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Sex n Heart
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Dysfunctions --> Signal cardiac problems inmen.
*** Love making tells about your guy's heart ***

Though in men sexual dyfunction is a warning signal for coronary artery disease and ischemic heart disease [heart attack] study reports show no such connection between female sexual dysfunctions and heart diseases.

Heart woes only for men. Are you listening sweetheart?

A note of caution: Other diseases can lead to sexual difficulties in women or men, including
diabetes,
obesity,
arthritis and
causes of fatigue such as allergies.
You better know answers to these questions. Socrates's method is the best.
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What actions you can take to enhance your sexual and overall health?
How to treat a low sex drive
Is my hubby hooked on porn?
A fine romance but no orgasms
An intimate piercing: pros and cons
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Did you ask me, "What is the right age for marriage?".
It is immediately after teens.
20 years to [maximum] 25 years is appropriate for both boy and the girl and the would be child.
Why?

Just one reason is elabortaed here.
Sex
Couple's age
Marriage besides other things entails Social, Legal and Personal [Mature] sanction.
The Queen of Endocrine glands, Pituitary gland, has set aflame changes in sexual organs making humans capable of reproduction. Follow the biological clock. All nature obeys rhythmic timing. During winter time it is going to be cold. If just because you fancy you walk in a swimsuit in freezing cold what would you be called? It is appropriate to wear warm clothes.

RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
20 years to [maximum] 25 years
Dr. Ashok Koparday

Similarly it makes bio sense to engage in intimate physical, emotional relations after teens. As I keep telling people, in the mango season there will be mangoes, whether you wish or you do not. Ripening of mangoes is not going to wait. Similarly, do not make sexuality wait till you finish college or begin work and get settled. It is wise to go steady for a year or so till you and your well wishers are cannot resist from getting convinced that you get formally engaged. "I don't care about others." You better do. You do not live in an island, all alone, on planet earth. If your relationship starts shaking, or if you have financial difficulties or difficulties due to illnesses you require help. Your well wishers who could be your family, friends, neighbors or organizations to which you have devoted (spiritual organizations like 'Chinmaya Mission') are the ones that can help you.
From Child's Point of View
Would be child will be on her/his feet when the couple is still young. When the child grows enough no more requires personal attendance and not debilitated.

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Diabetes affects sexual function in the male as well as the female.

What exactly happens?
Is it impotence?
Is it curable?
What is the best treatment?

If you have a personal question send it with details to ask@mydoctortells.com for personalized expert medical opinion.

I recommend that you make the beginning of this informative topic from the beginning. How diabetes affected Mr and Mrs Iyer's sexual life? The will not be covered on these pages as they are beautifully elucidated here.

Sexual dysfunction is one of the common complications of diabetes mellitus
The inability to engage in satisfactory sexual activity can erode the quality of life for the couple.
Sexual problems can increase stress, frustration and could trigger depression.

Sexual Problems in Men and Diabetes
Woman's Sexual Problems caused by Diabetes will be discussed in another chapter.
Male Sexual Problem
Relation between your Diabetes and the Erectile Dysfunctions

Length & severity of diabetes :
The longer the duration of diabetes, and the more severe it is, the more likely is the development of ED

Type of diabetes :
Men with type 1 diabetes (formerly called juvenile or insulin-dependent diabetes) are more likely than those with type 2 (formerly called adult-onset or noninsulin-dependent diabetes) to develop erectile dysfunction.
[Note: According to recent scientific evidence the Type 3 Diabetes is occuring at much younger age.]

What is ED?
Erectile Dysfunction [ED]is defined as-
“The persistent inability to achieve or maintain an erection that is necessary for satisfying sexual intercourse.”

Note:
The word persistent is important. It means consistently on all the
attempts of sexual intercourse you have had this difficulty.

If you find that the above definition is not applicable and on some or even one occasion of sexual intercourse or even masturbation you have had good erection that lasted for enough time to have satisfactory sexual intercourse or masturbation
than you DO NOT HAVE ED.

The Sex Therapist has to ascertain if the Erectile Dysfunction [ED]you are having is ONLY because of Diabetes so that the treatment method chosen is best for your erectile dysfunction.

How does incidence of ED in people with Diabetes compare with the incidence of ED in people not having ED. Let us find other factors that can cause ED. Those factors that put you on the list of HIGH RISK for ED.


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sex-perversion2

On their long journey at a railway station two ladies, a mother and her teenage daughter, were horrified when a man showed his genitals. When I looked around there was no sign of him. Apparently, that was the end of the story. "He is there," shrieked the mother, obviously scared. Before big commotion the man disappeared. The ladies were frightened, "What if the man follows us?" and were seriously considering seeking help from the police. I assured, that it won't be necessary, they were safe. [The above story is based on actual incidence.] More about each sexual perversion.


The ladies had seen an exhibitionist.
Exhibitionists are harmless. They do not rape or pursue you. However, they can scare women.

Quiz: Is making obscene telephone calls some kind of sexual perversion? Find out.

There are 8 major sexual perversions
1. *Exhibitionism: the recurrent urge or behavior to expose one's genitals to an unsuspecting person.

2. * Fetishism: the use of non-sexual or nonliving objects or part of a person's body to gain sexual excitement. Partialism refers to fetishes specifically involving nonsexual parts of the body.

3. * Frotteurism: the recurrent urges or behavior of touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person.

4. * Pedophilia: the sexual attraction to prepubescent or peripubescent children.

5. *Sexual Sadism the recurrent urge or behavior involving acts in which the pain or humiliation of the victim is sexually exciting.

6. * Transvestic fetishism: a sexual attraction towards the clothing of the opposite gender.

7. *Voyeurism: the recurrent urge or behavior to observe an unsuspecting person who is naked, disrobing or engaging in sexual activities, or may not be sexual in nature at all.



Reference
DSM IV
[Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders]
What is the word meaning of paraphilia?
Paraphilia (in Greek para παρά = besides and -philia φιλία = friendship)—in psychology and sexology, is a term that describes a group of persistent, intense fantasies, urges, or behaviors involving sexual arousal to nonhuman objects, pain or humiliation experienced by oneself or one's partner, or children or other non-consenting individuals.
What is not sexual perversion?
Sexual Practices are not Sexual Perversions if they do not
fulfill the specifications mentioned below.

* the activity must be the sole means of sexual gratification
* for a period of six (6) months, and either
* cause "clinically significant distress or
* impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning" or
* involve a violation of consent to be diagnosed as a paraphilia

Paraphilias include fantasies, behaviors, and/or urges which:

* involve nonhuman sexual objects, such as shoes or undergarments
* require the suffering or humiliation of oneself or partner
* involve children or other non-consenting partners


Other rarer paraphilias: Not otherwise specified (ICD-9-CM equivalent of "Sexual Disorder NOS") and include
.telephone scatalogia (obscene phone calls),
• necrophilia (corpses),
• partialism (exclusive focus on one part of the body),
• zoophilia (animals),
• coprophilia (feces),
• klismaphilia (enemas),
• urophilia (urine),
• emetophilia (vomit).
A
Psychopharmacological agents
Drugs that drastically lower testosterone temporarily (antiandrogens) have been used for the control of repetitive deviant sexual behaviors and have been prescribed for paraphilia-related disorders as well. Cyproterone acetate inhibits testosterone directly at androgen receptor sites. In its oral form, the usual prescribed dosage range is 50–200 mg per day.
Serotonergics (drugs that boost levels of the brain chemical serotonin) are prescribed for anxious and depressive symptoms. Of the serotonergic agents reported, fluoxetine has received the most attention, although lithium, clomipramine, buspirone, and sertraline are reported as effective in case reports and open clinical trials with outpatients.
Other alternative augmentation strategies that may be effective include adding a low dose of a secondary amine tricyclic antidepressant to the primary serotonergics, but these reports are only anecdotal.

B
Traditional
psychoanalysis and
hypnosis are hardly beneficial

C
Current methods

1.* Aversion imagery involves the pairing of a sexually arousing paraphilic stimulus with an unpleasant image, such as being arrested or having one's name appear in the newspaper.
2. * Desensitization procedures neutralize the anxiety-provoking aspects of nonparaphilic sexual situations and behavior by a process of gradual exposure. For example, a man afraid of having sexual contact with women his own age might be led through a series of relaxation procedures aimed at reducing his anxiety.

3. * Social skills training is used with either of the other approaches and is aimed at improving a person's ability to form interpersonal relationships.
4. * Orgasmic reconditioning may instruct a person to masturbate using his paraphilia fantasy and to switch to a more appropriate fantasy just at the moment of orgasm.

Treatment Results No high degree of success.
Most therapists would say.
The general public would prefer to "lock up" the sex offender than offer treatment.

Prevalence
Paraphilia and paraphilia-related disorders are more prevalent than most clinicians suspect as they are cloaked in shame and guilt.

Resources

BOOKS
American Psychiatric Association.
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. 4th ed.
Washington DC

Masters, William H., Virgina E. Johnson, and Robert C. Kolodny. Human Sexuality. Harper Collins Publishers, Inc., 1992.

PERIODICALS
Abel, Gene G., et al. "Multiple Paraphiliac Diagnoses Among Sex Offenders." Bulletin of the American Academy of Psychiatry and Law (Spring 1988).

ORGANIZATIONS
American Academy of Clinical Sexologists. 1929 18th St., N.W., Suite 1166, Washington, DC 20009. (202) 462-2122.
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. 1133 15th St., NW Suite 300, Washington, DC 20005-2710.(202) 452-0109.
American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists. P.O. Box 5488, Richmond, VA 23220-0488.
Oxford university press
Source: Thanks to David James Doermann
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