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There are some questions that pop up in the mind when s/he is going to get married. Questions like:
If we do not want pregnancy for a year what are the safe methods?
Just as condom is used only during sexual intercourse are there pills to be taken only during sexual intercourse to prevent pregnancy?
What is Copper T?
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Can urine pregnancy test be done immediately after sex to know about pregnancy?
What is the duration for the passage to break so that sex can happen?
Is there bleeding during first sex?
If sperms go in the mouth during oral sex is it hygienic?
Is sex during menses hygienic?
How is the extralonglasting condom different from other condoms?
Can I get my periods immediately so that during the marriage rituals I will not be having periods?
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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. - By Erica Jong
I do not attempt to give advice here. I just post my opinions. What I consider useful and beneficial for people is what you see here. I am aggressively keen to address the issues related to sexual health so that I may prevent a person from becoming a patient. The good part is that what you read here is backed by rich clinical experience. It is not 'copy', 'paste' from wikepedia or answers.com. You will notice that the flow of thoughts have a flavor of personal communication. I hope you like it.
It is also true that many topics that you will find here would be almost similar to what you may find elsewhere. The reason is simple. The structure and function of human organs is the same since the time Vesalius dissected cadavers and meticulously made drawings and preserved them for posterity. The chemical structure of sildenafil is going to be the same. In fact, in most places you will find ELABORATE in depth description of a syndrome or a disease.
I purposely refrain from this 'bookish' approach. 'Bookish' info gives academic content that is generalized. For example, you will find ALL the possible effects and side effects of a medicine, but where is the one that is applicable for me.
You are in burdened in a mire of information. Information overload leading to indigestion and misinformation are biggest disadvantages for a person who is seriously looking for the right solution.
The down side is, whether I like it or not, some of my bias is going to be reflected when I discuss topics. You are free to debate and to disagree. "A candle brightens the world around it. Unfortunately, it creates a shadow of its own. It still serves the purpose it is meant for." A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
Let us go in a lighter mood.
I use words as medicines. Dr. Ashok Koparday
Word A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. A loving word may heal and bless. A friend is one who knows who you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you become, and still gently invites you to grow. A friend is someone that won't begin to talk behind your back when you leave the room. A friend is someone who dances with you in the sunlight and walks beside you in the shadows. A friend is someone who has the same enemies you have. (Abraham Lincoln) A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words. A friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart. A friend is someone who thinks you're a good egg even though you're slightly cracked.
Information overdose causing indigestion and worse, misinformation, are biggest disadvantages for a person who is seriously looking for the right solution on the internet.
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A friend was in front of me coming out of church one day, and the preacher was standing at the door as he always is to shake hands. He grabbed my friend by the hand and pulled him aside. The pastor said, "You need to join the Army of the Lord!" My friend said, "I'm already in the Army of the Lord, Pastor." Pastor questioned, "How come I don't see you except at Christmas and Easter?" He whispered back, "I'm in the secret service."
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Lotus Touts: You have 6 minutes There's some mighty fine advice in these words, even if you're not superstitious. This Lotus Touts has been sent to you for good luck from the Anthony Robbins organization. It has been sent around the world ten times so far. Do not keep this message. The Lotus Touts must leave your hands in 6 MINUTES. Otherwise you will get a very unpleasant surprise. This is true, even if you are not superstitious, agnostic, or otherwise faith impaired. Lotus Touts: You have 6 minutes
ONE.
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE.
Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. Go to top of this post
FOUR.
When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE.
When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
Did you ask me, "What is the right age for marriage?".
It is immediately after teens.
20 years to [maximum] 25 years is appropriate for both boy and the girl and the would be child.
Why?
Just one reason is elabortaed here. Sex
Couple's age
Marriage besides other things entails Social, Legal and Personal [Mature] sanction.
The Queen of Endocrine glands, Pituitary gland, has set aflame changes in sexual organs making humans capable of reproduction. Follow the biological clock. All nature obeys rhythmic timing. During winter time it is going to be cold. If just because you fancy you walk in a swimsuit in freezing cold what would you be called? It is appropriate to wear warm clothes.
RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
20 years to [maximum] 25 years
Dr. Ashok Koparday
Similarly it makes bio sense to engage in intimate physical, emotional relations after teens. As I keep telling people, in the mango season there will be mangoes, whether you wish or you do not. Ripening of mangoes is not going to wait. Similarly, do not make sexuality wait till you finish college or begin work and get settled. It is wise to go steady for a year or so till you and your well wishers are cannot resist from getting convinced that you get formally engaged. "I don't care about others." You better do. You do not live in an island, all alone, on planet earth. If your relationship starts shaking, or if you have financial difficulties or difficulties due to illnesses you require help. Your well wishers who could be your family, friends, neighbors or organizations to which you have devoted (spiritual organizations like 'Chinmaya Mission') are the ones that can help you. From Child's Point of View
Would be child will be on her/his feet when the couple is still young. When the child grows enough no more requires personal attendance and not debilitated.
FIRST KNOW THAT CIRCUMCISION IS A MINOR PROCEDURE THAT DOES NOT REQUIRE HOSPITALIZATION. IT TAKES LITTLE TIME. YOU GO HOME IN FEW HOURS. IT IS DONE IN THE OPERATION THEATER SINCE IT HAS ASEPTIC SET UP. LOCAL ANESTHESIA IS USED, SO YOU DO NOT EXPERIENCE PAIN. IT IS EASY TO DO AND EASY TO GET DONE. NOT EXPENSIVE. WHERE DO I GET CIRCUMCISION DONE? WHO DOES CIRCUMCISION? IT IS DONE BY ANY QUALIFIED SURGEON M.S. in General Surgery. IT IS NOT ESSENTIAL THAT UROSURGEON OR PLASTIC SURGEON HAS TO DO IT.
WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF CIRCUMCISION? There are web sites dedicated detailing the disadvantages of circumcision and there are, interestingly, sites detailing the advantages of circumcision. Practically for sexual and reproductive health, as well as general health circumcision has neither any advantage nor disadvantage. WHAT MAY HAPPEN IF CIRCUMCISION IS NOT DONE? In a man who's foreskin cannot be pulled back completely to expose the glans penis or the tip part of the penis there rarely may be [1] PAIN [2] BLEEDING [3] PARAPHIMOSIS
[1] PAIN Pain is experienced occasionally during vigorous sexual intercourse as the prepuce gets forcibly stretched behind. This pain is mild to moderate. It may prevent one from doing immediately another sexual intercourse. The pain rapidly decreases in a day. Sometimes the pain, which is always mild and bearable takes few more days to vanish and sexual activity can begin. GO TO TOP Fortunately this type of pain does not occur all the time. It occurs rarely in the entire full sexual life time of a man. Most people never experience such pain.
TREATMENT FOR PAIN
1 CIRCUMCISION If the pain occurs every time, then alone, one may consider surgical removal of the entire fore skin. GO TO TOP 2 KEEP PRACTICING 'PULLING BEHIND' Frequently practice pulling the foreskin behind so that it stretches and over time it can come back much more than it did initially. You may do this in the bathroom or in the place of privacy like the bedroom. You may use (soap in the bathroom) hair oil while practicing 'PULLING BEHIND'. IMPORTANT INSTRUCTION Remember to place the foreskin as it usually is, that is covering the entire tip portion of penis. If during sexual intercourse the guy experiences pain it is most of the times due incomplete retraction of penis in erect condition. GO TO TOP [2] BLEEDING The frenulum may tear a bit. This could cause bleeding noticed during sexual intercourse. Most often bleeding often without the pain. It is not serious though it can cause the couple to panic if they do not know these medical facts.
HOW COMMON IS THE BLEEDING?
Occasionally in ones life time even without the difficulty of retraction of prepuce bleeding occurs because of vigorous sexual intercourse due to abrasion. This is transitory and almost often stops by itself. GO TO TOP
TREATMENT FOR BLEEDING
Bleeding is very scary for the person/couple. Just as you would treat any bleeding from a cut or scratch or wound you
FIRST
Press the affected part for about 3 minutes. You may have to repeat this until bleeding totally stops. GO TO TOP
SECOND
Clean the genitals with water. Make sure you do not pull open to check the abrasion. This will interrupt body's natural clot mechanism, which has stopped the bleeding. If you go about checking the cut portion (affected area) oozing recurs. Follow procedure FIRST. GO TO TOP
THIRD
(a)What medication to apply? It is not advisable to apply ointment/medications/oil/medicated powder. (b) What to wear? Just wear a tight underwear so that you prevent friction on the penis. You may use a light loose clothing like a lungi so that even underwear does not rub against it. Take this care for a day or two. (c) Dressing Use clean cotton cloth to tie around the penis. It will absorb the slight bleeding and help prevent friction with clothing or body parts. You may try using sanitary napkin. This is hardly ever necessary, unless you panic and do not want to disclose to your doctor or do not have a doctor/family physician at that time to guide you. GO TO TOP
HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE FOR THE BLEEDING/OOZING OF BLOOD TO STOP?
If left undisturbed it may take up to 4 or 6 hours for the oozing of blood to stop. Natural clot that covers the broken skin, protects it and helps in total healing does the work. It should not stop you from resuming your office work once you are sure the bleeding is stopped. GO TO TOP
FOURTH
If the blood keeps of gushing out and does not stop by the above means (RARE), you are advised to visit a Urosurgeon. After examination, the Urosurgeon may apply antiseptic dressing or choose to do circumcision.
When the foreskin, which is difficult to be pulled back has comeback REMEMBER to push it forwards in its original place, that is covering the glans or the tip part of the penis. Thus let the foreskin be placed in its original position covering the entire penis.
What happens if foreskin is pulled back and left there?
Sometimes it may cause PARAPHIMOSIS. Paraphimosis is a painful. The foreskin acts as a constricting band. The glans gets swollen. You are not able to manually retract the prepuce. This is known as paraphimosis. GO TO TOP
TREATMENT OF PARAPHIMOSIS
Actual Paraphimosis photograph
CIRCUMCISION or retracting the prepuce under anesthesia.
HOW DO IN KNOW IF I NEED TREATMENT OR CIRCUMCISION WHEN MY FORESKIN DOES NOT COME BACK FULLY? To find if there is phimosis and if you need treatment is it advisable to get examined by a doctor. If necessary circumcision is done. Mere inability to draw back the prepuce during erection does not require surgical removal of foreskin. For phimosis, typically circumcision is required in childhood. In phimosis when there is inability even in passing urine and the foreskin opens minimally, circumcision is becomes necessary and is done in childhood. GO TO TOP For adults circumcision is not essential for sexual reason.
4. Hey let me hold your purse while you try that on.
3. I am taking 8 days off. Enough work. Lets go some place. Europe or Canada? Mike said he was going to France with his third wife.
2. The golden time in my life was when we were flirting. I love whispering in your ear romantic words.
1. That's expensive dear, but the diamonds will really sparkle when you wear them. I have decided. I am buying it. No more arguments.
He cares about me. I know he loves me, but he does not express it. Is there a trick or a tip to make ifference in relationship so that I experience his love. see LOVE SUTRA
Do you think men are unpredictable? Husbands are the same. Only their faces are different so that we can recognize which one is ours. Why not learn some skills to handle your hubby so that your relationSHIP sails smooooothly.
I will not give you here a thick fat book, which is more difficult to read than it is to manage a husband. I am presenting here some simple, yet powerful tips that can be implemented immediately. THE MIDAS TOUCH 1 Do not start husband improvement program even though he does things that annoy you. Like he scatters newspapers and has not been taught even the basics of tidiness by his mother. 2 You are right. He should be buying the clock well wrapped in gift paper for the next day's wedding ceremony. Whose wedding was it? His friend's. Who is irresponsible here? Did I not remind him this afternoon from my office? Now, you both had agreed upon the gift. He himself said that his friend was notorious for not keeping time and even went forth saying, "I wonder if he will be in time for his wedding muhurat". Hence, I suggested giving him a clock that speaks in human voice when the alarm is set. I wish it could pinch him too. GOLDEN RULE Yet you will not yell at him. Why burst your voice machine? Politely remind him. No shade of anger in your voice. Hence, you do not make him feel guilty. Now, look at how he cajoles his colleague and persuades him to get the stuff at the wedding hall, in time. When the wedding gift finally arrives you notice the sigh of relief on his face. Now is the time to say, "Wow! You, after all, managed to get it. Smart!" Look at the triumph on his face. MORAL OF THE STORY IS Do what you can to the best of your ability. Do not overstretch yourself. Do not play the blame game. It bounces back. If you do, you will have to play table tennis with the blame ball all your life. SECRET used here. The GUY (even if he is a nut) feels proud when he accomplishes difficult task. It does not matter if he himself makes the task difficult. We are going to use this powerful SECRET as I have described below. 3 If you want him to do something for you, do not reason out why he should be doing it. Do not tell him how you suffer because you have to manage alone your own office, kids, his parents, and home. Do not be a cry baby. Do not be a smart blame master (Misses). Request him.
Use the words, 'Please', 'Thanks', 'Sorry', liberally. You do not have to mean that you are sorry. These three words make your work easy. Dr. Ashok Koparday
BE POLITE. USE KIND WORDS whenever you want him to do something. If you know his latency period is 2 days, that is he does the said work 2 days after having agreed to do, than be wise enough to tell him at least 2 days in advance how badly you need to get the thing done and no one else can do it. He is gifted, you know. 4 Offer GENUINE PRAISE about any thing that you like about him. It could be his way of choosing garments for you when he behaves like an ATM. You can boast about this at any party to your friends, when you are sure he can listen. One other SECRET that is at play here is 'He wants to be looked up as a hero by his spouse. He reaches pinnacle of satisfaction
Sincere appreciation of any aspect of your husband is your key to winning him over. I know you are muttering that you have not found any thing worth appreciating in the last 5 years. Search for some quality that you can appreciate. Make a beginning to make your life better. Dr. Ashok Koparday
when he knows that his wife really respects him and loves him. Whenever this does not get conveyed the husband kind of homo sapiens try to impress by doing things that do not really matter to you. They may become workaholics. They may want to rise to higher position in the company or get higher and higher income. While doing all this he has no time for his wife. He has no time for his kids. They are growing and their growth cannot wait. When they grow up, how will they respond to a father who is namesake? 5 Pursue your hobbies, things you cherished doing when you were at college, but never had the time to do it. This will give you immense joy and you will not have to be at the mercy of your husband. Your cribbing at him will be much much less. This hobby, or learning of art that comes from your heart will be your solace till the end. It can nurture entire family (including the hubby) and even support people in community. If she does not know to tap in to this reservoir she becomes sad and inconsolable. Her resentment to bitter resentment towards her husband becomes solid like cement, no, like steel. She may begin to have ailments.
Woman kind of the homo sapiens have collosal energy reservoir and they are more capable of staying connected to the infinite source of energy that has been propelling Nature since eternity.
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European Cancer Organisation Study on Cancer and Sexual Behavior This study conducted by Astri Syse, an epidemiologist at the Norwegian Cancer Registry gives valuable insight in the difference between women and men when challenged with cancer of the spouse. Lesley Fallofield, who is not part of the study said that because sex is a particularly important way for young couples to cement their relationship, a cancer diagnosis that affects a couple's sex life might be very damaging.
``No patient develops cancer in a social vacuum,'' she said. ``The diagnosis will always have an impact on a loved one, and in some cases, they may decide to leave.''
Doctors must not shy away from addressing sexual issues of their patient as well as the spouse. If they do so who will talk about sex? Doctors do advice about diet, exercise, smoking, drinks. Similarly they better open up the topic of sex for their patients well being. Doctors treat human beings, not just disease entity. Dr. Ashok Koparday
Experts said that doctors treating couples in which one of them had cancer should pay more attention to how the diagnosis was affecting their relationship.
Another study presented Wednesday at the Barcelona meeting found that children of cancer patients were so affected by the news of their parent's diagnosis that they had post-traumatic stress symptoms years later.
We clearly need to be looking closer at how cancer affects a patient's loved ones,'' said Lesley Fallowfield, a professor of psycho-oncology at Sussex University. There is more to treating cancer than just medical care.''
Astri Syse, an epidemiologist at the Norwegian Cancer Registry said that her study was good news for some cancer patients. ``There's a myth that if you get breast cancer, your husband will leave you.''
In fact, she and her colleagues found that survivors of breast cancer were less likely to get divorced than similar women without the disease.
Divorce was least likely to occur when the cancer had spread, or in most fatal types of cancer.
Lesley Fallowfield, a professor of psycho-oncology at Sussex University, said that because sex is a particularly important way for young couples to cement their relationship, a cancer diagnosis that affects a couple's sex life might be very damaging. 'Certain cancers mean more divorces' 27 Sep 2007, 1357 hrs IST , AP People who develop cervical or testicular cancer may face another harsh reality: they are more likely to get divorced, a new study says.
Women with cervical cancer had a 40 per cent higher chance of getting divorced than other women.
In research presented on Thursday at a meeting of the European Cancer Organisation, Norwegian experts found that women with cervical cancer had a 40 per cent higher chance of getting divorced than other women.
Men with testicular cancer were 20 per cent more likely to get divorced than similar men without cancer. Both types of cancer are curable and mainly affect young people. "Sex could have something to do with this," said Lesley Fallowfield, a professor of psycho-oncology at Sussex University who was not connected to the study. "If men and women with cervical or testicular cancer aren't having sex with their partners, that may be a problem."
For nearly two decades, the study looked at 2.8 million people in Norway, comparing the divorce rates of 215,000 cancer survivors to those in couples with no cancer. Shortcoming of the study: They did not ask couples about the reasons for the divorces, but only looked at marriage and divorce registration data. "It seems to be worse for your marriage to get cancer early," said Astri Syse, an epidemiologist at the Norwegian Cancer Registry who led the study. But Syse said that it was only cervical and testicular cancer that produced a spike in divorces. Other types of cancer did not result in more divorces.
7 out of 10 women DO NOT LEAVE their husbands though they have cancer of testis at age 20 years
7 out of 10 men leave their wives who have cancer of the lower part of womb at 20 years age
Age 20 years with Cervical Cancer in Women 69 % Age 20 years with Testicular Cancer in Men 34 %
Normal husbands in Norway who divorce even at 60 year age 16 %
(Little less than women)
Normal wives divorce even at 60 years 19 %
Age also helped. At age 20, women were 69 per cent more likely to get divorced if they had cervical cancer. But by age 60, that risk dropped to 19 per cent. The same trend was seen in men with testicular cancer. At 20, men with testicular cancer had an increased divorce risk of 34 per cent. That fell to 16 per cent for men aged 60.
Experts thought that the break-ups could be due both to the cancers, and to the youth of the couples involved. Older couples might be more committed to each other and less likely to get divorced even when faced with a life-threatening disease.
Fallowfield said that couples affected by cancer early on in their marriage might be more likely to divorce if they had not yet had children, or if the illness caused financial hardship.
To The Editor, Times of India Sir, Subject: Cancer and Sexual Behavior A study published by Australian researchers has linked higher incidence of prostrate cancer in men who are divorced or single and do not masturbate or have sexual intercourse. Dr. Ashok Koparday Medical Director. Sexual Health though vital has been left in the hands of quacks, porn industrialists and the institute of prostitution. Sexual Health is not taught for more than 2 hours in the entire medical curriculum up to all the faculties of post-graduation except Andrology]. The 23rd National Conference of Sexologyto be held under the aegis of Council of Sex Education and Parenthood International from 28 to 30 September, 2007 has commendably taken as their theme 'Sexual Medicine: Integration in existing health scenario'. There are neuro-endocrine benefits of sex. Person who abstains from sex deprives the body of benefits accrued through sex. Dr. Ashok Koparday Medical Director Samadhan Center for Therapy, Education, Research in Sex, Marriage, Relationships. Ex. Teaching Faculty: Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals. http://milansamadhan.blogspot.com/2007/09/national-conference.html
You do not have to see it to believe it. Beware of Internet Sex Doctors. Here is a report from news.bbc.co.uk about an Internet Doctor. His Computer is stacked with child pornography and he is believed to be creating child pornography. Tribunal for Internet sex doctor
A doctor from north Wales who was jailed for using the Internet to create child pornography is due to appear appear before the General Medical Council.
Following his release, Robert Arwel Jones, 36, successfully delayed a judgment on his professional future.
He was sent to prison in February this year for four months after admitting two charges of possessing and making indecent "pseudo-photographs" of children.
Hundreds of images
Police had discovered hundreds of child pornography images on his home computer at Deganwy.
Dr Jones, who ran an alternative therapy centre in Colwyn Bay, thought he had erased the pictures, but they were retrieved by police experts.
He was banned from practising medicine on the grounds of public safety by the GMC's preliminary proceedings committee.
Dr Jones urged the conduct committee earlier this month to adjourn its hearing on his professional future so he could be properly represented at a hearing in London. Go the the beginning Previous sex convictions
In a letter through his solicitors, he told the council he wanted disciplinary action taken against him put back so he could take up a 'pro bono' offer from a barrister.
When Dr Jones was sentenced earlier this year, Recorder Peter Hughes QC accepted he had not kept the images for gain and had destroyed many of them.
But he said the prison term reflected that Dr Jones had created other images and that Dr Jones held previous convictions of a sexual nature.
The north Wales GP was also placed on the Sex Offenders Register for seven years. Tuesday, August 17, 1999 Published at 05:28 GMT 06:28 UK Source: news.bbc.co.uk/1/low/wales/422305.stm
Among all the people who have diabetes 48% do not have Erectile Dysfunction, whereas 52% do have Erectile Dysfunction caused by changes brought about by Diabetes. How Erectile Dysfunction caused by diabetes forbodes Ischemic Heart Disease (Heart Attack) as well as Cerebrovascular Accident (Stroke or paralysis) is dealt beautifully here. Click here and come back.Do not miss it.
Loosly and lightly speaking: If two men having diabetes are walking, and if one does not have Erectile Dysfunction, than according to the ratio, the other guy does have ED. All people do not have total loss of erection.
Among these 52% people with diabetes the Loss of Erection is as below. 10% - Complete 25% - Moderate 17% - Minimal
Diabetes affects sexual function in the male as well as the female.
What exactly happens? Is it impotence? Is it curable? What is the best treatment?
If you have a personal question send it with details to ask@mydoctortells.com for personalized expert medical opinion.
I recommend that you make the beginning of this informative topic from the beginning. How diabetes affected Mr and Mrs Iyer's sexual life? The will not be covered on these pages as they are beautifully elucidated here.
Sexual dysfunction is one of the common complications of diabetes mellitus The inability to engage in satisfactory sexual activity can erode the quality of life for the couple. Sexual problems can increase stress, frustration and could trigger depression.
Sexual Problems in Men and Diabetes Woman's Sexual Problems caused by Diabetes will be discussed in another chapter. Male Sexual Problem Relation between your Diabetes and the Erectile Dysfunctions
Length & severity of diabetes : The longer the duration of diabetes, and the more severe it is, the more likely is the development of ED
Type of diabetes : Men with type 1 diabetes (formerly called juvenile or insulin-dependent diabetes) are more likely than those with type 2 (formerly called adult-onset or noninsulin-dependent diabetes) to develop erectile dysfunction. [Note: According to recent scientific evidence the Type 3 Diabetes is occuring at much younger age.]
What is ED? Erectile Dysfunction [ED]is defined as- “The persistent inability to achieve or maintain an erection that is necessary for satisfying sexual intercourse.”
Note: The word persistent is important. It means consistently on all the attempts of sexual intercourse you have had this difficulty.
If you find that the above definition is not applicable and on some or even one occasion of sexual intercourse or even masturbation you have had good erection that lasted for enough time to have satisfactory sexual intercourse or masturbation than you DO NOT HAVE ED.
The Sex Therapist has to ascertain if the Erectile Dysfunction [ED]you are having is ONLY because of Diabetes so that the treatment method chosen is best for your erectile dysfunction.
How does incidence of ED in people with Diabetes compare with the incidence of ED in people not having ED. Let us find other factors that can cause ED. Those factors that put you on the list of HIGH RISK for ED.
DR. ASHOK KOPARDAY, IN HIS CLINICAL EXPERIENCE OF OVER A DECADE, HAS FOUND THAT CIRCUMCISION FOR SEXUAL REASONS IS NOT REQUIRED FOR UNMARRIED AS WELL AS MARRIED MEN. SIMPLE TECHNIQUES TO AVOID CIRCUMCISION INCLUDE 'PULLING BEHIND' EXERCISE.
To Repeat TAKE HOME MESSAGE Phimosis may cause pain during sexual intercourse, but does not cause inability to insert penis in vagina. Thus unconsummated marriage is not due to phimosis. Circumcision is usually done in new born because the opening of the foreskin is severely constricted causing difficulty while passing urine.
Adults do not need circumcision because the inability to completely pull behind fore skin does not impede sexual pleasure.
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NOT ABLE TO DO INSERTION DURING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
The single most common contributory cause of unconsummated marriage is involuntary contraction of the opening of the vagina, called as vaginismus. No insertion of penis could be because the passage door is closing while attempting insertion. This has a definite therapy and can be definitely resolved with the cooperation and commitment of the two sexual partners. animated image depicting vaginal orifice contraction Most Pictures are hidden on Google Server. They are available on special request for furthering sex education and facilitating sex treatment.
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NOT ABLE TO DO INSERTION DURING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE Here is the beginning of my post. They say After marriage we have had no sex. She says He has not been able to insert. He says I come too soon. I am not able to insert. I think I have erectile dysfunction. Am I impotent? The most likely underlying cause is 'not being experienced.' If she had or has fear at the moment of insertion or was told by friends/relatives, "Initially it pains, then it is OK. Yes, bleeding can happen, but all women do not have bleeding at FIRST SEX."
This is the knowledge with which the girl is equipped. She may be holding post graduate degree in Computer Science or Microbiology or may be a beautician. No matter what is her academic education, even if there are doctors among her family, this is the ONLY information she has.
Hindi cinema, Bollywood as we call it, is popular. Sex is something that comes in relation to 'rape' scenes. That is the impression she carries. With the hero the intimacy goes as far as running away from home to get married to kissing, not beyond.
His knowledge comes from XXX blue films, friends gossip, news magazines, ask the expert columns, Advertisements of sexologist on railway stations and in Magazines.
Experience, if ever, not being in a conducive setting is marred by either no erection or early discharge. A disappointment quietly hidden in the recesses of mind where it festers like an abscess.
If I allow you with pomp and celebration to fly and aeroplane, will you be able to do so? You require training. Correct knowledge.
So your aeroplane does not land on the honey moon, but comes crashing down. Nothing to worry. You do not have an illness. You simply need guidance.
I repeat, "Almost always the most likely underlying cause is 'not being experienced', not having correct knowledge or rather having incorrect knowledge."
A court commissioner granted Britney Spears three monitored visits a week with her two small sons while ordering the pop star to childproof her house and work out a schedule for the visits with her ex-husband Kevin Federline, according to a ruling made Tuesday. Superior Court Commissioner Scott Gordon also required that Spears undergo random weekly drug and alcohol tests. Spears, 25, also must continue meeting with a court-appointed parenting coach, and the youngsters must be in car seats when they are being driven, the ruling states.
About 90% of Khajuraho's sculptures have nothing to do with sex.
The temples were built over a period of 150 years or more.
There were once 85 temples in the Khajuraho complex. As few as 20 to 28 remain today. The temples are spread over an area of about eight square miles.
This region was the religious (but not the political) capital of India’s Chandela dynasty, during Europe’s Middle Ages.
The temples were built when the dynasty lived in power and luxury.
Some more facts and what others say about the erotic [pornographic]art.
Khajuraho Today
British engineer T. S. Burt found the temples in the mid-1800's.
(Read below his description of how disgusting the art was.)
There is no nightlife or luxury at Khajuraho today.
Nothing cool at Khajuraho. It is situated in one of India’s hotter and arid corners.
Temples are actually in Madhya Pradesh near the village of Khajuraho (about 350 miles southeast of New Delhi)
It is one of India’s most popular tourist destinations.
The Khajuraho temple complex is India’s largest group of medieval Hindu temples.
One cluster of the temples is listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site.
One can see erotic (some would say explicit) sculptures decorating the exterior of so many of the temples. However, the temples’ sculptures are intended to illustrate portions of a Hindu religious text on love, the Kama Sutra.
In India today Conservative Hindus are offended by depictions of the gods as nude or sexually active.
The Most Popular Theories religious (but not the political) capital of India’s Chandela dynasty, during Europe’s Middle Ages.
The temples were built when the dynasty lived in power and luxury.
Some more facts and what others say about the erotic [pornographic]art.
Khajuraho Today
British engineer T. S. Burt found the temples in the mid-1800's.
(Read below his description of how disgusting the art was.)
There is no nightlife or luxury at Khajuraho today.
Nothing cool at Khajuraho. It is situated in one of India’s hotter and arid corners.
Temples are actually in Madhya Pradesh near the village of Khajuraho (about 350 miles southeast of New Delhi)
It is one of India’s most popular tourist destinations.
The Khajuraho temple complex is India’s largest group of medieval Hindu temples.
One cluster of the temples is listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site.
One can see erotic (some would say explicit) sculptures decorating the exterior of so many of the temples. However, the temples’ sculptures are intended to illustrate portions of a Hindu religious text on love, the Kama Sutra.
In India today Conservative Hindus are offended by depictions of the gods as nude or sexually active.
The Most Popular Theories
1. The temples’ sculptures are intended to illustrate portions of a Hindu religious text on love, the Kama Sutra.
2. The Chandela dynasty was involved in a Tantric cult; Tantric mysticism teaches that the gratification of sexual desire is part of the path to self-knowledge and “the infinite”. The art may have illustrated Tantric rites. Related to this explanation is the possibility that the Chandelas were involved in a form of Shaktism, a type of Hinduism that focuses on feminine aspects of divinity.
3. The sculptures might simply show scenes from everyday life in Chandela India at a time when the dynasty lived in power and luxury.
4. The art was an effort to draw followers away from aesthetic Buddhism and back to Hindu family life. 5. EXPRESSING SHOCK (by the British engineer T. S. Burt) The images are graphic and unabashed: there is kissing and caressing; nudity, both male and female; twosomes and threesomes, foursomes and fivesomes and on to orgies with ten or more participants; acts of intercourse that seem to defy gravity; passion, self-gratification, intimacy, and (occasionally) bestiality. TO SUM UP The erotic art of Khajuraho - its motivation and significance - is probably something that will remain controversial and unresolved for decades. The extent of the disagreement is profound and it is clear that commentators who want to promote their own views regardless of the facts put forth a fair amount of revisionism. Sexuality is perfectly natural and Hinduism celebrates the acts of life, they say. They want to see the Chandelas as representatives of a healthy, mainstream Hinduism and ignore the fact that the builders of the temples at Khajuraho were likely part of a Tantric sect on the fringe of Hinduism and that those ideas did not seem to gain wider acceptance in the rest of India.
What would happen if such nude pictures were painted or carved on temple wall in today's modern, advanced time? Bloodshed and massacre. If such defilement is done today on an existing temple, it can trigger not a small battle but a bloody war that can flare into national or world war. Peace, safety, and sanctity will be destroyed leaving a painful sensitive, scar for the coming generations. Do I need to give example of such a religious/racial war? To resolve the paradox, it is essential to have a clear idea of sex, god, and life. One needs to know clearly meaning of the words vulgar, perverted, and dirty, sex, religion, divine, god, prayer, meditation, and temple.
THEN = ANCIENT
Religion, Rules, and Ruler Why was erotic sculpture possible then? When Kings ruled the prosperous India in ancient times, the Masters or Religious Saints/Scholars were the supreme elite. Even the King revered them and obeyed their sayings.
Masters stipulated governance of State or life. Compilation of such rules of conduct is called the 'Smruti'. Religion was not limited to Sunday, but was implemented in all the life's activities. Therefore, it can be said that the core or pith of religion as envisaged by the religious Masters of that period was enshrined in the architectural design of Khajurao temple.
Why sexual intercourse, nude sculptures were chosen in the temples of Khajurao? Earlier you saw erotic-sculpture-temple-india-1 Sexual Pleasure takes a person to extreme form of joy that involves all sense organs, the mind, and the intellect. Sculptures depicting Sexual Postures represent all worldly pleasures (Kama), and means to them that would come under righteous conduct (Dharma), and accumulation of wealth/knowledge/skills (Artha).
Dharma
Artha
Kama
Moksha
All human beings seek well meaning, fulfilling life. For such a life, four goals (Purushartha) or pursuits are described as below. First is [ धर्म ]Dharma (Righteous conduct). Second is [ अर्थ ]Artha (striving for wealth and knowledge). Third is [ काम ]Kama (all aspects of pleasure). Fourth is [ मोक्ष ]Moksha (liberation from all seeking having attained the Supreme) धर्म अर्थ काम मोक्ष
1 From the lower to the Supreme 'Sexual postures' on the walls outside represent all pleasures that can be derived from the world outside. 'Idol' in the sanctum sanctorum is the divine spark within each of us. Our body is the 'Temple'.
The external sense organs through the mind and intellect undeniably give pleasures. Sex, is a representative signifying any pleasure, even the most paramount, and the climax. All throughout our life, from the cradle to the grave, we indulge in activities in the pursuit of pleasure.
2 Creation - Creator Why is sex auspicious? Why there is no contradiction? Why sex is not equal to sin? The three paragraphs below elaborate single theme. A Creation of life is a fact. Sex is necessary for normal creation. Creator of the world has designed sexual organs as well as sexual function. Therefore, sex cannot be anything but auspicious. B We see the creation of plants and animals. Therefore, sex, which is the principle requirement for procreation and so sweetly amalgamated with pleasure, is Creator's design. Just as eyes are 'to see', legs are 'to walk' so are genitals or sex for 'pleasure'. It is natural. Where does harm or sin come in sex? C There is Creation so we infer there is Creator. We may label it as the God. Sex is natural and necessary aspect of creation of life. Hence, Sex as a part of Creation is the work of God. Sex is holy. How can it be otherwise?
KAMASUTRA This is a thesis consisting of vivid descriptions with sex positions that seem to be forward for our times. It explains about the Art of Love Making and is not just a manual of Sex Positions.
3 Creativity Sex is representative of all Creativity. Hence, no wonder it was given an honor of place as a symbol of Creativity. 4 Sex Education It stamps the religious sanction for Sex Education of an advanced country.
5 Ancient Times Early medieval times It reflects the life style, luxuries of those times. Sex is not sin and shun. Truly, religious and social sanction is hallmark of erudite, well-cultured society where sex, which is healthy, beautiful, free of cost, and natural, is adored. Such a healthy socio-cultural attitude towards sex helps reap full benefits of SEX for the individual, the couple, and the society. फ्रॉम खजुराव Take Home Message The learning derived from the Temples at Khajurao in India is simple, uncomplicated, and crystal clear. Sex = Sin is illogical. The belief that sex is sinful, and something to be shunned or abhorred is senseless. Give it up.
Sex with all the variations in mutual sex play is not abnormal, unnatural, or detestable. What a distorted belief, a burden of blunder we carry with us.
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KHAJURAO: TEMPLE OR PORN? Why Pornography on the walls of temple in India? In the ancient Temples at Khajurao in India, you will see one of the finest arts of sculptures glowing with rare mystic beauty. The awesome erotic sculptures on the temple walls in Khajurao in India have never ceased to amaze and evoke mystery. A sexologist from India demystifies and reveals the meaning of this strange contradiction. Also, see the pictures of the temple yourself.
What is the first impression at Khajurao?Religious Temple with the idol of the God divine inside and vulgar sexual postures of naked men and women in all sorts of sexual acts including what may be called dirty, perverted sexual acts carved outside on the walls of the same temple would appear as an anathema. How can Vulgar be Auspicious? What a striking contradiction! InferenceIn ancient times, in the then advanced country, India, Sex was considered natural, respectable, desirable aspect of life. A sensuous gift of nature. Interpretation 1 Spiritual SignificanceWhat is the benefit? What is the purpose of showing sexual postures on the walls of temple? What is the rationale?
Through the temple the message given by the Rishi is: "Knowing the outside world now realize that NOTHING can give lasting joy in the ephemeral world outside, hence TURN INSIDE to reach the sanctum sanctorum of the temple wherein is JOY INFINITE."
Anatomy and Physiology of Pleasure and The path to the SupremeThe divinity is within each of us. Our body is the temple. Sculptures represent all worldly pleasures and pursuits. Human being derives all pleasure, from the most trivial to the highest, through sense organs, mind, and intellect. At the root of all our actions is the desire to seek the pleasant or to avoid the unpleasant. The Sculptures convey that knowledge about ways of seeking pleasure, or code of conduct related to harmonious living is essential.
Is this knowledge enough for total fulfillment that lasts forever and no further seeking is required? The door to the temple symbolizes the gateway to the realm of bliss. The path that takes you to the temple away from the sensuous sculptures is the biggest blessing to human kind. It is the way to discover the Supreme by SELF REALIZATION, that has been mastered and propagated from Teacher (Guru) to the Taught (Seeker)
Is homosexuality weird and disdainful? What does Medical Science say? What does Law say? How do homosexuals feel? How society treats homosexuality? What is the plight of those who are homosexual. Interesting and important is it not?
Medical Science is in agreement that homosexuality is not a disease. There is no treatment as there is no disease.
Example: Just as left handed person is not sick person and to change him to be right handed is foolish.
The trouble is because people around [society] does not view it as a different form of sexual preference. The Law is changing in different parts of the world and homosexuality is legally permitted. Specifically for homosexual For a person who considers himself/herself to be homosexual the above information is vital. Let us see (only one point is discussed here)what can be done to help the person, who is a human being first and homosexual if at all later.
If you sometimes get aroused by the so called opposite sex than you are bisexual. Sometimes people label themselves wrongly and suffer.
Bisexuals can marry and live in conformity with society if they wish to. They may actually not be homosexuals but have mislabeld themselves because of few instances of sex play with same sex partners. This is not uncommon in hetrosexuals.
Counseling Consulting a competent therapist will help relieve distress. Counseling can systematically sort out a person's problems and get her/him back in an acceptable manner.
What are the criteria for rating a movie as 'Adults'? How does censor board save our families from exposure to content that are not in taste, leaving often harmful hints on the impressionable minds of children?. The criteria are:
pervasive graphic sexuality and nudity,
for nudity and erotic sexuality throughout
strong and aberrant sexual content;
sensuality, nudity
for strong sexual content involving teens,
a sex scene and
strong sex-related dialogue,
extensive use of extremely explicit sex-related dialogue
Awards for Pornographic film Barcelona hosts an annual Spanish Pornographic film festival. Do you want to know, which erotic films got award? You have the name of the porn film and the year in which it received the award. Barcelona International Erotic Film Festival, or FICEB - Festival Internacional de Cine Erótico de Barcelona is an annual Spanish pornographic film film festival and awards ceremony.
The FICEB has three awards for different categories of pornographic films,
the Ninfa (Nymph) for heterosexual pornography,
the HeatGay for gay pornography films and
the Tacón de Aguja (High heel or Stiletto heel) for BDSM and sexual fetish films.
It is analogous to Hot D'Or film festival of Cannes. Star Appearances Film awards and star appearances, the five days of FICEB include hundreds of strip-tease and live sex shows, as well as a lingerie show and a sex product fair. About 50,000 people attended the festival in 2005 and 2006. (Basque) "Hezea eta beroa: Euskalsex topaketaren antolatzaileek erotismoaren alorrera hedatu nahi omen dute hizkuntza normaltzeko ahalegina", Xabier G. Arguello, 2007-05-27, International Herald Tribune.
Adult movie awards Changes in ratings are due to resubmission or appeal by a film's producers. Films receiving an NC-17 are often cut and resubmitted in hopes of earning an R rating, which allows distribution to more outlets than an NC-17 rating.
Rated NC-17 by the Motion Picture Association of America's Classification and Rating Administration (CARA).
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WOMEN's PERIOD - pass this to all females that you know! Female Alert From: Sangita Inamdar Date: Nov 5, 2007 7:31 PM
In the past week, Nicole Dishuk, aged 31 a newly graduated student with a doctoral degree who's about to start her new career as a Doctor, wasflown into a nearby hospital, because she had passed out.
They found a blood clot in her neck, and immediately took her by helicopter to the ER to operate. By the time they removed the right half ofher skull to relieve the pressure on her brain; the clot had spread to her brain causing severe damage.
From last Wednesday night, she had been battling. They induced her into a coma to stop the blood flow, operated 3 times and finally, they said there was nothing left that they could do. They found multiple clots in the left side of her brain. The swelling would not stop, and she was on life support.
She died at 4:30 yesterday. She leaves behind a husband, 2 year old Brandon and 4 year old Justin. The CAUSE of DEATH - A birth controlinjection she was getting that allows you to only have your period three times a year.. It interrupts your menstrual cycle, and although it is FDA approved, it shouldn't be!
So to the women in my address book - I ask you to boycott this product & deal with your cycle once a month so that you can live the rest of yourlife in a healthier manner. Remember, you have a CYCLE for a reason....
Please send this to every woman you know - you may save someone's Life...
I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is.
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