinyl estradiol I.P.50 µg and Norgestrel I.P. 500 µg.
Postponement of Menses with OVRAL - G ®
Norgestrel I.P. 500 µg
Ethinyl estradiol I.P. 50 µg.
For postponement of menses, one tablet should be taken daily starting with the 20th day i.e. eight days prior to expected date of menstruation. With this dosage, the menstrual period can be postponed to the 40th day i.e. about two weeks beyond the expected date. [1]
Withdrawal bleeding should usually occur within 3 days after the last tablet is taken.
OTHER OC PILLS
The other combination oral contraceptives containing "ETHINYL ESTRADIOL" 0.05 mg with "LEVONORGESTREL" 0.15 mg as PROGESTERONE have smaller doses of available progesterone hence
are not used for postponement of periods.
MALA - D ® (NOT LEVONORGESTREL, but NORGESTREL 0.30 mg) (Eupharma Labs),
BANDHAN ® (German Remedies),
OVRAL - L ® (Levonorgestrel 0.15 with Ethinyl Estradiol 0.03 mg)® (Wyeth),
SUVIDHA ® (Eskag Pharma),
TRIQUILAR ® (German Remedies)
6 Brown tablets containing Ethinyl Estradiol 30 mcg + Levonorgestrel 50 mcg
5 White tablets containing Ethinyl Estradiol 40 mcg + Levonorgestrel 75 mcg
10 Ochre tablets containing Ethinyl Estradiol 30 mcg + Levonorgestrel 125 mcg
Courtesy:
www.wyethindia.com[1]
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virgin
MYTH [FALSE]: Bleeding during first sexual intercourse is a sign that a girl/woman is virgin.
FACT [REALITY]: Bleeding during first sexual intercourse is not a test for virginity of a female.
Why is bleeding associated with virginity in a girl?
Bleeding happens because hymen gets torn. However hymen can get torn due to activity other than sex, as vigorous exercise, cycling, playing, sports, menses, and masturbation.
What is virgin or virginity?
What is hymen?
What is chaste or chastity?
What is the test for determining virginity in a boy and in a girl?
How can you tell if a girl/boy has had previous love affairs?
Is my love affair or sexual relation first affair in her/his life?
How to know this?
RESPECED SIR
HELLO,
I HAD SEX WITH MY GF FOR FIRST TIME BUT SHE DID NOT BLEED WHEN WE HV SEX AS I KNOW THAT SHE USE TO PRACTICE YOGA AND GYMNASTIC FOR LONG TIME BUT IS THERE ANY METHOD OR MEDICAL TEST BY WHICH I CAN GET TO KNOW THAT SHE HAD A SEX WITH ANYONE ELSE 2 OR 3YEARS BACK BECOZ SHE IS WITH ME SINCE LAST ONE YEAR KINDLY GIVE ME THE PROPER ADVICE IT WILL BE SO KIND OF YOU SIR
THANKYOU
REPLY TO THE QUERY
Hi,
Blood during first sex is a superstition that is driven away long time ago. For a virgin it is not necessary that there be blood during first intercourse.
1
Think whether from the time she is with you, is she loyal and committed to you.
About the past there is no use wasting time thinking. It is a fool's play.
2
What is your age?
What is her age?
Some infatuation in mind can happen to all teenagers some time or the other in their life. It is more so because the age at marriage is getting delayed. Best age is after teen age that is after nineteen. 20 to 25 years is best age to get married.
Think seriously about your marriage so that the romance becomes cemented and uncertainty vanishes.
3
In general it is very unlikely that a girl gives in sexually unless the relation is committed as it is with you and her at present. Thinking about past is creating mental ghosts, which have no relation to your and her happiness of being together.
Do not pester yourself with these thoughts.
4
Difference between men and women:
She gives sex because of love. You give love because you want sex.
Male being sex centric he has fears related to sex.
5
Another method to think is to consider the worst.
Suppose she had sexual relation in past, so what?
Are you living in past or present?
Make a new beginning with your own life.
Let today be the first day of your rest of life.
Live a quality rich life.
Please let me know if you have any additional questions or
issues.
Best regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday
MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships
Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India
Member: Indian Medical Association
Maharashtra Medical Council Registration
Member: Family Planning Association of India
Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]
http://mysexdoctor.blogspot.com _ _ _ _ _sex matters
Virgin is one who has never before had sexual insertion. In a virgin hymen, which is a delicate thin papery covering over the entrance of the vagina, is unbroken.
This can be seen on medical examination. So medically virgin is one in whom hymen is not broken.
In case of male virgin is the one who has never had insertion during sex with anyone.
What is chastity?
Chaste is defined as a person who has never had sexual or love affair and therefore of good moral conduct.
For male and female the definition of chastity is the same.
Hymen can get broken without sex with some one.
Hymen can get torn during heavy menses bleeding, during masturbation, while riding a bicycle or two wheeler, sports and athletics, while playing and falling. Hymen is thinner than a tissue paper. Friable and is often broken before marriage despite no sexual activity.
Being chaste or chastity is being morally scrupulous and not having sexual affairs or intimacy affairs with someone else. So a girl may be flirt, yet since she has not had insertion during affair so she is virgin. A girl may not be virgin (the hymen is broken due to menses, sports) yet her character is chaste. Chaste is non flirting type.
PREJUDICE: Female v/s Male
Virginity and chastity are almost always used in reference to females, not males. A male would prefer to marry a virgin. Actually it means, the male prefers to marry the one who has never had love affairs, therefore he is her first and only lover.
A girl would also prefer her boyfriend to be virgin (never had sexual relation with someone else) and chaste (never had love affair with someone else).
Yet there is hardly any fuss about male's behavior but there exists expectation of virginity and chastity of a female. This prejudice can get so far that in some Arabic countries, in some Muslim community the woman is totally covered from top to toe in black gown, only the two eyes are visible. Some such countries have merciless punishment to anyone who is found to ogle at a girl even though masked.
Dr. Prakash Kothari's famous line is:
A girl may be virgin, but not chaste. (Chaste in one who has not had love affair)
A girl may be chaste, but not virgin. (Virgin in the sense that hymen is unbroken in female or no sexual intercourse ever in case of female or male)
FACT [REALITY]: Bleeding during first sexual intercourse is not a test for virginity of a female.
Why is bleeding associated with virginity in a girl?
Bleeding happens because hymen gets torn. However hymen can get torn due to activity other than sex, as vigorous exercise, cycling, playing, sports, menses, and masturbation.
What is virgin or virginity?
What is hymen?
What is chaste or chastity?
What is the test for determining virginity in a boy and in a girl?
How can you tell if a girl/boy has had previous love affairs?
Is my love affair or sexual relation first affair in her/his life?
How to know this?
RESPECED SIR
HELLO,
I HAD SEX WITH MY GF FOR FIRST TIME BUT SHE DID NOT BLEED WHEN WE HV SEX AS I KNOW THAT SHE USE TO PRACTICE YOGA AND GYMNASTIC FOR LONG TIME BUT IS THERE ANY METHOD OR MEDICAL TEST BY WHICH I CAN GET TO KNOW THAT SHE HAD A SEX WITH ANYONE ELSE 2 OR 3YEARS BACK BECOZ SHE IS WITH ME SINCE LAST ONE YEAR KINDLY GIVE ME THE PROPER ADVICE IT WILL BE SO KIND OF YOU SIR
THANKYOU
REPLY TO THE QUERY
Hi,
Blood during first sex is a superstition that is driven away long time ago. For a virgin it is not necessary that there be blood during first intercourse.
1
Think whether from the time she is with you, is she loyal and committed to you.
About the past there is no use wasting time thinking. It is a fool's play.
2
What is your age?
What is her age?
Some infatuation in mind can happen to all teenagers some time or the other in their life. It is more so because the age at marriage is getting delayed. Best age is after teen age that is after nineteen. 20 to 25 years is best age to get married.
Think seriously about your marriage so that the romance becomes cemented and uncertainty vanishes.
3
In general it is very unlikely that a girl gives in sexually unless the relation is committed as it is with you and her at present. Thinking about past is creating mental ghosts, which have no relation to your and her happiness of being together.
Do not pester yourself with these thoughts.
4
Difference between men and women:
She gives sex because of love. You give love because you want sex.
Male being sex centric he has fears related to sex.
5
Another method to think is to consider the worst.
Suppose she had sexual relation in past, so what?
Are you living in past or present?
Make a new beginning with your own life.
Let today be the first day of your rest of life.
Live a quality rich life.
Please let me know if you have any additional questions or
issues.
Best regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday
MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships
Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India
Member: Indian Medical Association
Maharashtra Medical Council Registration
Member: Family Planning Association of India
Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]
http://mysexdoctor.blogspot.com _ _ _ _ _sex matters
Virgin is one who has never before had sexual insertion. In a virgin hymen, which is a delicate thin papery covering over the entrance of the vagina, is unbroken.
This can be seen on medical examination. So medically virgin is one in whom hymen is not broken.
In case of male virgin is the one who has never had insertion during sex with anyone.
What is chastity?
Chaste is defined as a person who has never had sexual or love affair and therefore of good moral conduct.
For male and female the definition of chastity is the same.
Hymen can get broken without sex with some one.
Hymen can get torn during heavy menses bleeding, during masturbation, while riding a bicycle or two wheeler, sports and athletics, while playing and falling. Hymen is thinner than a tissue paper. Friable and is often broken before marriage despite no sexual activity.
Being chaste or chastity is being morally scrupulous and not having sexual affairs or intimacy affairs with someone else. So a girl may be flirt, yet since she has not had insertion during affair so she is virgin. A girl may not be virgin (the hymen is broken due to menses, sports) yet her character is chaste. Chaste is non flirting type.
PREJUDICE: Female v/s Male
Virginity and chastity are almost always used in reference to females, not males. A male would prefer to marry a virgin. Actually it means, the male prefers to marry the one who has never had love affairs, therefore he is her first and only lover.
A girl would also prefer her boyfriend to be virgin (never had sexual relation with someone else) and chaste (never had love affair with someone else).
Yet there is hardly any fuss about male's behavior but there exists expectation of virginity and chastity of a female. This prejudice can get so far that in some Arabic countries, in some Muslim community the woman is totally covered from top to toe in black gown, only the two eyes are visible. Some such countries have merciless punishment to anyone who is found to ogle at a girl even though masked.
Dr. Prakash Kothari's famous line is:
A girl may be virgin, but not chaste. (Chaste in one who has not had love affair)
A girl may be chaste, but not virgin. (Virgin in the sense that hymen is unbroken in female or no sexual intercourse ever in case of female or male)
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vin here.
Ask Sex Doctor is the 4 th in the FIRST TEN on google search engine in just 4 months. So you want to know the mantra of how to be in the top ten in search engine.
The story of mysexdoctor.blogspot.com, this blog itself continues.
4 months ago,
I lost my premier web site
mysexdoctor.com along with its rich contents.
"If I have created the contents, I can recreate them," I said to myself
and I started this blog that you are reading 4 months ago.
In the touchy matter of providing sex pictures
for sex education and treatment purpose, I was told how I can do that when a person specially requests you by the blog king vin.
You can
meet vin here.
In the technical aspect vin is guiding me even now.
Helpful attitude from a the master himself has been reassuring and proved
to be precious and praiseworthy.
Read on for the interesting story continues _ _ _
Dr. Ashok Koparday is probably gone to buy vin a beer.
Let's wait. With a doctor you got to be patient.
Please Note:
By the way I know no mantra for coming on first page in search engine.
I discovered it while I was surfing on my mobile.
Ask Sex Doctor is the 4 th in the FIRST TEN on google search engine in just 4 months. So you want to know the mantra of how to be in the top ten in search engine.
The story of mysexdoctor.blogspot.com, this blog itself continues.
REBIRTH
4 months ago,
I lost my premier web site
mysexdoctor.com along with its rich contents.
"If I have created the contents, I can recreate them," I said to myself
and I started this blog that you are reading 4 months ago.
In the touchy matter of providing sex pictures
for sex education and treatment purpose, I was told how I can do that when a person specially requests you by the blog king vin.
You can
meet vin here.
In the technical aspect vin is guiding me even now.
Helpful attitude from a the master himself has been reassuring and proved
to be precious and praiseworthy.
Read on for the interesting story continues _ _ _
Dr. Ashok Koparday is probably gone to buy vin a beer.
Let's wait. With a doctor you got to be patient.
Please Note:
By the way I know no mantra for coming on first page in search engine.
I discovered it while I was surfing on my mobile.
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FIRST and SECOND in Yahoo (1 - 10 of about 151,000,000),
in MSN (1-10 of 9,040,000) and
google (1-10 in 1610000) search
How does your website come in first top ten in yahoo/msn/google search?
www.mydoctortells.com
is FIRST and
2 nd2nd in the WORLD in Google, Yahoo, MSN Search on the FIRST PAGE.
Search 'Ask Sex Doctor'. You will find that this blog that you are reading
is 4 th in the WORLD (401000) in 4 months.
Check the archives page, if you wish.
There is an interesting story related to this blog.
Story of www.mydoctortells.com
FIRST and SECOND in top ten in yahoo,msn,google.
was just an email id: 'milansamadhan' [translated it means: intimatesatisfaction]
at rediff.com. Even now I get queries there.
The HELPLINE started in cybercafe.
I would pay per hour to use the internet and the PC.
I pestered the cyber cafe owner by asking
'How to open pages on the internet?,
'How to work with Microsoft© documents?'.
The cybercafe owner's patience began to wear thin.
The next thing was, I did an primary 5 sessions basic course on using Microsoft Windows at NIIT©. National Institute of Internet Training is the long of NIIT©, I presume. NIIT© is popular and close by.
The doctor used to be missing from the clinic.
This bothered my family. They called my friends from
IIT © (Indian Intitute of Technology). They purchased
and assembled a Desktop PC using original latest configuration.
So the HELPLINE shifted to my office.
Next, it was thought that website would be
better in delivering contents than an email id, because
each reply used to be read by me and personally replied.
Even now the replies are not automated.
Individuals asking about sexual dysfunctions
and the consequent problems started showering blessings
on me and my family as they were relieved of tremendous,
bottled up, unspoken suffering related to sex problems, which were
the most intimate and private
aspects of their life.
www.mydoctortells.com was born. I am not inclined to tell you the intriguing story
of the delivery (labor pains) during and following the birth of www.mydoctortells.com.
Sexual Health, Sex Education
is still shrouded and kept closed in a coffin,
when pornography and sex related crimes, sex abuses were
easily accessible, age no bar.
continued_ _ _ when and how doctortells came prominently on the web?_ _ _
.
in MSN (1-10 of 9,040,000) and
google (1-10 in 1610000) search
How does your website come in first top ten in yahoo/msn/google search?
www.mydoctortells.com
is FIRST and
2 nd2nd in the WORLD in Google, Yahoo, MSN Search on the FIRST PAGE.
Search 'Ask Sex Doctor'. You will find that this blog that you are reading
is 4 th in the WORLD (401000) in 4 months.
Check the archives page, if you wish.
There is an interesting story related to this blog.
Story of www.mydoctortells.com
FIRST and SECOND in top ten in yahoo,msn,google.
The FIRST and FREE HELPLINE
on the internetwas just an email id: 'milansamadhan' [translated it means: intimatesatisfaction]
at rediff.com. Even now I get queries there.
BIRTH
The HELPLINE started in cybercafe.
I would pay per hour to use the internet and the PC.
I pestered the cyber cafe owner by asking
'How to open pages on the internet?,
'How to work with Microsoft© documents?'.
The cybercafe owner's patience began to wear thin.
The next thing was, I did an primary 5 sessions basic course on using Microsoft Windows at NIIT©. National Institute of Internet Training is the long of NIIT©, I presume. NIIT© is popular and close by.
The doctor used to be missing from the clinic.
This bothered my family. They called my friends from
IIT © (Indian Intitute of Technology). They purchased
and assembled a Desktop PC using original latest configuration.
So the HELPLINE shifted to my office.
Next, it was thought that website would be
better in delivering contents than an email id, because
each reply used to be read by me and personally replied.
Even now the replies are not automated.
Individuals asking about sexual dysfunctions
and the consequent problems started showering blessings
on me and my family as they were relieved of tremendous,
bottled up, unspoken suffering related to sex problems, which were
the most intimate and private
aspects of their life.
www.mydoctortells.com was born. I am not inclined to tell you the intriguing story
of the delivery (labor pains) during and following the birth of www.mydoctortells.com.
Rebirth
Sexual Health, Sex Education
is still shrouded and kept closed in a coffin,
when pornography and sex related crimes, sex abuses were
easily accessible, age no bar.
continued_ _ _ when and how doctortells came prominently on the web?_ _ _
.
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Zeenews Bureau: Reports from India
1. Is horoscope/rashi/kundalini matching necessary
before marriage?
DEBATABLE.
2. Is Blood Group Matching Necessary Before Marriage?
MODERN SUPERSTITION.
3. Is HIV testing necessary before marriage?
COMPULSORY BY LAW (within the coming 6 months)
Dr. Vimaltai Mundada, Public Health Minister, Government of Maharashtra, will be taking a spectacular step when the proposal that "HIV testing be made compulsory before marriage" will be made the law within 6 months as reported by Zeenews Bureau.
Blood groups of prospective bride and the groom has to match is definitely a superstition created in the recent past.
zeenews bureau flashed with the news
Mumbai, Feb 01: The study committee set up by the Maharashtra Health Ministry has proposed that testing for the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) be made compulsory before marriage.
It has unanimously decided to introduce the proposal as a law within 6 months.
The decision was taken at a high-level meeting on Wednesday, presided over by Public Health Minister Vimal Mundada, 15 MLAs across political parties, an advocate and two doctors. The Public Health Minister, Vimal Mundada said such a move would create awareness and also control the spread of HIV.
In the two-hour meeting, the committee discussed the social stigma attached to the test, human rights and stressed on the need to educate school students about HIV. Dr Vimaltai Mundada, state health minister, said, “We will decide whether couples will need to produce the medical certificate at the time of the registration of marriage later.”
Advocate Jaya Nair, representing the Maharashtra Law Graduate Association (MLGA), the NGO that filed the PIL in 2004, added, “We will extend our support in drafting the bill and implementing it.”
1. Is horoscope/rashi/kundalini matching necessary
before marriage?DEBATABLE.
2. Is Blood Group Matching Necessary Before Marriage?
MODERN SUPERSTITION.
3. Is HIV testing necessary before marriage?
COMPULSORY BY LAW (within the coming 6 months)
Dr. Vimaltai Mundada, Public Health Minister, Government of Maharashtra, will be taking a spectacular step when the proposal that "HIV testing be made compulsory before marriage" will be made the law within 6 months as reported by Zeenews Bureau.
Blood groups of prospective bride and the groom has to match is definitely a superstition created in the recent past.
zeenews bureau flashed with the news
Mumbai, Feb 01: The study committee set up by the Maharashtra Health Ministry has proposed that testing for the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) be made compulsory before marriage.
It has unanimously decided to introduce the proposal as a law within 6 months.
The decision was taken at a high-level meeting on Wednesday, presided over by Public Health Minister Vimal Mundada, 15 MLAs across political parties, an advocate and two doctors. The Public Health Minister, Vimal Mundada said such a move would create awareness and also control the spread of HIV.
In the two-hour meeting, the committee discussed the social stigma attached to the test, human rights and stressed on the need to educate school students about HIV. Dr Vimaltai Mundada, state health minister, said, “We will decide whether couples will need to produce the medical certificate at the time of the registration of marriage later.”
Advocate Jaya Nair, representing the Maharashtra Law Graduate Association (MLGA), the NGO that filed the PIL in 2004, added, “We will extend our support in drafting the bill and implementing it.”
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