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ONE WORD is enough to tell what woman wants from man. What is it?
If you cannot figure it look for the answer at the bottom of this post. No woman or man has succeeded in disproving the 'answer' till today. If your mind is scanning that single word, here is a tip. It is something that includes ALL!

5 THINGS THAT ATTRACT MAN TO WOMAN.


5 SECRETS
5 things woman seek in a man are the following.

1. Provider = Husband
2. Lover = Sexual Partner
3. Friend = Counselor/Support
4. House-husband = Home Manager
5. forget it does not matter _ _ _
1.
The guy is from good family, educated, earning handsome salary, high level executive post in a reputed company. Not seen in company of goons, not and addict. Irrefutable character. Taller and handsome. Picture perfect.
In India the parents look for such a boy. Among those selected by the parents, there is a family meet, where the girl sees the boy. One of them is approved. There is engagement soon after, followed by wedding. Almost a stranger, except the days between the engagement and wedding they talk on phone. This is undoubtedly the most romantic period of the couple.

2.
He is simply, irresistibly attractive. Some call it chemistry or love at first sight. It is actually raw lust. Usually both are already married. One of them has been through bad times. The guy is baddie like ribald, humorous sometimes to the point of annoying. He does have reputation of sexual indulgences. Liberty of arguments enhances the teasing. She may say at this point to the husband that he is "not this", "not this", hence question about taking him seriously does not arise. Husband knows him and takes matter lightly, too busy with his work or takes him in good faith as wife's friend. The ambiance in his presence is vibrant. They use slang liberally. He has gone through or is going through bad times himself, so has she (obviously they are married). The monotony of daily drudgery is broken. They find opportunities to go out. Then they create opportunities to meet. For her it is a dream world. She believes, or knows that he is not interested in sex aspect, but he really loves her. She can get wildly angry if he breaks some appointments or promises. Never in her life she thought she could get this out of the world experience. For him there are few romantic moments in expensive places with style beyond means. For him however, the conquering is not complete until he has her kneeling down and intense love [sex] is experienced.
He wins so much of trust that she would not mind giving in for making love (sex).

Method
Intimacy first with eyes.
Then through talk on the phone
followed by casual body contact.
She gets expensive gifts.
Then they are together where no one recognizes.
More surreptitious meetings at places, and spending of big money, dreams and plans.
Then you know.

3.
If you are not like the second one and you appear more decent and if you avoid lewd talk or make the mistake of praising her (she is sick of those humble kind of people)your attraction spell will be limited up to being a place where she can talk and vent out her feelings. That much and no further.

4.
In addition to these, the fourth type is longed for to take care of those routine things, which she is traditionally supposed to do. Usually she prefers, hands down, career/office.
a]
This type of person one does not get, hence she gets arthritis, or back ache and cannot make love with No. 1
b]
Usually No. 1. = No. 4
Hence, I was not going to mention him separately, but
c]
4. is full time servant, the one whom she can yell at, pay less, and get herself a cup of coffee when she returns home.
5.
Does not matter.
Source:
Inputs from student who has made the author of the site mentioned below Guru of "Science of Attracting ANY Woman for (Dating) Mating". ANY is to emphasize specifically even women who are married or unmarried, wealthy or celebrity.
Tip: Those who want a tutorial for No. 2 will benefit from /double your dating.
The special qualities, eg. fame, wealth, personality are required so that a woman would by default get attracted to you, helplessly, the way a dog would get attracted to biscuits, naturally. Fame and Wealth cannot be created over night. The Personality features can be molded (no matter if you are ugly or even handicapped) to do the trick. This is what the website claims:

"You're About To Learn Secrets That Most Men Will Never Know About Women..."

Inside you'll learn...

* "The Kiss Test" - How to tell if she's ready to be kissed.
* The difference between how men and women think about dating - and why most women want to keep you from being successful.
* How to use "secret" body language to keep a woman's attention.
* How to approach a new woman that you'd like to meet - and exactly what to say to start a conversation without "pick up lines"

Answer is "Everything."

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Infidelity done by a husband.
Promiscuous Husband
The words, adultery, affair, bad faith, betrayal, cheating, extramarital relations, faithlessness, fornication, playing around, treachery are the synonyms that almost define the word 'infidelity'.

Reply to Query of a wife who was cheated.
The following is kept confidential and secret.

The Query itself, which includes investigation and story of catching the husband, wife's disbelief and bereavement. The realities of the trauma she had to bear due to husband's marital infidelity.

How, Why he cheated on his wife?



Related terms:
caught cheater infidelity tape
marriage infidelity
sign of infidelity,surviving infidelity, sexual conflict and other bedroom battle, emotional infidelity

From the Doctor’s Private Room
I get access to undisclosed, as well as just disclosed affairs in my practice..

The incident is bound to leave a painful scar for ever. Gone with the wind Margaret Mitchell's 1936 describes it as ‘broken mirror,’ cannot be mended.

Tips in brief

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If he is cowed down keep an outwardly threatening attitude, as though you may take steps that will devastate him. (You will know what he fears most.) Tell him that besides what you have disclosed you have more proof and a copy of it is in the hands of 3 other people. This will make him believe the worse, though you may not know it just now. He may disclose it and beg for forgiveness. Record and preserve his talk in which he confesses.

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Medically:
Check yourself of HIV infection.

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Make sure that legally he transfers all the property, bank accounts on your name. Do meet a lawyer/marriage counselor to know first hand your RIGHTS and powers. Inform important people (relatives in writing) and keep the documents.

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Personal life:
Surely he can temporarily change his habits, but you cannot keep a watch 24 hours. Henceforth he will be specially more cautious not to get trapped.

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It is possible that after being broken he transforms totally. It is also possible that he can fake this most convincingly. In the former case with the help of professional marriage counselor’s guidance, who will be able to instruct you about what changes in behavior that you need to make and embark upon a new life. The self blame in your letter is typical.

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His Point of View: WHY

To be fair, I must mention that it will not surprise me if I am told that that the man's requirement for sex frequency and finesse, sexcellence was not met by you. It is important to be able appreciate sexual requirements of the man and learn to give and take sexual pleasure wildly, unabashedly. This is a weak chink in the woman's armor today. By 2020 AD this is going to change because of increased prevalence of premarital and extramarital sex, which is not related to marriage but focussed for her and his pleasure. To put it in the words of my client who had come for premarital counseling with her fiance, "A woman should be sexually as proficient as a whore". This is being professional or proficient by learning and being sensitive to sexxxual nuances. Sadly today many women are inhibited and uncouth to an extent that they can be compared to being in primary school and unwilling to learn, where the husband is a post graduate. Imagine a woman who does not know cooking and is unwilling to learn. The husband will have to eat outside.

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In the latter case, good ridden of bad rubbish. Please get out. You have enough qualities to live another life if you choose to.

The following references may be useful for further reading.
Divorce Hazards
More Divorce Hazards
Health Meter©

Tips on how to manage husband
More Tips on how to manage husband
Art of Maintaining Relationships
Love Sutra©
Infidelity in the life of Bertrand Russell
Health Meter My Doctor Tells ©
Lift your depression

Fate determines who comes into our lives."
"The heart determines who stays"

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Do you think men are unpredictable?
Husbands are the same. Only their faces are different so that we can recognize which one is ours.
Why not learn some skills to handle your hubby so that your relationSHIP sails smooooothly.

I will not give you here a thick fat book, which is more difficult to read than it is to manage a husband. I am presenting here some simple, yet powerful tips that can be implemented immediately.
THE MIDAS TOUCH

1
Do not start husband improvement program even though he does things that annoy you. Like he scatters newspapers and has not been taught even the basics of tidiness by his mother.
2
You are right. He should be buying the clock well wrapped in gift paper for the next day's wedding ceremony. Whose wedding was it? His friend's. Who is irresponsible here? Did I not remind him this afternoon from my office? Now, you both had agreed upon the gift. He himself said that his friend was notorious for not keeping time and even went forth saying, "I wonder if he will be in time for his wedding muhurat". Hence, I suggested giving him a clock that speaks in human voice when the alarm is set. I wish it could pinch him too.
GOLDEN RULE
Yet you will not yell at him. Why burst your voice machine?
Politely remind him. No shade of anger in your voice. Hence, you do not make him feel guilty.
Now, look at how he cajoles his colleague and persuades him to get the stuff at the wedding hall, in time. When the wedding gift finally arrives you notice the sigh of relief on his face. Now is the time to say, "Wow! You, after all, managed to get it. Smart!" Look at the triumph on his face.
MORAL OF THE STORY IS
Do what you can to the best of your ability.
Do not overstretch yourself.
Do not play the blame game. It bounces back. If you do, you will have to play table tennis with the blame ball all your life.
SECRET used here.
The GUY (even if he is a nut) feels proud when he accomplishes difficult task.
It does not matter if he himself makes the task difficult. We are going to use this powerful SECRET as I have described below.
3
If you want him to do something for you, do not reason out why he should be doing it. Do not tell him how you suffer because you have to manage alone your own office, kids, his parents, and home. Do not be a cry baby. Do not be a smart blame master (Misses).
Request him.

Use the words, 'Please', 'Thanks', 'Sorry', liberally. You do not have to mean that you are sorry. These three words make your work easy.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

BE POLITE. USE KIND WORDS whenever you want him to do something.
If you know his latency period is 2 days, that is he does the said work 2 days after having agreed to do, than be wise enough to tell him at least 2 days in advance how badly you need to get the thing done and no one else can do it. He is gifted, you know.
4
Offer GENUINE PRAISE about any thing that you like about him. It could be his way of choosing garments for you when he behaves like an ATM. You can boast about this at any party to your friends, when you are sure he can listen.
One other SECRET that is at play here is 'He wants to be looked up as a hero by his spouse. He reaches pinnacle of satisfaction

Sincere appreciation of any aspect of your husband is your key to winning him over.
I know you are muttering that you have not found any thing worth appreciating in the last 5 years. Search for some quality that you can appreciate. Make a beginning to make your life better.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

when he knows that his wife really respects him and loves him. Whenever this does not get conveyed the husband kind of homo sapiens try to impress by doing things that do not really matter to you. They may become workaholics. They may want to rise to higher position in the company or get higher and higher income. While doing all this he has no time for his wife. He has no time for his kids. They are growing and their growth cannot wait. When they grow up, how will they respond to a father who is namesake?
5
Pursue your hobbies, things you cherished doing when you were at college, but never had the time to do it. This will give you immense joy and you will not have to be at the mercy of your husband. Your cribbing at him will be much much less. This hobby, or learning of art that comes from your heart will be your solace till the end. It can nurture entire family (including the hubby) and even support people in community. If she does not know to tap in to this reservoir she becomes sad and inconsolable. Her resentment to bitter resentment towards her husband becomes solid like cement, no, like steel. She may begin to have ailments.

Woman kind of the homo sapiens have collosal energy reservoir and they are more capable of staying connected to the infinite source of energy that has been propelling Nature since eternity.


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Specially fromincharge kalwasaraswatbank
Date: Oct 24, 2007 6:27 PM
It is just for logic only!
Men's Logic

A man and his wife were in a court for their divorce case.

The Problem was who should get custody of the child.

The wife screamed and jumped up and said: "Your Honor. I brought The child
into the world with all the pain and labor.

The child Should be in my custody. "

The judge turned to the husband and said: "What do you have to Say in your
defense?"

The man sat for a while contemplating...then slowly rose. "Your Honor... If
I put a dollar in a Pepsi Vending Machine and a Pepsi Comes out... Whose
Pepsi is it... The machine's or mine ?"