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Question
I was a virgin before I had sex

Sex is not painful. It is enjoyable. Always.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

Your question:

"I was a virgin before I had sex with my boyfriend. The first time we did it I was not enjoying it at all, because it hurt a lot at first then I didn't even feel anything when he was in me. I figured that was because it was my first time. The second time we had sex its hurt just going in and again I couldn't feel him. He was really big and he was going really fast. I want to know why I wasn't enjoying it. Is there something wrong with me. "

REPLY
"_ _ _The first time_ _ _ it hurt a lot at first_ _ _

The second time_ __it hurt just going in_ _ _"

You are beginning with a new experience, which you believe hurts initially. Soon all the hurt will subside and your mind will be able to experience the joy.

MORE FOR YOU
Do you know that sex has nothing to do with 'pain' or 'hurt'?

Then why does it pain?
It pains because we have heard or read,

"First time it pains, sometimes there may be bleeding also. Then gradually it becomes okay". THIS IS NOT TRUE. If you believe it, as most people wrongly believe, then you do get pain.

Here the Mechanism is Explained:
When we believe it is going to pain there is fear of pain (naturally) and the vaginal opening (subconsciously) contracts (vaginismus) at the time of entry of penis. This causes pain or even bleeding.
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How will the pain go? When will I begin to enjoy?
Once you are accustomed and realize that it pains no more, your fear of pain is gone, then mind is free to enjoy.
It is awesome seeing a slick Mercedes Benz car moving by. What a fun?
When you have one, and begin to drive do you think initially it will be fun?
You need to know where to put the key, how to change gears and so on. Some one experienced has to teach you. You got to get accustomed and when you know, zoom you go. All fun.

Correct knowledge from experienced person is important.

BASIC KNOWLEDGE IS VERY MUCH NECESSARY TO ALL BOYS AND GIRLS BEFORE MARRIAGE.

Don't you understand that human beings have to learn almost everything?
Without learning you cannot play sports, tennis, chess and so on.
You have to study in school or college. You work in office because you have knowledge.
AMAZING BUT TRUE
Only human beings need to learn, animals do not need to learn. Human beings go to school, animals do not go to school or tuition. Human beings have to learn every thing like: sports, playing guitar or tabla, elocution and drama. Even wearing a saree has to be taught. Animals do not go to drawing classes or go for learning classical music or dance. Is it not?
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